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..wateva..

@..wateva..

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Posted: 8 years ago

#11

Originally posted by: dushturain
Okay for me I undergo a small series of tests before letting myself fall for a guy:

The first thing I look in a guy is his height. (myself being 5 ft 7). If he is tall enough then I proceed to look at him 2nd time in not a platonic way. So you may say the first thing that attracts me towards a guy is his height.

Then I check his behaviour, how he interacts with people. Is he helpful?? is he a listener or talker?? is he humble or arrogant???is he witty or dull?? All these can be assessed seeing how he interacts with other people. This phase is called observation.

Sense of humour is a very big deal for me. A guy needs to hv a sense of humour. Other wise he is out.

If he pass this test then I proceed to next phase.

Next phase being direct interaction. I talk to him, try to see how he is, what is his personality??? when we talk is there a spark between us?? can he make me laugh?? is he caring??? Am I bored talking to him???Is he smart?? can he do sweet???

If he passes this test as well. Then I give him a chance to flirt with me or even maybe I will flirt with him. who knows. But truth be told every tall guy in my life has gone through this phases even though they didnt know about it.

Apart from these, I don't care about a guy's looks, his complexion or his weight. If I contemplate spending rest of my life with a guy he needs to have a good heart for my own benefit. (my selfish reasons).

All other boys who do not qualify in this test or do not pass are either my brothers or friendzoned.

I have been using this method since long time. It is foolproof. You girls should try it too.

Oh yeah I forgot to mention height in my list lol. I do have a observation phase too ... First n foremost he needs to be taller than me, I'm 5'8 so its kinda important n actually helps to filter faster lol. Sense of humor and how he treats people follows next.

I almost have similar to yours approach 😃

Edited by ..wateva.. - 8 years ago

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A4Anjie

@A4Anjie

Dazzler

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Posted: 8 years ago

#12

Why I like Mukhi's character Or what do I like in a man...

His Simple living High thinking...lifestyle...(he lives in small village ...thinkin is far better than Ghanshool...LOL)

Inside out personality with transparent character... (again a lot better than Ghanshool and durjan...)

Understanding and supportive nature...

Look comes at last...husky voice, height with a little rough n tough...not a big fan of machos...

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Wally (Rinku)

@Spartan187

Explorer

Posted: 8 years ago

#13

Lol Cora, thank you for including me in your post ;)

Why i am laughing is i sent you my writing on what i think love, sex, romance is and what i want in a partner so how do I condense all that here?!

In short, I want it all, i like women who are physically fit and active, sharp featured, sharp dressers, like the girl from Beyhadh. Height/Weight don't matter, fitness does. They have to possess emotional intelligence and have an ability to communicate their awareness and have a streak of curiosity about things. They should have a hunger for life, to travel, to help others, to be humble. Who enjoy being a foodie and being a social drinker.

A woman who can take the lead in situations and then also be led, strong yet feminine, classy on the outside and a sexy freak behind closed doors 😉

The things like honesty, sense of humor, being genuine, trustworthy, to me those aren't things you should have to look for, they should be a given, mandatory, who wants an unfunny liar you can't trust 🤣

To me the main thing is, you have to offer whatever it is that you ask for, meaning you can't be asking for things and qualities in your partner that you yourself don't bring to the table, if you are a boring, fat, quiet person, then you really can't be asking for a fit, energetic loud person right.

If you are a 6/10, then don't be setting your standards for a 9/10 😛

Also Cora, i will say that your quality such as the deep voice is actually true, having dated online where you usually talk on the phone, I have been told that my voice is nice and deep, manly and that's something that really resonates with a woman, they don't want a man who sounds like a boy lol.

Physically the first thing I was always asked by Indian girls was height, you can have the face of a monkey but if you're tall, you have it made lol, other races don't emphasize it very much.

Finally, Niyati is fit, healthy, intelligent, passionate, classy, a foodie and mature for her age so i can see her as someone I find attractive

Edited by Spartan187 - 8 years ago