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haritha45

@haritha45

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

I know Samina r leads n we all love them heartfully. Till date I hated arjun to core for paper stealing thing,Leg break natak n for torturing Sam.

I was re watching last week episodes n remembered all scenes from start n got a small thought that both Sameer n naina had ppl around them who correct them when they r fault like mundit n preeti chachaji. Mundit always showed right direction whenever Sam was wrong. Nanu Vishaka Mama Mami always always tried to understand his state of mind before jumping into conclusions. For naina it is chachaji who always showed right path n preeti who always gives mirror image of naina's heart n makes her understand things. Chachaji always showed special concern for naina n understood her situation before jumping into conclusions

Both Samina r lucky but does Arjun had any such special person in his life who guided his life. Chachaji definitely cared for him but that was limited because of 24/7 Safari Suit around Arjun. I didn't saw arjun having any close frnd who understands him. It was only shefali who understood him n tried to make him realise his mistakes .Naina definitely loved Arjun n she did pointed out his mistakes but even she didn't tried to make him realise his mistakes n tried to make him come under right path by putting some positive energy in his mind

I know whatever arjun did with shefali was totally wrong but did Agarwals even tried to ask him politely in private about what happened? No they were all bursting on him moreover family members started taunting about SS suicide attempt n Preena future. What if arjun accepts truth save shefali n SS commits suicide? If that happens he would have ruined everyone's life

Don't bash me for this but I was literally in tears when everyone in agarwals including naina r questioning him instead asking him peacefully. The only person in his life who understood n supported him in every situation is only Shefali n he let her go for SS n still SS couldn't sense arjun's pain. Naina n arjun r moat unlucky kids to have SS as their father 😭

Even Shefali has her mother to share her pain but arjun is all alone

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Isha

@mystique123

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Posted: 7 years ago

Yeah true, Arjun's upbringing was the main reason for him being coward and may be he loved Shefali because she was the only one with whom he could express himself.

Even after being in a time period where guys mattered the most, he was scared to even express his anxiety or pain.

He is a loser by all means now: he lost his love, failed his baby sister and even he has lost the trust of his family. Still, I hate him not because he dint confess his love but because he let others term Shefali as characterless. I could have forgiven him for denying his love but never ever for this and no excuse in the world could save him from wrath.

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Priyanka

@priya_nka_yudkb

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

I agree with whatever you said. I think we as a forum is little too biased against Arjun. I am not saying that he right and a very great human being. But he is a human being and has flaws. So does Sameer and Naina. I don't think in the situation that he was in and given his personality he could have done anything else. Yes he had time to think and plan while returning home. But I think the biggest shocker he got was SS sucide attempt which he would have not known before reaching home.

I didn't expect anyone in Agrawal house to ask him politely. But I think Naina could have been a little understanding. When she herself realizes that she would never be able to confess her love in front of her family. She could have been a little polite rather than judging him.

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Priyanka

@priya_nka_yudkb

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: mystique123
Yeah true, Arjun's upbringing was the main reason for him being coward and may be he loved Shefali because she was the only one with whom he could express himself.
Even after being in a time period where guys mattered the most, he was scared to even express his anxiety or pain.

He is a loser by all means now: he lost his love, failed his baby sister and even he has lost the trust of his family. Still, I hate him not because he dint confess his love but because he let others term Shefali as characterless. I could have forgiven him for denying his love but never ever for this and no excuse in the world could save him from wrath.

Agree that Arjun was wrong in not supporting Shefali. Won't argue on that point. But I think shefali was also wrong in reviling their relationship in that situation. Arjun was too shocked and guilty to know about his father's suicide attempt. She should have understood the mental state that Arjun was in. I have no idea what made her think that in this situation Arjun would confess anything..

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haritha45

@haritha45

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: priya_nka_yudkb
I agree with whatever you said. I think we as a forum is little too biased against Arjun. I am not saying that he right and a very great human being. But he is a human being and has flaws. So does Sameer and Naina. I don't think in the situation that he was in and given his personality he could have done anything else. Yes he had time to think and plan while returning home. But I think the biggest shocker he got was SS sucide attempt which he would have not known before reaching home.
I didn't expect anyone in Agrawal house to ask him politely. But I think Naina could have been a little understanding. When she herself realizes that she would never be able to confess her love in front of her family. She could have been a little polite rather than judging him.

Ya I agree I was really expecting naina to ask him politely. I understand what he did with shefali is completely wrong n naina confronting him as shefali frnd is right but why she didn't try to correct arjun with her love n positivity

Arjun needs someone positive person who guide him n understand him. Said that there is no one such person understand him.

SS made him lifeless but god that he'll stay awqy from SS

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Isha

@mystique123

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: priya_nka_yudkb

Agree that Arjun was wrong in not supporting Shefali. Won't argue on that point. But I think shefali was also wrong in reviling their relationship in that situation. Arjun was too shocked and guilty to know about his father's suicide attempt. She should have understood the mental state that Arjun was in. I have no idea what made her think that in this situation Arjun would confess anything..

You have a point. I had mentioned this in another thread as well. All Shefali had to tell was she took Arjun's help as she knew him well being Naina's brother and her cricket coach.Arjun could have agreed to it and baat khatam.

This also makes me wonder had those offscreen issues not happened, would CVs end it this way. They may not, he na 😕

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Chatterbox1

@Chatterbox1

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Posted: 7 years ago

You are right but then Arjun had Naina but he did not share his insecurities with her..may be he always looked at her as his little sister and did not really made her his best friend..things would have been different had he done that..

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haritha45

@haritha45

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Chatterbox1
You are right but then Arjun had Naina but he did not share his insecurities with her..may be he always looked at her as his little sister and did not really made her his best friend..things would have been different had he done that..

Ya true elders r not ready to take advices from younger ones. We r lucky that now a days many of siblings r like besties n share their thoughts irrespective of age n gender

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haritha45

@haritha45

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: priya_nka_yudkb

Agree that Arjun was wrong in not supporting Shefali. Won't argue on that point. But I think shefali was also wrong in reviling their relationship in that situation. Arjun was too shocked and guilty to know about his father's suicide attempt. She should have understood the mental state that Arjun was in. I have no idea what made her think that in this situation Arjun would confess anything..

True shefali confessed in wrong timing but even she was helpless n have no option as her character was judged. More than Shefjun I feel their families r immature. Why to create such drama in front relatives. They can personally take shefjun aside n ask them politely but Agarwals made shefali characterless n made arjun lifeless by completing cutting his happiness

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braveheartdoc

@braveheartdoc

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Naina has the support of Chachaji Chachi and Preeti box of her qualities... they trust her immensely while Arjun doesn't have any such qualities and that's bcoz of undue pressure from his father

He could have shared everything with Naina ... maybe she confronted him as she was angry on Shefali being called characterless but he could have shared his heart with her

What he did can't be called as right ever...his silence and later his denial led to a girls character being misjudged 😡