Munna swati-Who is more at fault?

munchkinland thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 6 years ago
#1
Hi everyone!
watching today's episode and looking at the way swati has put entire blame on munna of not talking to their parents and not listening to her

how many of you think that she is right and its entirely his fault

I agree that it is munna's fault as well but I find swati to be the major culprit here

What are your views on this?


Created

Last reply

Replies

17

Views

6.3k

Users

15

Likes

63

Frequent Posters

suhaaana thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Visit Streak 180 Thumbnail + 8
Posted: 6 years ago
#2
I believe both of them are equally at fault
rituriyaakhil thumbnail
6th Anniversary Thumbnail Explorer Thumbnail
Posted: 6 years ago
#3
Munna is at fault. If he chooses to not prioritize his girlfriend and fails to listen to her and understand her, then he as a boyfriend is at fault. Yeah, he is a great friend but he sucks as a boyfriend. Swati is a very real character - if one is are not in a fulfilling relationship, one should have the strength to move on.
Kalyani.123 thumbnail
6th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail
Posted: 6 years ago
#4
Both are at fault. . Munna has not bee able to keep balance between his friendship and love life and Swati not understanding the situation... The way she was saying busy hoga shadi k kaam me I did not like it
Shippu92 thumbnail
6th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail
Posted: 6 years ago
#5
See the universal truth when you are in a relationship be it any relationship if it fall apart then it's a fault from both the sides. .Then there are lot of different sort of relationship with different personalities involved bt the fault always equal. .For me any relationship should be based on trust n respect n then love coz if you don't give trust n respect to the person love can never live long.. N here both Swati n Munna lacked it. .If Swati would have trusted Munna she would have dodged the situation she is not naina she is smarter n bold than her and if Munna would have respected Swati needs she would have never felt insecure even from her best friend naina.. In a relationship love gets stronger if you build it with trust, respect, understanding, emotional connect see samaina no mater they fought, they broke up and went through whole lot of roller coaster ride there love faced it all coz it Ws built well which lacked majorly in Swati Munna love story..
Abida_angel thumbnail
14th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 6 years ago
#6
I feel both are at fault...but defo Swati is wrong in not telling Munna.
She knew the situation tha MunDit are doing everything in Samainas wedding and sameer had noone at his side. Apne bhai ki shaadi hai.
I don't want Munna to stop swatis allince after the way she put all blame on munna honestly.

Swati is way too filmy...she feels whatever is shown in movies can be true and are the ideal way a guy should behave. Naina has always been moore practical...so she is happy with the attention she gets from sameer, and also she understands moore what MunDit are for sameer.
Because even sameer has prioratized mundit alot of times and they spend alot of time together...but naina never complains.
Well it is true that munna should have tried to find a balance a little better but at the same time..even swati didn't voice it up. You have to understand that in a relationship..commincation is very important and thats what swamun lacked
Nikkie_1 thumbnail
Visit Streak 180 Thumbnail 7th Anniversary Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 6 years ago
#7
According to me both Munna and Swati are at fault but in this situation it is more of Swati's fault.
Munna was never able to find a balance between his friendship and his relationship and always got carried away when there was any matter concerning Sameer.
But still I can understand him not being able to talk to Swati during the Samaina marriage track as he has taken the responsibility of Sameer's wedding and he got engrossed in that. Managing and arranging for a wedding is really a daunting task.

Swati wanted munna's attention and wanted him to listen to her. Munna did not take her seriously but to be fair on Munna he did not even know the seriousness of the situation.
Did Swati tell him once that her parents were fixing her rishta.
From the LU it looks like she was jealous of him spending more time on Samaina wedding and just decided to walk away without voicing her concerns.

In real life if we feel ignored or if we want to be listened and the other person is not listening we fight. But Swati herself never fought and gave a chance to Munna to make things right. So she cant put the entire blame on Munna.
rituriyaakhil thumbnail
6th Anniversary Thumbnail Explorer Thumbnail
Posted: 6 years ago
#8
The fans always talks about the parallels in the show - so here you go. I know I will get a lot of hate but I that is exactly what I feel and I don't want to lie.

Swati and Naina both were forced into unwanted engagements. Naina left Sameer for her family even though he was hurt beyond belief and begged continuously to her to come back to her. Had Sharad not humiliated Chachaji, would she have left Sharad at all? If it was not for Sameer's consistent efforts, they would not be together at this point.

Swati also got forced into Roka by parents. Munna failed to see his girlfriends situation and consistently focused on Samaina's marriage than his own lovelife. I think he deserves it. If he still wants to be with Swati, there are still ways. Where there is a will, there is a way.

Two girls were in same boat but we as viewers use two different types of judgement for each of the character. After this post, there will be numerous effort to redeem Naina for having Roka but will vilify Swati for doing the same thing.

Wow!
sharvyo thumbnail
7th Anniversary Thumbnail Explorer Thumbnail
Posted: 6 years ago
#9
I feel Munna and Swati ,both have their own share of faults in different platforms.
Munna was loyal to Swati and perhaps didn't have the feeling of "like" for any other girl than Swati, but did he really care for her? If you love a person, you care for her feelings, prioritise her. Munna time to time ignored her feelings, and didn't give her the value she deserves being his girlfriend. Not that Munna isn't capable of giving all in love, but perhaps he didn't love Swati enough to do all that for her.

Regards Swati, she observed the happiness Samaina found in each other, and yearned for the same. So, she too accepted Munna's proposal and expected to experience the same bliss. But all she got was Munna's ignorance. She and Munna tried out all lovey-dovey things like bike ride, ice cream date, movie dates, like Samaina without realizing where the basis of the relationship lies.

Swati , instead of understanding what's the problem with their relationship, found it easier to blame Naina for all of it, and hence the betrayal in election period. She was frustrated with Munna ignorance, and instead of directing it and him , directed it at Naina, whom she somehow found to be an easier target.
With time she realised ,that it was wrong on her part to punish Naina for Munna's mistakes, so she returned to their group.

Evem after whatever happened between Swamun, none of them put the efforts required for the growth of their relationship. Swati realised that their relationship has no future, so she went ahead with the roka. Munna will be heartbroken for sure, coz the only girl he has ever set his eyes upon has exited from his life. But then again, he lacks the passion to fight for Swati, so donno what'll happen next.

In short, both lack the will, the insanity and the passion required to sustain a relationship despite all struggles, hence they failed. Both will grow out of this and perhaps be a better partner in their next relationship.



Nikkie_1 thumbnail
Visit Streak 180 Thumbnail 7th Anniversary Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 6 years ago
#10

Originally posted by: rituriyaakhil

The fans always talks about the parallels in the show - so here you go. I know I will get a lot of hate but I that is exactly what I feel and I don't want to lie.

Swati and Naina both were forced into unwanted engagements. Naina left Sameer for her family even though he was hurt beyond belief and begged continuously to her to come back to her. Had Sharad not humiliated Chachaji, would she have left Sharad at all? If it was not for Sameer's consistent efforts, they would not be together at this point.

Swati also got forced into Roka by parents. Munna failed to see his girlfriends situation and consistently focused on Samaina's marriage than his own lovelife. I think he deserves it. If he still wants to be with Swati, there are still ways. Where there is a will, there is a way.

Two girls were in same boat but we as viewers use two different types of judgement for each of the character. After this post, there will be numerous effort to redeem Naina for having Roka but will vilify Swati for doing the same thing.

Wow!


I wont get into who was right and who was wrong during the whole breakup track. That has been discussed already a lot on the forum.

But I would just point out one difference here, when Naina did Roka even though it was a one sided breakup the relationship was broken.
Whereas Swati was still in a relationship with Munna so she should have atleast told Munna of her situation or if she was unhappy with Munna's ignorance broken up with him and then done the Roka.



Related Topics

Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".