About Dharmista

Personally I find Jia Mustafa very pretty. I love her instagram account and her fashion sense. But I am just fed-up seeing her crying so much in the show. She looks awful while crying. Specially with her lips stretching wide horizontally from one ear to another. So can she please find some other way to cry??

True...see, what I think is that apart from Aru-Mukhi story now and Mukhi-Mishri dynamics previously, this show actually lacks in stitching the loose threads of the stories of the other characters properly. Those bits are always treated haphazardly...Saanvi's back-story is still not known, Mishri's adoption details and reasons are not known, Lalji toh just disappeared...exactly the same way as 40 Lakhs. The liquor hide-out in Amboli and the follow-up of the same never happened...so this, I feel, has always been a defect in writing...the writers are only concentrating on Aru-Mukhi (which is fine) and are kind of rushing through the other sequences.
So, what I believe is that if all the segments are given a deft attention, then we need not introduce many new characters as angles and need not have painful separation between the leads. Aru-Mukhi can be together even though in different places and sail through the deeds of these lame characters together. They must be shown to be evolving and growing together in this relationship...against all odds. I can see a lot of story potential in the Arjan-Uma duo as well.
I agree with this post, yes...the unanswered questions must be brought in and treated with required adequacy...without however distorting the leads in any way.
By the way, interesting character analysis of Dharmi...never thought of her in this way!!

Originally posted by: Debashri123

True...see, what I think is that apart from Aru-Mukhi story now and Mukhi-Mishri dynamics previously, this show actually lacks in stitching the loose threads of the stories of the other characters properly. Those bits are always treated haphazardly...Saanvi's back-story is still not known, Mishri's adoption details and reasons are not known, Lalji toh just disappeared...exactly the same way as 40 Lakhs. The liquor hide-out in Amboli and the follow-up of the same never happened...so this, I feel, has always been a defect in writing...the writers are only concentrating on Aru-Mukhi (which is fine) and are kind of rushing through the other sequences.
So, what I believe is that if all the segments are given a deft attention, then we need not introduce many new characters as angles and need not have painful separation between the leads. Aru-Mukhi can be together even though in different places and sail through the deeds of these lame characters together. They must be shown to be evolving and growing together in this relationship...against all odds. I can see a lot of story potential in the Arjan-Uma duo as well.
I agree with this post, yes...the unanswered questions must be brought in and treated with required adequacy...without however distorting the leads in any way.
By the way, interesting character analysis of Dharmi...never thought of her in this way!!

Dharmi feels jealous not bcz she has a soft corner for Mukhiji or such..she feels jealous simply bcz the happy life Aru is leading and the love she is getting from Mukhiji could have been hers had she married to Mukhiji instead leaving him at mandap...😵 Dharmi is a very realistic character waise..aise type log bahut hote hai jo doosro ki khushiyo se jalte hai..and she also cries coz she is dumped...I never understood her deewanapann for her good for nothing pati Anshul...🤢

Originally posted by: Mihrimah

Dharmi feels jealous not bcz she has a soft corner for Mukhiji or such..she feels jealous simply bcz the happy life Aru is leading and the love she is getting from Mukhiji could have been hers had she married to Mukhiji instead leaving him at mandap...😵 Dharmi is a very realistic character waise..aise type log bahut hote hai jo doosro ki khushiyo se jalte hai..and she also cries coz she is dumped...I never understood her deewanapann for her good for nothing pati Anshul...🤢

let Dharmi go to hell🤢

"But I am just fed-up seeing her crying so much in the show. She looks awful while crying. Specially with her lips stretching wide horizontally from one ear to another. So can she please find some other way to cry??"

Ditto! every time she cried I had to close my eyes for the reasons u stated.

Mihrimah,

I also feel the monetary comfort she assumes Aru is getting from him is making a difference.

She seems to expect preferential treatment compared to Aru for herself. Due to her parent's behaviour so far, where they treated Dharmi as a spoilt child and Aru as an adult caretaker of the house, she seems to expect that SHE is entitled to everything best in life. Aru, too, to an extent, fed this behaviour and so Dharmi is a product of her upbringing and treatment.

And she IS very realistic! My Aunt has two sons who can be male equivalents of these two! :-D

Yes I agree that other characters of the show are not well developed and not well knit with rest of the story ... this starts putting lot of pressure on leads.. in some shows the no lead characters can also pull a few episodes smartly. ..

Originally posted by: C0raline

Mihrimah,

I also feel the monetary comfort she assumes Aru is getting from him is making a difference.

She seems to expect preferential treatment compared to Aru for herself. Due to her parent's behaviour so far, where they treated Dharmi as a spoilt child and Aru as an adult caretaker of the house, she seems to expect that SHE is entitled to everything best in life. Aru, too, to an extent, fed this behaviour and so Dharmi is a product of her upbringing and treatment.

And she IS very realistic! My Aunt has two sons who can be male equivalents of these two! :-D

Originally posted by: angelic8219

Even if Dharmi married Mukhi in the first place she wouldn't have been happy because she would have still been thinking about Anshul and the relationship wouldn't have progressed like it has between Mukhi and Aru. Mukhi would have stayed Dukhi Mukhi or become even more dukhi. There's an example of this amongst my relatives. People like Dharmi don't realise when they had it so good they too wrapped up in material sukh.

True word!

A car runs on two wheels. Even if you put one wheel of a Porche to a car if the other one is a bullock cart.

A relationship is progressed by how both the people in it behave. Dharmi does not realize the value of a relationship. Be it her sister or parents or someone like Mukhi.

If her reasons to get married Mukhi was his nature, it would have worked (even if she WAS in love with Anshul at the time, it is not possible to live with someone like Mukhi and eventually not fall in love) but her reasons were different.

She wanted to marry Mukhi and become a Mukhiani. She was not interested in a man called Raidhan Raj Katara beyond his riches and position.

About Dharmi?? Actually, I never found her that she cares for her family beside her, she was very selfish, childish, materialistic and immature than Aru (we all witness those behaviors) I don't think Ansul ever loved her or care for her he was a greedy and rude and low life character who never hesitated to do some crime for money, like he said "situation right now I don't hesitate to kill my father?? And Dharmi's all crocodile tears also so for selfishness, the first place she agreed to marry Mukhi just to use up a revenge/show off to Ansul, her intention was never to love or take care of Mukhi or stay in Amboli.
So now obviously she is regretting to not to marry him cos Ansul just dumped her. And now The YMMkD team probably brings her back to create a havoc in ArMu s life, but I am 200%sure no one can break ArMu, of course they need TRP so it's needed to bring Dharmi back and Dharmi will be Dharmi believe me she will execute all kinds of fake drama and all ronha donha and big vamp Rami will be her partners again!!