Naina hesitance towards intimacy - Page 2

Originally posted by: Deepanand

Hey I feel naina is much more daring than what is being shown. She will never runaway like a scardy cat when she is challenged which we have seen it so many times. They can talk rather than going to sleep and totally avoiding him by acting sleepy.

Originally posted by: rituriyaakhil

Shahz, I feel the same. I understand that being intimate for the first time can be scary but it is the innocence part that I am not getting. I was a 90s teen too, not from a very strict family like Naina where self expression curbed but I still had that 90s values of keeping the distance from the guys. I had basic knowledge about such things but I was still innocent too. For me being ignorant is completely different from being innocent. Innocent I was and so were so many other girls I knew at that time but ignorant we were not.

Actually Sameer's character is more realistic - at least he is acting like a typical guy so hormonal and desperate to do the deed.

Originally posted by: Deepanand

Hey I feel naina is much more daring than what is being shown. She will never runaway like a scardy cat when she is challenged which we have seen it so many times. They can talk rather than going to sleep and totally avoiding him by acting sleepy.

Originally posted by: shahz

I can understand the hesitation but I can't understand her complete lack of knowledge or shall I say over the top innocence like she has no idea about intimacy.. I'm from the 90s my self and from a very Conservative family and I will say Naina is deffo more modern than I was. If you were from the 90s you will deffo be a filmi keera and that Naina is and movies from 80s 90s weren't that innocent. Come on she went to watch Beta movie. I can understand her fear of going all the way even we were after our married friends told is what happens but she gets so scared of the thought of Sameer kissing her,being shy I understand but scared of the guy she has been in love with for 4years. My request to cv's stop changing Naina's characterisation just to create drama. Don't want bold Naina that would be total out of character but don't want balika vadhu act either. At the moment she reminds me but of Madhuri character from Abodh.

Originally posted by: Deepanand

Hey I feel naina is much more daring than what is being shown. She will never runaway like a scardy cat when she is challenged which we have seen it so many times. They can talk rather than going to sleep and totally avoiding him by acting sleepy.

Originally posted by: Shippu92

See I totally respect what you think n I agree to point that naina's character is changed the basic nature is being tampered quite a few times n I hope CVS do something abt it. .Coming to naina's shyness towards sameer's desire n over innocence or having no knowledge. .Well firstly like I said naina has some knowledge fr sure coz if she has no knowledge she will Neva get it that the way sameer looks at her now is different n she will never shy away.. Her shyness tells that she has knowledge.. She is scared nt being intimate bt abt the process which is natural and it depends on people to people. .I have known people who have dated for long n became one before marriage, I also happen to Know people who dated for long yet took time to get intimate after marriage. .Same goes with arrange marriage some consummate on suhaagraat ,some wait for it. . Here the way they are showing naina is the case of most of the girls be it 90's or today's times.. It depends that some girls open up to their lovers after dating fr long time or to their husbands bt some don't. . Naina watches film, her family is modern bt intimacy in practical is different n in real it's different hope you know it.. I myself Ws skeptical abt talking abt periods, showing my innerwear etc n trust I come from a very open minded family where we drink, dance n even talk n watch intimate stuffs bt still it's difficult n that's why I understand naina.. She will take time bt trust me she will come along..