Can we give benefit of Doubt to Vishaka here??

well, i think she might be right from a mother's perspective here by viewing naina's behavior ...but judging naina in just for the first time is wrong...naina was the one who made sameer from being a lifeless person to to guy who actually has a potential to love someone...sameer sometimes needs to think from his mind besides his heart instead of being fool easily just as we saw during the diwali time when naina saved him from getting duped ..

Vishaka is another Sameer, instead of changing her approach she wants others to change...she is Sameer's mother, and she saw her son being treated badly , she sent her son away..why did she not give it back to her husband saying she could become a mother for his child but he and his mom could never do that for her child. Why did nt she start giving a medicine of their to Rohan...scared of loosing her life??!!!

Here also she is insecure of loosing her son to Naina...she doesn't want her son to be controlled by the other lady..
Also she doesn't think her son is smart..thats her main problem...its again her fault...she didn't bring him up to be confident of her son's behavior...

Somehow my opinion of Vishaka has been very poor, I have never liked her from the beginning especially from the day she refused to accept him as her son in front of other.. even if she had slapped that day , I wouldn't have felt bad...

She wants him to be perfect but doesn't have the courage to accept him in her life and bring him up. A mother who cant do that shouldn't point fingers at her son's in capability..rather she should be happy that her son turned fine even with out her.

So no matter what , she can only be trouble for him...unless she decides to stand by her son's happiness...which till date she hasn't.

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Vishaka is another Sameer, instead of changing her approach she wants others to change...she is Sameer's mother, and she saw her son being treated badly , she sent her son away..why did she not give it back to her husband saying she could become a mother for his child but he and his mom could never do that for her child. Why did nt she start giving a medicine of their to Rohan...scared of loosing her life??!!!

Here also she is insecure of loosing her son to Naina...she doesn't want her son to be controlled by the other lady..
Also she doesn't think her son is smart..thats her main problem...its again her fault...she didn't bring him up to be confident of her son's behavior...

Somehow my opinion of Vishaka has been very poor, I have never liked her from the beginning especially from the day she refused to accept him as her son in front of other.. even if she had slapped that day , I wouldn't have felt bad...

She wants him to be perfect but doesn't have the courage to accept him in her life and bring him up. A mother who cant do that shouldn't point fingers at her son's in capability..rather she should be happy that her son turned fine even with out her.

So no matter what , she can only be trouble for him...unless she decides to stand by her son's happiness...which till date she hasn't.

Vishakha is a bad mother...she thinks she knows her son bt sadly thats not the case...she hs never tried to understand Sameer's state of mind...never encouraged him n hs always compared him to some or the other...she doesn't know Sameer's capabilities...she hs been a disappointment right from the start...not standing up against her husband for Sam.. nt giving equal love to him like Rohan...never cared abt him... never trusting him...only called him twice a year to know abt the results...she has been a puppet at the hand the hands of her husband n MIL...so she is a weak woman too