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Posted: 8 years ago
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Personally I find Jia Mustafa very pretty. I love her instagram account and her fashion sense. But I am just fed-up seeing her crying so much in the show. She looks awful while crying. Specially with her lips stretching wide horizontally from one ear to another. So can she please find some other way to cry??



Anyways reason of my post:

1. Where is the 40 lac rupees Anshul took as ransom?? why didn't he pay the hotel bill?

2. Dharmi said now I hv become wife of a aparadhi---does this mean she knows Anshul kidnapped Aru?? Also she was hinting they are poor because they lost the gold. but they had 40 lac rupees. Why is that not enough for her all of a sudden??

3. I understand Dharmi crying from Anshul's daaga, but why she starts super crying every time she hears Aru-Mukhi are happily married?? Shouldn't she be happy for her sister?? I mean yea she can curse her own fate that she missed the opportunity of marrying Mukhi but now that train has gone...why she starts crying hearing Aru-Mukhi's love??


If its out of jealousy that would be really weird. Dharmi is always shown as a very selfish character but I wouldn't hv said she is bad to core. She loves her parents and Aru in her own way. However she gave Anshul her first priority. Now if it is shown she is madly jealous of Aru because MUkhi loves her and they are happy that would be very badly done. Why would a sister be wildly jealous of her sister's happiness?? (Ramiben scenario is different, she is shown to be villainous and rotten to core from the very beginning and she has a valid reason) But dharmi had a conscious. Where is that gayab all of a sudden.

4. Anshul was always shown as unscrupulous, rude, selfish lout but Dharmi was madly-deeply-head over heels in love with him beyond logic. He loved money above all Dharmi knew it but still she wanted to be with him even though he treats her like shit. Then why all of a sudden she started to curse Anshul and throwing tantrums and say I hate you?

Whats really got into Dharmi?? What really is her character??? What does she want and when will she stop crying???


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Heyy Brishty.. you have made a very nice post and i see very nice and mature comments.
I agree with all of your points and the points given by various members here. I just want to add my 2 cents.
1.Jia mustafa is very pretty indeed. And yes, her crying face is really awful! But she cant help it. She has a broad jawline and her lips fall in the broad type. Even when she smiles her lips go from one ear to another. Its just the difference in her smiling and crying expressions,that makes her yay or nay... Angelina Jolie is one known example in the dentists circle as someone with this type of lips and jawline.
2. Anshul has run away with 40 lacs. He never wanted to come back to Dharmi. He was bound to leave her empty handed. Besides he will probably come back after Rami ben because he has that recording in which Rami was telling him to kill Aru-Mukhi. So i hope that he will be brought back by CVs for that purpose.
3. Dharmi is a spoilt brat as someone rightly said here. She is crying now because of her own stupidity in trusting Anshul, and her own stupidity in dumping Mukhiji and the title of Mukhiyani. Actually shes not exactly jealous of Aru. She would have been jealous of any person who would have married Mukhiji,not because she loved him, but only because she thinks that Mukhiyani title could have been hers, had she not gone after that dhokaybaaz mota Anshul.
Aru is getting the venom of her feelings now because She is the Mukhiyani now. So its not basically jealousy with Aru, its jealousy and obsession with the title of Mukhiyani and the riches that it would have brought along.
You asked about her character. She is a grey-shaded personality. Shes not very bad or as evil as Rami ben is. But she has not been properly raised by her parents. She is weak, selfish,self obsessed and very very unlucky in love. Not to mention blind too! (I cant believe she actually felt something stronger for that Anshul!). She has zero self respect because she likes to depend on other people. Initially it was Aru. Aru was younger but she would help her emotionally as well as financially. While Dharmi didnt use to help Aru in any way. She has easily silenced her conscience because she likes to see her needs be fulfilled first. Let the parents suffer, let the sister suffer-I will do what my heart says! Thats her attitude with life. And this exactly why she wanted to become a Mukhiyani... All the riches, all the importance...everything...Thats what she needed.
One important thing is that sometimes poverty do this to people. She has always seen financial constraints and even her marriage broke because of money issues. She in her heart blames her parents for not providing enough dowry and that was the reason why her marriage broke in the 1st place. And this is the reason why she has become so inclined towards money, title, other superficial material things that come with it. She agreed to run away with Anshul only when Rami provided her with those 1 crore ki jewellery.

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shanayja

Debashri.. exactly.. I copy your thoughts.. there is so much story line and so many loose threads that if the CVs bring them all together.. they need not fall in the Ekta Kapoor trap. Her traps have made Indian television industry vulnerable... marrying, remarrying, misunderstanding, separation.. god knows why so much focus on the showing viewers "distress" and "sadness" and "separation". There are other aspects to drama as well.. suspense, surprise, thrill, romance, comedy, happiness.. can't something new be invented on tracks with these emotions. EK has made marriage a joke in Indian television industry.. And I really hate that.
But our makers seem to be so different as of yet. They seem to focus on their core drama aspect.. soft romantic comedy.. and we all love that.. the makers might add suspense, thrill, surprise to the drama.. but definitely not distress.. no we don't want to see that.
They have elevated our hopes to cloud 9 and placed our ArMu in comparison to Shiv and Parvati.. a one man and one woman aspect.. so definitely any deviation from this image will not increase the TRP.
Plus our leads are shown heroic.. will not fall easily into traps of villians.. and we don't want our makers also to fall in trap of some EK type of drama.
Regarding Dharmi,, I always feel that there is some positiveness in her.. and that aspect can be highlighted. What if she is shown to be changed after knowing Anshul's evil plans and now is keen on saving ArMu from Ramee.. secretly.. the whole scenario would change.. and what a wonderful,show it would be.
We all probably want to see how ArMu relationship unfolds to a romantic BFF relationship and reaches a point where they find solace in each other.


Ooo I am loving the discussion going on here.

Debashri and Shanayja,

I absolutely agree with whatever you two have written. There are so many potentials in this series. So many dynamics which could be explored instead of introducing new characters Like -Uma/Arjan, Mishri-Rami-Lal, Sanvi-Mukhi, Sanvi-UnknownFatherofBaby , Mishri-lalchiSasural, revelation of Rami-Arjan etc etc.

I was sorely dissappointed how the makers dealt with the liquor hide-out track. It had so much potential but dealt in 10 mins of an episode.They stopped showing Kishan and Rami's husband.

As Shanayza said, our leads are shown heroic.. will not fall easily into traps of villian. I want to shout it to every dukhiyaris of the forum and I believe it whole heartedly.

Actually I don't care how many new villains are introduced as long as our leads are together. Provided they hv no misunderstanding between them and trusts each other implicitly I am fine with any devil/villain/witch/wizard whatever. I still have faith in the makers. And given the genre of the story is lovestory, I believe love should be given importance/highlight instead of drama/seperation/pain. EK serials genre are usually drama. So i guess she keeps on remarrying the leads/separations/memory loss bla bla...dragging dragging dragging.

I do not want YMMKD to go on forever but rather end provided they have stitched all the loose threads logically, patiently and maturely; all the relationship dynamics beautifully handled and evolved just like Mukhi-Mishri's.

However it would be a disaster if they separate the leads just for TRPs, drags, (TRP will not rise-it never rises- except of EK cases...because her audiences expect that) then just end the series suddenly because the channel cut it off and all the loose ends left as it is.


And about Dharmi hmmm intersting..her character has lots of shades . I would love it if she is given attention and her character is explored properly instead of making her a khoon pyaasi-jealous wicked witch of the west all of a sudden. I want her character to grow. (Like Sansa's character from GoT.) People makes mistakes, thats life, She should learn from it and move on and be a better person instead of being a vamp.


We all probably want to see how ArMu relationship unfolds to a romantic BFF relationship and reaches a point where they find solace in each other.


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Posted: 8 years ago
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Brishty!

Is that your name Rain? Wow! There was an old song "Brishty pade tapoor tupoor" , your name reminded me of it.

Thanks Ayesha! For letting us know.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: C0raline

Brishty!

Is that your name Rain? Wow! There was an old song "Brishty pade tapoor tupoor" , your name reminded me of it.

Thanks Ayesha! For letting us know.


😊 you are welcome C0raline..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Girls I am loving the discussion and I will answer all of you. But right now I have to leave. I have 33 minutes to cook dinner coz after that YMMKD will start. I will be back after the serial.

BRB and carry on!!
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Valid questions but I hope you aren't really waiting for an answer😆

This is a Saba Mumtaz show. She always flits from track to track without delving deep, leaving multiple loops open. Whether that is due to poor writing or a deliberate attempt to hook more viewers through the ride, is anyones guess.

Ek Boond Ishq on LifeOK was her show too. There too much of the story was written around the male lead & his childhood best friend. The female lead also had a grey shaded sister who enters the house married to the ML's villainous uncle😆
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mihrimah

Dharmi feels jealous not bcz she has a soft corner for Mukhiji or such..she feels jealous simply bcz the happy life Aru is leading and the love she is getting from Mukhiji could have been hers had she married to Mukhiji instead leaving him at mandap...😵 Dharmi is a very realistic character waise..aise type log bahut hote hai jo doosro ki khushiyo se jalte hai..and she also cries coz she is dumped...I never understood her deewanapann for her good for nothing pati Anshul...🤢

let Dharmi go to hell🤢

"But I am just fed-up seeing her crying so much in the show. She looks awful while crying. Specially with her lips stretching wide horizontally from one ear to another. So can she please find some other way to cry??"

Ditto! every time she cried I had to close my eyes for the reasons u stated.



Me too I always look else where or check my phone when her crying face comes on tv. LOL

I know she never had a soft corner for Mukhi. Anshul has been always rude to her and she has seen/known Anshul's real face but kept on loving him regardless. Suddenly now she is hating on him and crying harder hearing MUkhi-Aru love story. It is just random. It would hv been better if Anshul-Dharmi dynamics post kidnap was shown more. There was no rush. Anyways

Doosro ki khushiyo se jalna aur apni hi bahen ki khushi se jalna is very different. if she is jealous of Aru's happiness that would make her a very bad person. I thought she loved Aru. She was spoilt but I dont know why I thought she loved Aru.

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Originally posted by: C0raline

Brishty!

Is that your name Rain? Wow! There was an old song "Brishty pade tapoor tupoor" , your name reminded me of it.

Thanks Ayesha! For letting us know.


Originally posted by: C0raline



Mihrimah,

I also feel the monetary comfort she assumes Aru is getting from him is making a difference.

She seems to expect preferential treatment compared to Aru for herself. Due to her parent's behaviour so far, where they treated Dharmi as a spoilt child and Aru as an adult caretaker of the house, she seems to expect that SHE is entitled to everything best in life. Aru, too, to an extent, fed this behaviour and so Dharmi is a product of her upbringing and treatment.

And she IS very realistic! My Aunt has two sons who can be male equivalents of these two! :-D


Originally posted by: C0raline



True word!

A car runs on two wheels. Even if you put one wheel of a Porche to a car if the other one is a bullock cart.

A relationship is progressed by how both the people in it behave. Dharmi does not realize the value of a relationship. Be it her sister or parents or someone like Mukhi.

If her reasons to get married Mukhi was his nature, it would have worked (even if she WAS in love with Anshul at the time, it is not possible to live with someone like Mukhi and eventually not fall in love) but her reasons were different.

She wanted to marry Mukhi and become a Mukhiani. She was not interested in a man called Raidhan Raj Katara beyond his riches and position.


Hi Coraline,

Yes, My name is Brishty. It is a bengali word for Rain. Dushtu is a bengali word for Naughty hence Comes the naughty me. Yea Brishty pore tapur tupur, node elo ban there is a nursery rhyme. But dont say Brishty pade...pade means farting 😆😆😆 😆😆 😆😆😆 😆😆😆 LOL

Nice to meet you dear.

Okay now about Dharmi,

As you have said about the monetary comfort, I always thought she wanted money so that Anshul will come back to her. I never thought that she likes money herself. If she liked money above all then she wouldn't hv left with Anshul i mean what is 1 crore to 100 crore. I totally agree with you that Dharmi was a spoilt child and her parents are at fault too. They were tooo easy, lenient and blind to her faults and besharampana.

I find her very relatable tooas well. I have seen girls pining for their bfs who treat them like shit. They have no self respect. I have always thought Dharmi dumb,weak and a person with low self esteem . (otherwise why would she want to be with someone who treats her like shit). To be a vamp which we think she is going to be she needs to be strong. Does she have that strength in her???

True, she doesn't understand the value and meaning of relationships. And her sole interest in Mukhi was his riches so that she could make Anshul jealous.

She is one interesting character i would say so much to explore.

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