What attracts you to guy/girl? (Credit : Vi's answer)

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C0raline

@C0raline

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

Ladkiyo Aur mere pyare Wally,

I was planning to post this for a while. I initially thought that I can post this one as a poll but polls are closed ended and I would like more open ended answers.

(I am already dreading Radha's answers to this one) 😆😆😆

I was wondering what I will find attractive in Mukhiji (Yes, Portrayed by Eijaz so he looks like him, ab khush? 😆)

I liked Eijaz's voice a lot (Mukhiji says a lot of good stuff with that voice so added bonus). You can say I have a fetish for voice.

I LOVE baritones. Even in music. I love classic Jazz singers a lot. (My scientific minded husband told me it is due to evolutionary instincts, as it denotes high testosterones 😆)

So for me it is :

1. Voice
2. Twinkle in the eyes (or smiling eyes as my sister calls them)

What is it for you girls and guys?

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..wateva..

@..wateva..

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

Edit: Taking clue from Vi's answer below.😆

For me it would be.. sense of humor, wit, sensitivity to situations and people and how they treat people are major things to get started.

Edited by ..wateva.. - 8 years ago

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violette

@violette

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

@cora:

Ur hubby is so right! 👍🏼 it's interesting how evolutionary thing acts subconsciously on our conscious minds.. our choices and preferences r heavily influenced by it and we don't even know...

Coming back to the topic

I m attracted to wits, humor and good character... That's prime requisites...with a dash of naughtiness and child like playfulness...

Looks r secondary bt I prefer slight rustic looks in private and a sleek neat look in public..

Don't really like fake showy ppl and m immensely attracted to grounded simple n true ppl like mukhiji..👍🏼

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Tshaheen

@Tshaheen

Explorer

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: C0raline
Ladkiyo Aur mere pyare Wally,

I was planning to post this for a while. I initially thought that I can post this one as a poll but polls are closed ended and I would like more open ended answers.

(I am already dreading Radha's answers to this one) 😆😆😆

I was wondering what I will find attractive in Mukhiji (Yes, Portrayed by Eijaz so he looks like him, ab khush? 😆)

I liked Eijaz's voice a lot (Mukhiji says a lot of good stuff with that voice so added bonus). You can say I have a fetish for voice.

I LOVE baritones. Even in music. I love classic Jazz singers a lot. (My scientific minded husband told me it is due to evolutionary instincts, as it denotes high testosterones😆)

So for me it is :

1. Voice
2. Twinkle in the eyes (or smiling eyes as my sister calls them)

What is it for you girls and guys?

1)I love love his expressional voice (( I just die for)
2) His Mukhi acts like his walk,body language,his sitting style (I can't imagine anyone)
3)I love his big hands(I am hand fetish ,I love men big hand )specially when he cup Aru's face I just go crazy!!!
4)His smirks,frowns.

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Kavila

@Kavila

Sparkler

+ 2

Posted: 8 years ago

The physical appearance matter the most today unfortunately

But for me it doesn't matter ...all is that a good sense of humour intelligence loyality and mostly a true human.

A person who disclose bisep or price tag ..aren't cup of my tea.

It's the heart which matter the most...

No I am not telling they can't be good but a kind and a good heart is what attracts u the most I guess..

And honestly The most important thing is the eyes and the voice.

Eyes is the mirror of ones personality

And voice is the hand of it...

That's was the main reason why I adore and love eijaz...the most..😳

The aspect like hot sexy and edible comes latter for me ...

Smile eyes voice and a good and flawed heart ...is what makes a men attractive..

And eijaz has passed the card with distinction..

And also his sense of humour the guy is epitome of talent.

Kinda beauty with brains ..

Similarly in real life too I would like to have all this qualities into my future life partner..

Looks is just a matter of game..all you need is the heart to heart connect despite of differences one couple shares !

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-RadhaRani-

@-RadhaRani-

Trailblazer

+ 4

Posted: 8 years ago

In Mukhi Ji His Mardangi (Manhood) 😳 same thing attracts me on other men too.

In Eijaz He Match Like My Party's Umeedwar😆

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dushturain

@dushturain

Rocker

Posted: 8 years ago

Okay for me I undergo a small series of tests before letting myself fall for a guy:

The first thing I look in a guy is his height. (myself being 5 ft 7). If he is tall enough then I proceed to look at him 2nd time in not a platonic way. So you may say the first thing that attracts me towards a guy is his height.

Then I check his behaviour, how he interacts with people. Is he helpful?? is he a listener or talker?? is he humble or arrogant???is he witty or dull?? All these can be assessed seeing how he interacts with other people. This phase is called observation.

Sense of humour is a very big deal for me. A guy needs to hv a sense of humour. Other wise he is out.

If he pass this test then I proceed to next phase.

Next phase being direct interaction. I talk to him, try to see how he is, what is his personality??? when we talk is there a spark between us?? can he make me laugh?? is he caring??? Am I bored talking to him???Is he smart?? can he do sweet???

If he passes this test as well. Then I give him a chance to flirt with me or even maybe I will flirt with him. who knows. But truth be told every tall guy in my life has gone through this phases even though they didnt know about it.

Apart from these, I don't care about a guy's looks, his complexion or his weight. If I contemplate spending rest of my life with a guy he needs to have a good heart for my own benefit. (my selfish reasons).

All other boys who do not qualify in this test or do not pass are either my brothers or friendzoned.

I have been using this method since long time. It is foolproof. You girls should try it too.

Edited by dushturain - 8 years ago

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Mihrimah Ahmed

@ShadeOfWhite

Stunner

+ 4

Posted: 8 years ago

Mukhiji- extremely humble, and has the cutest smile, his positive and forward views on life...haan main chahti hu woh thoda ashlil bane kyukii chichorapanti bhi zaroori hai😆

Eijaz- good looks, wit, naughty smile..!😳

In Men- height, voice, lean body, stubble if suits and wit😎

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Mallika

@malkasub

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

Cora... what a post!

Here's my list of attractive qualities:

Mukhiji - extremely down to earth, no ego, genuine, decisive, intelligent and his respect for women. I like his look in this show too... kind of south indian earthy look. I'm not much of fan of clean shaven, fair, gelled hair, suit boot type!

Eijaz - also genuine, cute, educated, great sense of humour and comes across as a well rounded personality who is happy in his own skin.

Love them both ❤️

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Carry

@Doc.love

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#10

Zabardast post C0ra!! 👍🏼

If its Mukhiji,then I will get attracted to him no matter what.. 😛

For Eijaz, I will have a little bit reservations.. 😛 Actually he resembles a colleague of mine and I never got along well with him. I hope Eijaz is not like him in real life... 😊

Major turn offs for me in a man are Anger, Arrogance, Stupidity and Over Smartness

Now coming to what attracts me in men:

- Intelligence

-Humbleness

-Wit and Humor

-Keen sense of responsibility ( In everything like money matters, emotional matters etc.)

-Smart handling of different situations

-Level headedness (I get angry very quickly and my husband is responsible to cool me down in those times... 😛 He himself is a very calm person.)

-Keen sense of responsibility towards one's family. (I love people esp men who are family oriented)

-Charming personality

Looks do not matter much,but if the man is good looking, then its a plus point! 😉

The way he handles a woman is what makes him a man. If hes a macho and as handsome as a Greek God, but he doesn't treat his woman nicely, courteously and equally-Hes a major flop for me.

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