Am I the only one feeling extreme emotions in episodes

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Posted: 6 years ago
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The episodes are too disbalanced for me...
One scene Sameer is questioning Naina's middle class choices harshly and she is in tears
Next scene Sameer is planning surprise Breakfast for her and wooing her

Hubby wife behave like this but things don't run in this speed... Either CVs have too much to show in one episode or they justify their own drama to reduce the effect

Even weekend precap is confusing... Sameer is irritated with her cough and cold... he is the one who climbed to her balcony in midnight just by hearing her couple of sneezes...

CVs drama ke naam pe constantly Samaina ke beautiful character ki band bajate rehte hain... aur VO ko justification aur apology ke liye daal dete hain

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Posted: 6 years ago
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For the precap to play lets wait and watch the reaction may not be for cold ,it can be for other things too.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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even i felt the same
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Same here. Only difference is earlier I used to feel like going out on the streets to protest. And now it's like I want to beat sense into both Samaina 😆
Well I still feel Samaina are best suited for each other.. because be it any other person, would have lost patience with both of them.


Like Naina's hesitance with intimacy, not many husbands would show that amount of patience as Sameer. Because the concept of *CONSENT* even in marital relationships is not very common in India. The wife considers she has to give in and the husband can't even imagine the wife refusing it. It's definitely wrong.. and people are yet to accept the change.. but Sameer was definitely one of the exceptions.


And regards Sameer ranting standards, standards throughout their honeymoon is something Naina is showing patience with.
Had I been in Naina's place I would have definitely told Sameer that if he is so interested in high class he should've married Sunaina , why married me? Anyways he had told Sharad ma that Sunaina is of his class not me Still there's time he should better talk with mamiji and get his marriage fixed . Mami already likes sunaina she'll be happy he'll be happy too.


I know I crossed lines and wen t too harsh perhaps But im like thisss only😆 I am not ideal sorry nor do I have patience like Naina.


So basically only Sameer Naina can actually have that patience with each other😊


Ps. I know my Sunaina sharad dialogue would lead into a bad fight between Samaina.. but I feel it's something that was ignored during vbreakup phase. Sharing their pains, complaints with each other , the hurt they felt because if each other's behavior and actions.

Edited by sharvyo - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: sharvyo

Same here. Only difference is earlier I used to feel like going out on the streets to protest. And now it's like I want to beat sense into both Samaina 😆

Well I still feel Samaina are best suited for each other.. because be it any other person, would have lost patience with both of them.


Like Naina's hesitance with intimacy, not many husbands would show that amount of patience as Sameer. Because the concept of *CONSENT* even in marital relationships is not very common in India. The wife considers she has to give in and the husband can't even imagine the wife refusing it. It's definitely wrong.. and people are yet to accept the change.. but Sameer was definitely one of the exceptions.


And regards Sameer ranting standards, standards throughout their honeymoon is something Naina is showing patience with.
Had I been in Naina's place I would have definitely told Sameer that if he is so interested in high class he should've married Sunaina , why married me? Anyways he had told Sharad ma that Sunaina is of his class not me Still there's time he should better talk with mamiji and get his marriage fixed . Mami already likes sunaina she'll be happy he'll be happy too.


I know I crossed lines and wen t too harsh perhaps But im like thisss only😆 I am not ideal sorry nor do I have patience like Naina.


So basically only Sameer Naina can actually have that patience with each other😊


Ps. I know my Sunaina sharad dialogue would lead into a bad fight between Samaina.. but I feel it's something that was ignored during vbreakup phase. Sharing their pains, complaints with each other , the hurt they felt because if each other's behavior and actions.


I wont blame you because even though I am loving Samaina's lovey dovey cute romance but when he is constantly taunting her on dressing sense and today's full lecture on her middle class choices, first thing came in my mind was "is he expecting Naina would become Sunaina just by getting married to him?"

He knows her more than most of the people in this world and just for some party or people gets embarrassed by her choice of dressing?

Again CVs keep confusing us with this bitter tasting drama addition to such beautiful romantic moments
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: myprimechicago

The episodes are too disbalanced for me...

One scene Sameer is questioning Naina's middle class choices harshly and she is in tears
Next scene Sameer is planning surprise Breakfast for her and wooing her

Hubby wife behave like this but things don't run in this speed... Either CVs have too much to show in one episode or they justify their own drama to reduce the effect

Even weekend precap is confusing... Sameer is irritated with her cough and cold... he is the one who climbed to her balcony in midnight just by hearing her couple of sneezes...

CVs drama ke naam pe constantly Samaina ke beautiful character ki band bajate rehte hain... aur VO ko justification aur apology ke liye daal dete hain

Agree

Why Sameer thinks after marriage Naina's clothing sense is going to be just like his? In arrange marriage agree you don't know each other much.

I get it about food as per his nature he got upset and got realized his mistake so he was trying to wooing her in morning with food.

Sameer is over active monkey right now not able to see what he is doing 😆😆 but as viewer I am done with this kiss twist and turn drama...its been long...over and over...

Episodes are so beautiful so much to enjoy and this kiss issue comes ... Can we move on😆😆
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: bitblue


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Agree

Why Sameer thinks after marriage Naina's clothing sense is going to be just like his? In arrange marriage agree you don't know each other much.

I get it about food as per his nature he got upset and got realized his mistake so he was trying to wooing her in morning with food.

Sameer is over active money right now not able to see what he is doing😆😆 but as viewer I am done with this kiss twist and turn drama...its been long...over and over...

Episodes are so beautiful so much to enjoy and this kiss issue comes ... Can we move on😆😆



Agree... now that saas bahu drama is over CVs started this kiss drama which is stretched more than the viewers can handle. Hope they close this before the whole excitement for their kiss is killed for us
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: sharvyo

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Like Naina's hesitance with intimacy, not many husbands would show that amount of patience as Sameer. Because the concept of *CONSENT* even in marital relationships is not very common in India. The wife considers she has to give in and the husband can't even imagine the wife refusing it. It's definitely wrong.. and people are yet to accept the change.. but Sameer was definitely one of the exceptions.


And regards Sameer ranting standards, standards throughout their honeymoon is something Naina is showing patience with.
Had I been in Naina's place I would have definitely told Sameer that if he is so interested in high class he should've married Sunaina , why married me? Anyways he had told Sharad ma that Sunaina is of his class not me Still there's time he should better talk with mamiji and get his marriage fixed . Mami already likes sunaina she'll be happy he'll be happy too.


I know I crossed lines and wen t too harsh perhaps But im like thisss only😆 I am not ideal sorry nor do I have patience like Naina.


So basically only Sameer Naina can actually have that patience with each other😊


Ps. I know my Sunaina sharad dialogue would lead into a bad fight between Samaina.. but I feel it's something that was ignored during vbreakup phase. Sharing their pains, complaints with each other , the hurt they felt because if each other's behavior and actions.



Why have these two people married ? One does not know the meaning of consummation in marriage and the other does not know the meaning of not putting down your wife.

Thanks for bringing up Sameer's patience. In the South Asian context, marriage is license to get intimate. The only thing I am liking about Sameer in this track is that he is one of rare breed that has not forced his desires upon his wife without her consent. Lots of marital rapes happen everyday and men who respect women's decision to keep distance are always praiseworthy. However, my praise for Sameer stops there. I hate that his character has taken a plunge. Suddenly Sameer is status conscious, looks conscious and fashion conscious. If he was all that, why did he marry a middle class girl like Naina? Like it is said in post above, if so Sunaina was a better match for him.

Naina is also no angel either. The smartest girl in the school & college who read books and kept herself updated is suddenly the dumbest girl in the block. She does not know anything about sexual love, she knows nothing on the etiquettes on riding a public transport, she is suddenly this ill informed & loud individual who I have no patience watching. I have never seen her wearing sports shoe before. Suddenly with lots of glittery salwar kameez, she decided to pack a pair of sports shoes. If she had those shoe with her, why didn't see wear those comfy shoes with her blue skirt while she went sightseeing with Sameer, instead of wearing it to the dinner date? If CVs are trying to show her as innocent belle, I want to say that her innocence feels more forced than natural at this point because innocence does not always equate to ignorance.

Another irritating part is Naina bringing books to her Honeymoon. If she was so keen to study, why did she not ask Sameer to postpone the trip until the exam was over? I didn't find Naina studying for the exam at Honeymoon cute at all.

Most irritating part of all are the VOs. First of all Naina has to stop generalizing on how all 90s couple used to take time to be husband and wife. There were different types of couples who behaved differently. I know couples who did not wait until marriage, I know someone who was 5 months pregnant at marriage, I know couples who broke up even after going all the way. Even people who had arranged marriages used to talk on the
phone and by the time they married would be very comfortable with each other.
Her VO on how women start feeling "why I married to his guy" is also out of context. True, it does happen but not within the first few days of marriage. Sameer's VO about how he is proud of Naina when he remembers that time is even more disturbing. It is not the PKVM Naina he is talking- this is the clueless, illogical honeymooning Naina that we are talking about.

Lastly Sameer Naina may actually have that patience with each but they are surely testing my patience as a viewer.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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I don't think he is angry at her...he is angry at his phooti kismat. 😆
Kitne raat ho gayeee???? 😆
No romance. E very time he plans something something terrible happens. And his emotions go to gutter. 😆 In this situation koi kaise khudko roke. Sp he is may be 21-22 yr old man. This is not the time to marry or get a girl legally. But he got. But it doesn't look like he actually got. 😆😆😆😆

I am feeling really bad for poor Sameer. But this is all CVs fault. 😡 😆 .

I really loved her chakli eating although. One of my friend had that situation. It was on their SR night...more worse than Samaina. As you know during wedding our Indian girls can't eat much as the whole guest forum stares at her" How much is this bride eating?" Her sausural was very considerate. They kept a plate of sweets, fruits etc in SR night just beside her bed. She felt hungry and ate all. 😆😆😆 Well her hubby didn't got angry like Sameer , just laughed. 😆😆😆
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: rituriyaakhil



Why have these two people married ? One does not know the meaning of consummation in marriage and the other does not know the meaning of not putting down your wife.

Thanks for bringing up Sameer's patience. In the South Asian context, marriage is license to get intimate. The only thing I am liking about Sameer in this track is that he is one of rare breed that has not forced his desires upon his wife without her consent. Lots of marital rapes happen everyday and men who respect women's decision to keep distance are always praiseworthy. However, my praise for Sameer stops there. I hate that his character has taken a plunge. Suddenly Sameer is status conscious, looks conscious and fashion conscious. If he was all that, why did he marry a middle class girl like Naina? Like it is said in post above, if so Sunaina was a better match for him.

Naina is also no angel either. The smartest girl in the school & college who read books and kept herself updated is suddenly the dumbest girl in the block. She does not know anything about sexual love, she knows nothing on the etiquettes on riding a public transport, she is suddenly this ill informed & loud individual who I have no patience watching. I have never seen her wearing sports shoe before. Suddenly with lots of glittery salwar kameez, she decided to pack a pair of sports shoes. If she had those shoe with her, why didn't see wear those comfy shoes with her blue skirt while she went sightseeing with Sameer, instead of wearing it to the dinner date? If CVs are trying to show her as innocent belle, I want to say that her innocence feels more forced than natural at this point because innocence does not always equate to ignorance.

Another irritating part is Naina bringing books to her Honeymoon. If she was so keen to study, why did she not ask Sameer to postpone the trip until the exam was over? I didn't find Naina studying for the exam at Honeymoon cute at all.

Most irritating part of all are the VOs. First of all Naina has to stop generalizing on how all 90s couple used to take time to be husband and wife. There were different types of couples who behaved differently. I know couples who did not wait until marriage, I know someone who was 5 months pregnant at marriage, I know couples who broke up even after going all the way. Even people who had arranged marriages used to talk on the
phone and by the time they married would be very comfortable with each other.
Her VO on how women start feeling "why I married to his guy" is also out of context. True, it does happen but not within the first few days of marriage. Sameer's VO about how he is proud of Naina when he remembers that time is even more disturbing. It is not the PKVM Naina he is talking- this is the clueless, illogical honeymooning Naina that we are talking about.

Lastly Sameer Naina may actually have that patience with each but they are surely testing my patience as a viewer.


I agree CVs have made this innocence this OTT... but it was not an exception for educated girls getting married early without the knowledge of consummation and they showed even Sameer knows about her lack of knowledge in this subject.

My frustration about those sport shoes was more about... why those irritating golden Ballerina which tortured us for 380 episodes suddenly disappeared when she had worn them in flight... they were the flats she always wore... Why CVs show illogical drama.

But about the sport shoes... even I wore sport shoes in my honeymoon on dresses coz of the walks in sight seeing was too much for my feet But my hubby was totally cool about it. He was like check your comfort first. infact i myself dint have

Also I have a feeling CVs on purpose added this drama of Sameer scaring Naina with the french kiss description before hand to stretch it till eternity


Still all these are too small of an issue compared to the way Sameer is again and again pointing out Naina's standards.. Naina is not SUNAINA or KAMYA... Sameer knows that. She is middle class... So when he says also this it leaves a bitter taste even after all those lovey dovey gestures.
Romance seekh ke aana chahiye tha was also unnecessary... Specially after they had 5 years relationship.. its not arranged marriage..

MM, Somani and Vishakha were enough to point out her status why CVs adding such dialogs for Sameer...

VO justify for Samaina never makes sense to me since shaadi track started

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