Am I the only one feeling extreme emotions in episodes - Page 3

At night, Sameer saw that Naina was crying so he planned the breakfast date to make it up to her for the night.

Guys we can't expect perfect so soon, I mean unki sadhi ko week bhi nai huwa, kitne difficultly k sath sadhi huyi hai, dono ko ek dusre k bare Mein Bahut Kuch nai pata hai, pehele dono sath mein itne kam rahe hai and upar Sr akele toh kabhi nai and Aisa real Mein toh hota hai chahe hum bole ki Show pehele jaisa nai hai, har cheez time k sath badalta hai, mujhe bhi Sam k words bura laga but baad mein socha tha uske nazariya Se Dekha toh uska ghussa Hona and aise words nikal na banta hai, ek toh bichara dusre couple ko dekhta hai tab oh log itne close hote hai and yeh 4 Sal k relation k baad bhi nai japaraha hai, ladka hai yar usko Apni wife k pass Jane ka man karte hai but being a good husband Naina k permission k bina kuch nai Karega, cvs se yeh bhi toh message hai ki husband hai iska matlab nai ki wife ki manzori k bina kuch kare, and Naina Bichari ko yeh sab new hai jitna Sam ko pata hai utna Naina ko nai pata and yeh aksar hota tha ladkiyon k sath, and books JBR ki waja se leke gayi and kapde dhona chachiji ki waja se, so dono ka koi mistake nai hai, it's relaity and they are progressing slowly, And soon we will see dono tan man Se pati patni bane

Originally posted by: Sushi99

Guys we can't expect perfect so soon, I mean unki sadhi ko week bhi nai huwa, kitne difficultly k sath sadhi huyi hai, dono ko ek dusre k bare Mein Bahut Kuch nai pata hai, pehele dono sath mein itne kam rahe hai and upar Sr akele toh kabhi nai and Aisa real Mein toh hota hai chahe hum bole ki Show pehele jaisa nai hai, har cheez time k sath badalta hai, mujhe bhi Sam k words bura laga but baad mein socha tha uske nazariya Se Dekha toh uska ghussa Hona and aise words nikal na banta hai, ek toh bichara dusre couple ko dekhta hai tab oh log itne close hote hai and yeh 4 Sal k relation k baad bhi nai japaraha hai, ladka hai yar usko Apni wife k pass Jane ka man karte hai but being a good husband Naina k permission k bina kuch nai Karega, cvs se yeh bhi toh message hai ki husband hai iska matlab nai ki wife ki manzori k bina kuch kare, and Naina Bichari ko yeh sab new hai jitna Sam ko pata hai utna Naina ko nai pata and yeh aksar hota tha ladkiyon k sath, and books JBR ki waja se leke gayi and kapde dhona chachiji ki waja se, so dono ka koi mistake nai hai, it's relaity and they are progressing slowly, And soon we will see dono tan man Se pati patni bane

Why even expect perfection...? Thats why our show is and characters are real..because they are humany potrayed and not fictionally perfect...
See both of them are doing that they feel is best for each other...but there is still time and learning needed to see the balance of communication as husband and wife.
See they are spending whole days and nights together for the first time and discovering things they didn't when they use to be with each other in college and that too mostly with the gang...
It will take a little time for them to adjust themselves to each other as a husband and wife and meet at an origo...

Originally posted by: Abida_angel

Why even expect perfection...? Thats why our show is and characters are real..because they are humany potrayed and not fictionally perfect...
See both of them are doing that they feel is best for each other...but there is still time and learning needed to see the balance of communication as husband and wife.
See they are spending whole days and nights together for the first time and discovering things they didn't when they use to be with each other in college and that too mostly with the gang...
It will take a little time for them to adjust themselves to each other as a husband and wife and meet at an origo...

Exactly and show se bhi hum perfection expect nai karskate, hame bolna easy hai but unko yeh sab karna difficult hai, hamra problem yeh hai ki hum Bahut expect karte hai and jab oh nai milta toh bura lagta hai, isse jyada toh hame nai milsakta, har tarah se reality dikha rahe hai and kabhi kabhi thodi misktakes har Kisi se hoti hai, hum bhi toh kitne warning milne k baad bhi mistakes karte rehete hai

Originally posted by: rituriyaakhil

Why have these two people married ? One does not know the meaning of consummation in marriage and the other does not know the meaning of not putting down your wife.

Thanks for bringing up Sameer's patience. In the South Asian context, marriage is license to get intimate. The only thing I am liking about Sameer in this track is that he is one of rare breed that has not forced his desires upon his wife without her consent. Lots of marital rapes happen everyday and men who respect women's decision to keep distance are always praiseworthy. However, my praise for Sameer stops there. I hate that his character has taken a plunge. Suddenly Sameer is status conscious, looks conscious and fashion conscious. If he was all that, why did he marry a middle class girl like Naina? Like it is said in post above, if so Sunaina was a better match for him.

Naina is also no angel either. The smartest girl in the school & college who read books and kept herself updated is suddenly the dumbest girl in the block. She does not know anything about sexual love, she knows nothing on the etiquettes on riding a public transport, she is suddenly this ill informed & loud individual who I have no patience watching. I have never seen her wearing sports shoe before. Suddenly with lots of glittery salwar kameez, she decided to pack a pair of sports shoes. If she had those shoe with her, why didn't see wear those comfy shoes with her blue skirt while she went sightseeing with Sameer, instead of wearing it to the dinner date? If CVs are trying to show her as innocent belle, I want to say that her innocence feels more forced than natural at this point because innocence does not always equate to ignorance.

Another irritating part is Naina bringing books to her Honeymoon. If she was so keen to study, why did she not ask Sameer to postpone the trip until the exam was over? I didn't find Naina studying for the exam at Honeymoon cute at all.

Most irritating part of all are the VOs. First of all Naina has to stop generalizing on how all 90s couple used to take time to be husband and wife. There were different types of couples who behaved differently. I know couples who did not wait until marriage, I know someone who was 5 months pregnant at marriage, I know couples who broke up even after going all the way. Even people who had arranged marriages used to talk on the

phone and by the time they married would be very comfortable with each other.

Her VO on how women start feeling "why I married to his guy" is also out of context. True, it does happen but not within the first few days of marriage. Sameer's VO about how he is proud of Naina when he remembers that time is even more disturbing. It is not the PKVM Naina he is talking- this is the clueless, illogical honeymooning Naina that we are talking about.

Lastly Sameer Naina may actually have that patience with each but they are surely testing my patience as a viewer.

Originally posted by: myprimechicago

I wont blame you because even though I am loving Samaina's lovey dovey cute romance but when he is constantly taunting her on dressing sense and today's full lecture on her middle class choices, first thing came in my mind was "is he expecting Naina would become Sunaina just by getting married to him?"

He knows her more than most of the people in this world and just for some party or people gets embarrassed by her choice of dressing?

Again CVs keep confusing us with this bitter tasting drama addition to such beautiful romantic moments