Felt Naina little selfish - Page 3

Originally posted by: samspriyanka09

Hi Suman, not taking side but i feel this forum is extremely biased, and always give negative reactions about Naina more than sameer. Lets use the logic we are seeing the characters of 1990 and not 2018. Today we girls are rebellious and know about our rights. But those time was different. Cant we just understand that how thinking in those times used to be. I didnt find Naina at all selfish. If knowing she would have said to sameer that dont take my name,,, than the situation would have been different. She was only sharing her fears with him. Not once she reacted telling sameer that why did you take my name. She was worried about her relationship only.

Originally posted by: TereLiyeMINU

True... Naina felt a little selfish and too doomed in own misery.I know Sam was joking but I expected her to ask what about him and how would his family members like Maama Maami would react to this revelation.Shetalked about her miseries but should have asked about his miseries too.Whatever happened it was by both of them and with both if them in consent.So I expected her to be less guilty and show her concern of her to him.

Strictly my POV based on the conversation that took place.

I am not against Naina or anything.I am for them as a couple.

Originally posted by: dramebaaz.af

Girls today as well can't just leave their families for love. They don't just loose respect in the eyes of society or family for choosing love above them , but they also loose their sense of worth in our society because our society, especially society as it was a decade earlier as well; measures the honor and deserving respect of a girl by what her family and people around her think of. Naina can end up giving her life to Sameer in name of their love except it wouldn't do anything helpful. Sameer's privileged position in society allows him to deal with incidents as such with much more lenient consequences. Sameer can loose a whole year, except next time someone finds out why he lost that year, people would excuse it by saying he's a boy, the girl probably lured him, or him getting appreciated by his peers if not his close friends for getting that advantage. I think that even though Sameer's insecurity in these situations have increased in regards with their compatibility, these are also moments where he has take into account what a girl like Naina represents and what he is willingly choosing. I think blaming naina isn't wholly correct either. The root of Sameer's insecurity isn;t Naina. Whenever Naina could've been there for him, she tried her level best to communicate with him but his problems are rooted more with the abandonment of his own mother, him not getting any acceptance by a family that her mother adopted, and him loosing his grandfather so early when he was the only person who accepted him. Naina's relationship with him isn't that of a caretaker like all those other relationships were. While Sameer isn't naina's caretaker either, he has the privilege to use his designated position by society to help Naina. Naina however can't help Sameer or make things better. She can simly help him develop a new identity from those wounds. I hope I make some sort of sense.
In conclusion lol, i think this whole giving up your life and taking blame for each other equally is a grey area because of the consequences differing for both of them.

Originally posted by: suhaaniladki

Dear I found your comment to be extremely rude the TM was just expressing her views about certain character . I just don't get the fact why people like u drag Ashi in this mess whereas post title clearly suggests discussion is about Naina the character we see daily on TV. So plz keep aside the fact that we hate ashi or something... We all love her the same way u do. Secondly coming to Naina.. .We do have our opinions that yes she was being selfish in yesterdays episode the whole world could see that... Mere tauji mere papa meri taiji mere chachaji unki hadd kya hoga mera ghr se nikal denge etc etc... Did she just once asked him what about u... Are u OK, what happened when your mama mami came to know about the incident but no shes still stuck with main aur meri dunya ...and yes we sympathize with Sam proudly, he never had second thoughts about his decision, he happily sacrificed his whole year and staked his career for Naina... .. Sunaina was right .. Woh mar jayega pr naina ka naam nhi lega... As far as makers and story telling is considered we don't want a doormat naina but obviously we don't want selfish and self centred naina either... They have messed up her character completely... And family naina ki school time pr bhi aisi thi but tb naina Zara bhi selfish nhi thi ...it was she who made us fall in love with the show... So we had once seen best version of naina but now can't blindly follow her like ppl here do... Our opinion about Naina is slightly different than yours and sharing on public platform is not a crime