I was not sure what to call this love story? Iss Payar ko keya naam doon or Munna Badnam hua Darling tere liye? "Payar toh hona hi tha or "Jodi no.1? In fact Sameer's love story can get all the names of 90s romantic movies. Badedilwala, Ashiqui, Payar kiya toh darna keya...to Maine Payar kia...till Qayamat se Qayamat tak.
Some are calling Naina selfish some are calling Sameer stupid. Vishaka told "Naina demag se soch ti hai and Sameer dil se. Toh what's the problem?
Sameer is a boy who is a hopeless lover. He never had much people in his life. When he loves someone he gives his 100percent to that person. If it's love he sacrifices. If it's a brother he sacrifices. If he is a son he sacrifices. So wherever the relationship is between brain and heart it is Sameer who sacrifices.
Comparing to Sameer naa Vishaka , nor Naina is a dilwala. So when we see Sameer and compare the other person ...other person looks selfish. His mom called Naina Demag se soch ti hai. Same goes for Vishaka, "Demag se hi soch ti hai. Or else she would sacrifice her life for Sameer and live in Ahmedabad not in Delhi. She is a mother and Naina might be wife. Look what mother is doing.
If we think about Naina she is selfish. When we are wise, intelligent we don't take irresponsible decisions. We have to be selfish. We have to think about family first, then ourselves, then society, then rest of the world ...and love at the end. Love said lets quit. We can't do that. As that will destroy and affect other lives. If Sameer was intelligent it would not look so worse. But he is not. He is a number one Ashiq. A son who loves his mother so much that he can sacrifice himself to keep her in peace. As a bro/friend he is awesome. So when he is like this ...what will the brain do???
Everyone is seeing Naina's selfishness and his loss. He is a fool and fools do those. Bhai wohi payar hai. That's why only fools fall in love. If he was not like that a brainy girl like Naina would not do a stupid mistake to marry a stupid like Sameer. Sameer's biggest win was that he made an intelligent brain lose. That is what love does.Nikamma bana dete hai. And he is not the one. Munna bhai bhi hai. Left his GF for Sameer. He has a true idiot lover friend Munna. For Munna dosti is more than love. Call it stupidity but that is love.
Now Vishaka raised a question, "is Naina right for Sameer? Well if she only sees Naina it might be not. But if she sees herself she might reconsider. When it comes to heart and mind Vishaka too gives priority to brain. This is why she is married to Bobby and living with him instead of Sameer.
Can Sameer survive with his heart only? No. Heart can't survive alone in this world. According to medical term also that is impossible. Without brain heart running is called "clinically dead. Naina is that brain. She is not perfect. She is selfish. If she is not selfish she would not be with Sameer. Then Sameer would be chopped off by monsters like Vishaka's sasuma. Naina needs to be selfish. Both selfless couple can't get married forget about running a life together. She needs to be selfish or else she can never marry Sameer who is her father's biggest "no no? So don't blame her being selfish. Selfish is not bad when it is for survival and love. And for Samaina as Sameer is a hopeless lover boy...Naina's selfishness will be their protection shield.
I think the final name for this love should be "Rab ne milaye Jodi.
What's your name for this love? Or which movie name you want to call this?