04/26 Adda Annex: Deny thy father,refuse thy name?

The Chaos of being in love...

now finally touches the families

Apart from the extremeley fabulous enactment by each actor today, i loved the way the reactions of the two fathers converged...daddy Cool and TN are very different individuals..each nurturing a predicament against the other one for very different reasons...yet the jolt they got from their respective kids was exactly the same....abeer and leher's romantic rebel shook the fathers in them to the core..in exactly the same way...shock and disbelief !! 😲😲😲

For obvious reasons, of course I prefer Daddy cool's reasons for being unhappy with leher than TN's reasons...in fact the reasons why mathurs are mad are more sane than the reasons why the Bajpais are mad....Mathurs are unhappy because Leher has chosen a life with people who have no respect for them...the Bajpais are mad because Abeer has chosen a life with people they have no respect for.....The Mathurs are unhappy coz leher has put her family's honor at stake...the bajpais are mad because Abeer has diluted the intimidating level of honor they had successfully maintained for so long

I also find the stark difference, yet the similarity in the reactions of the parents very very interesting....in leher's house there's a silent submission..what harm she has already done cannot be undone...she was reprimanded for lying, for keeping her family away from the truth and putting her father and family in a severely uncomfortable situation...in abeer's house, he is being rebuked for not following his familial footsteps and speaking up against the head of the family......but both parents believe that the kids have misused their liberty...i loved it when abeer asked what his fault actually was...loving (in general) or loving the dushman's daughter? 👏👏....and i did not like the way sudha questioned his maturity to understand what love is...well, sometimes, its better to not have the maturity and ignore some obvious obstacles than to act matured and perpetuate the ills..i am sure sudha will understand in due course how matured her son is actually....he is surely not as immatured as madhav was, who was more romantic about being a rebel than actually standing up for his love..i am sure aapna hero can pull off the latter with much more conviction 😍

as for breaking trusts and going for the khadoos neighbor.......ab kya kare dad(s) 😆...a consumer always chooses from the avaiable basket of goods and services na....rationality hai..utility maximization after all 😆...ek to poori lucknow mein each of the kids choose the best they could 😍 (baaki options were shadaab 🤔, gaurav 🤔, deepa 🤔 and omi ) and topping that was convinience 😳., cost minimization u see😆..no cost incurred 😳...chhat pe jao aur ishq ladao 😆....for this atleast the two deserve a pat on their backs.....kuch ho na ho, the kids have great sense of business and economics 👍🏼😆

i am completely with the disappointed dads today..🤓...TN ki to bolti hi bandh ho gayi .😆..daddy cool though found his strength back for some unknown reason😕 😆....waisey why does daadi keep on calling leher kulta?!! 😲...was she not with her grandson only? 😔..and it was cliche but so sadly true when everyone was questioning why leher went along with abeer in that empty house 😕..thus making her character questionable 😭.arre look at the bright side na!😒...does it not go on to show how much trust she has on abeer?

with the impending engagement, i am sure the families wil try to get past of the chaos (apparently), but kul will not approve of daddy cool's support to leher for sure...neither will omi sit idle....but even if these two are ignored for now, the prime reason that might worsen things is the lingering lack of respect of these two families for each other....i dont think its desirable for leher to go to a family where no soul respects her as an individual...whatever reason be it (be it daadi/TN's prejudices 🤢 or sudha's peacemaking gandhari act 😆)....i'd rather see leher become abeer's bride when she is accepted whole heartedly....in the meanwhile abeer (and leher) will have ample reasons to show why "yeh pyar na hoga kam".....its a fight for honor and respect too after all 😳

overall...again, fantastic episode with no loose moments..loved leher and abeer being so sure about their love...loved the dismayed fathers ⭐️⭐️⭐️

Fab analysis Sanju....loved ur economics lesson 🤣....these two picked the best and Abeer grabbed the opportunity at the very first sight, smart kid, must be a topper in economics🤣, though he had to spend a li'l bit on all the paraphernalia and gifts and outings as the chath ka romance pe deewar laga diya gaya😕

Originally posted by: kimpan

Fab analysis Sanju....loved ur economics lesson 🤣....these two picked the best and Abeer grabbed the opportunity at the very first sight, smart kid, must be a topper in economics🤣, though he had to spend a li'l bit on all the paraphernalia and gifts and outings as the chath ka romance pe deewar laga diya gaya😕

😆 kim...abeer sure can make a great economist 😆....so much so that even bhagwan didn;t want him to "spend"...issliye laga diya perforated deewar 🤣...though bhagwan could not really prevent the choona of dus hazar jo omi bhaiya ne laga diya 🤔, yet the costs of purple cakes, candles and rose petals were saved 😆...classic case of god proposes, man in love disposes 🤣

just saw the episode

Originally posted by: devilsadvocate

just saw the episode

feel so bad for brij

and like pointed out in the adda i loved the brij and TN's reaction...loved the actor whos playing brij, he is really gd .......the similarity of being rebelled against by ur own child was amazingly portrayed.........i just dont understand sudha's reaction at the end...whethr its from the pain of being humiliated by her family or being humiliated because of what abeer actually did....😕

abeer and leher were amazing in their confession to their parents...i loved it.... loved abeer's question to sudha....overall the episode wasnt overtly dramatic...it was very realistic and brilliantly handled.....thank u destructives....now plz give us Abeer ☢️ Omi

meera....i think sudha's reaction showed her despair....she knows how she will be humiliated for abeer's conduct...also she is the perpetual peacekeeper of the family...she herself never even considers confrontation as an option...she had seen what ruckus was caused during madhav's marriage and surely doesn't want history to be repeated yet again....it was her way of discouraging abeer and asking him to stay away from it

i found it normal and natural...she definitely needs time to realize and understand if abeer-leher's affair has depth at all or not...it might actually be only impulsive...i am sure given time and reasons enough..she might very well come around and stand up for abeer..she afterall is not crooked like her beloved husband and his mother

Great review!! Agree completely!

LOL was funny what u said about the kids economics. lol

@ Sanju👏👏👏
👏👏👏👏HAila teache rji!!!!⭐️
⭐️I always used to think till i read your adda that economics is one that I could never understand and is very tough for me. I've changed my view, when I read your interpretation, now it is fun and easy to understand if AbHer's example would be given.( chalo yaar thoda mujhe bhi seekha do aisa likhna)

BTW are you kidding??? Asking and expecting Laden to let US rule over afganistan???? 🤣🤣She is not going to keep quite, forget about heart waming welcome of Laher by daadi. TN dad will sulk yeah Sudha will be fine so as baanke.

@sanjU; ek baat toh daat deni padegi. dono chahe bachelor's of jo bhi ho le rahe hain..but economics mein A+ hi aaya hoga haha

Sanju, and I loved your analysis, loved the differences you pointed out between Vajpayees and Mathurs, loved your economics theory, and loved your comments on Abeer-Sudha scene. 😊

I have just seen the last part of the episode (Abeer-Sudha scene), will watch the whole episode later on in the evening. Initially, even I did not like Sudha telling Abeer that he is not mature enough to understand what love is an that she thought AbHer may have done something wrong in that apartment. Did not she see the cute promises they were making in the live video. How can she think Abeer will cross the limit, I did not expect this from her at least. But I can understand, she is angry/humiliated/confused right now, so fine no problems. But the thing about saying he is yet immature and young to understand love, well Sudhaji, you were planning to get Abeer married at this age. If Abeer is marriage material already, then he for sure is mature enough to know whom he wants to spend his life with. Its not like Abeer has had 10 secret affairs by now, and Lehar is just the 11th time pass one, this time only coming out in public. In fact Abeer from the very first time he saw Lehar knew he wanted to be with her, though he realized this only during the holy time when Lehar left him...ofcourse all this Sudha does not know. But the thing is, how old was TN when he got married, I am sure not more than 21/22. And if Abeer can marry any girl right now, then why not someone he knows well and if not love (according to Sudha), then atleast has immense respect and liking for. The only problem is that she is from a different caste, but in Sudha's rational mind, this should not be a problem.

Sanju, like you said, once Sudha realizes the depth of AbHer relationship, she will eventually understand that Lehar is perfect for Abeer and that her lalla has finally grown up. Right now she does not realize this, thats why she said all this to Abeer. Plus, she does not want another M-R fiasco in her house, specially not regarding her lalla. Thats why, its easier to convince Abeer to back out (if only she knew the depth of Abeer's love) than convince TN-Boodha to agree for AbHer. And I loved the questions posed by Abeer to Sudha. Infact Sudha had no answer to his questions, and kind of knew that he was right, therefore she ended the conversation irrationally and walked off. Give Sudha some time, and she will eventually come around and support AbHer.

And in the precap I feel, Brij caught Lehar either talking to Abeer or telling something private to Bittan, which Brij should not have heard. I dont think so he is throwing Lehar outside the house. He just wants to make some official announcement, confront Lehar, or wants Lehar to speak the truth in front of all, something along those lines. What I would love to see is Lehar talking to Abeer on phone, Brij catching her talk on phone, Abeer on the other side realizing that Brij caught Lehar as she did not switch off her cell phone, and then Abeer running to Mathur house thinking Lehar is in trouble, defending Lehar......declaring to Brij that he loves her a lot and then finally having a private conversation with him (dont want Kul around) about how serious he is regarding his relationship with Lehar. 😊 I just have a feeling that this whole Brij dragging Lehar will some how end on a positive note, with Brij forgiving Lehar (dont know). Now, I would love to see Brij and Sudha, on both sides, realizing the depth of AbHer's love & unbreakable bond, before engagement talks comes up.

sanju.. ur analysis is the best.. ur economic theory will put even economics teachers to shame😉