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Posted: 6 years ago
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Looking at the given situation it seems more of swati's fault
she thinks that munna will know everything about her magically
she willingly went to do a roka
in case of samaina
when they were in a relationship and naina was being taken to sharad
sameer came and was brave enough to stand for them
swati never told him anything
just asked him to talk to his parents
and that to very casually
if she was serious about them
she should have forcefully made munna listen to her
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: sadhikasamaina

Looking at the given situation it seems more of swati's fault

she thinks that munna will know everything about her magically
she willingly went to do a roka
in case of samaina
when they were in a relationship and naina was being taken to sharad
sameer came and was brave enough to stand for them
swati never told him anything
just asked him to talk to his parents
and that to very casually
if she was serious about them
she should have forcefully made munna listen to her


Sameer & Naina are always right. They are right when they date other people to make the other one one jealous, they are right to leave the other one to get engaged, they are right when they emotionally blackmail by trying to jump off the ledge the other one if he tries to walk away. But if Swati makes a choice for herself why is she wrong? I think she the real character here - her steps make her look real, her choices make her look real. She has expectations from her boyfriend.

If Sameer can make it work for himself, what can't Munna? If Munna wants he can still make it work - she is not married yet. But instead of spending more time on Samaina's wedding, he should take some time off to think about himself. The choice is his.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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oh seems like a big battleground in here , divided opinions. Two people need it make it work for a relationship. I'd say they had the worst communication ever. Munna is a certified pathetic boyfriend. Swati is always in comparison mode, Her character graph is really weirdly sketched over this entire series., maybe as someone said she is more grey or more real.
Munna absolutely cant expect his girlfriend to be cool about his second or close to no priority for her. I think swati made it apparent many times via her behaviour, tried to talk to him, but he was in his own shaadi ki tayyari mode. i dont say its wrong, but Swati is also important. If u cant figure out what your girl is going through or rather have no time to even talk to her, then something is amiss or you are not putting in the required effort.

So I say maybe both are at fault, but M seems just a lil more responsible or maybe had it coming since a long time.
Edited by Bombaysunshine - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Communication is extremely important to make any relationship strong and in case of swamun they had none
As we say " taali ek haath se nahi bajti " so same way it takes two people to make a relationship work or not work
Its never one sided traffic ..
So both have done mistakes ..
But after watching today's episode I'm finding Swati more on the wrong side ..
I can be wrong but I found Swati unaffected .. The way she was taunting munna's dedication towards samaina's marriage was really bad ..
For the group photo Sameer stopped the photographer as munna was not present .. Pandit went in search for munna , naina didn't made a fuss about it Nor did preeeti or kamya but the person munna wanted to understand him was taunting him .. It really did something very bad to me
Unlike naina Swati never understood the depth in relationship of samundit

Both ruined their relationship one by constantly comparing and one by not able to strike the balance


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Posted: 6 years ago
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I would say munna is more at fault! He didn't take his relationship seriously after swati accepted his love! He was taking her for granted! Munna is an extraordinary friend but also a pathetic bf! Every girl would wish her bf to spend sometime with her & prioritise her! Munna doesn't know to balance friendship & love unlike Sameer! Swati was begging to listen to her for 5 mins but he didn't have that time too!

And coming to Sameer, most of the girls both in yudkbh & in real world have voiced out that they would love to have their bf/husband like Sameer! I don't understand why, that when swati expects the same, she is called jealous and comparing...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Tbh...I don't blame Swati here...Munna has been one amazing friend for Sameer...but he's failed as a lover. Swati had been trying to tell him repeatedly something- if he's talked to his parents, but he was so engrossed in Samaina's wedding, he didn't even think on those lines. Swati should have been more clear, I agree, telling him that her parents are searching for a match for her. But the way Munna is with her is not acceptable- if you remember after the breakup track, it was Swati who was supposed to stand for the elections, but no one bothered to take her opinion once Naina was back. It was like use and throw. At least Munna should have noticed that she was upset. He was eager to ridicule her. What kind of a partner is he who doesn't realize what his girlfriend is going through? It won't do good to be so naive about the happiness of your partner in real life. If people had asked Swati if she was okay to move aside plesantly, the story might have been different.
I don't agree to what she did during elections. To me, that was pretty out of character for someone, who easily supressed her feelings for Sameer and the sake of their friendship. It's not easy to see your crush happy with someone else, much less your best friend. But she did it. And also, her support when Sameer broke her heart. Anyways, I was so fed up of the breakup track, that I ended up skipping all that.

I think Swati should have been more vocal about her concerns and Munna should have done more- after all, a life partner should be at least equal to a friend. One needs to balance, instead of sidelining the other half everytime.
That's just my take. No offence to anyone.

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Both are at fault, Munna bhi galat nai hai, oh ek amazing brother and friend banna Chahata tha ush ladke ka Kina koi nai tha, uska Sahara banna Chahata tha joh akela tha, usme kya wrong hai, swati ko oh bachpan se pyar karta tha, swati janti thi but kabhi uske ush nazar Se nai dekh ka but still yeh ladka Kisi aur ladki ko dusri nazar Se ek bar bhi nai Dekha, Ishke har words Mein sirf ek ladki thi oh hai swati, yes I agree munna har cheez mazak Mein leta hai but uska age hi waisa hai, and yes I agree ki ksi ne kaha ki communication is must, Samaina k case Mein Naina ne apne bhai and sheffali ka halat Dekha, apne papa ko sucide karte huwa Dekha and 18 saal ki ladki k man Mein dar pasa ki kahi uski waja se chachaji ka halat aisa huwa toh and oh jake Sam ko bolke breakup diya and mazboori Mein Roka karna padha whereas swati be communication hi nai kiya, I know ush time difficult tha munna se baat karna Coz oh bichara ek dost and bhai banraha tha but abhi munna ko Blame nai karsakti oh. Sirf ek baar baat karna chahati hu bolne se kuch nai hota. And I m gald ki cvs ne Sam and munna ka oh Aisa relation dikhaya hai ki 90s Mein ladke itne dost se jyada bhai hote the, apna pyar khosakte the but Apni dosti nai, Sam ne bhi munna k liye Naina ko chodne k liye ready tha and abhi Bhicahre Munna ko thodi na pata tha ki swati ka Roka hoga, usko toh lagraha thi ki sab thik hai so abhi uska 1st priority Samaina ki sadhi thi. So he can't be blamed neither swati, unke bich communication problem hai, swati ko bhi Khulke munna ko yeh bata nai Chaiye ki uske munna se kya expectation hai and kya pasand nai hai, and I don't thik agar oh baat right hai toh munna swati ko mana karega. I have a full trust on cvs, I know oh love story ka dusra Pehelu dikhana Chahate hai, not every lovestory is successful but cvs ko pata hai people want swati munna so yeh separation nai denge but kuch real dikhaynege, har lovers Samaina jaise nai hote and har parents chachaji jaise nai hote hai so let's see swati munna kaise tackle karte hai, family relation except karte hai ya nai, ya phir dono bhaag k sadhi karte hai. So Bahut amazing track ayega, obviously pure episode Mein Junan swati ko nai dikhayenge Coz lead Samaina hai but slowly unke character ka bhi story dikhayenge and hame Nirash nai karnege.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Munna kho married khi spelling nahin aata, woh kiya kabhi marriage kha sochega?
Munna is immature and unable to manage friendship and his love life. Whilst he was pursuing Swati he always had pleasant compliments to pay her, once she became his girlfriend he stopped complimenting her instead he taunted her, disrespected her and then neglected her to the point where it even seemed that he had forgotten about her. He failed to give her and their relationship the time and attention that was required. Munna is the kind of person who will give the shirt off his back to his friends whilst his own family will be in need and he will expect the family to accept this without complaint.

Swati is much more mature than Munna and clearly has high expectations for herself, as she should have. As I've said before she deserves someone who will love her, whose life she will be, who will prioritise her before all others. Munna cannot do this. I hope that they will not show the person chosen by her family to be another Sharad type of person. I hope that they show that person as a good human being who will be able to satisfy Swati in all respects. Swati deserves to be No 1 in her own life and in that of her life partner. I hope she gets such a person.
Edited by Sakhile - 6 years ago

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