Could Arjun have done anything else at all?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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A guy who has spent all his life under pressure of his father and his expectations from him. For a boy who has lost her Mom when he was too young. Is it easy for him to do anything else.
There were tons of people at his home, his father has attempted suicide and people telling him about his sister's future. What would you expect him to do in such situation???

Stand against his dad and say yes I love shefali and Papa you can now go and commit suicide??!!!??

I am not saying whatever he did was 100% correct but in this situation was it really required to tell about his and Shefali's relationship to everyone. I don't know why did Shefali confess that? What was the need? Why Now or never?? None of them were getting married.

When Naina could think of ending her relationship with Sameer based on all the drama that happened.. what do we expect from Arjun?

I think most of the people don't like Arjun for whatever reasons.. and hence being baised towards him in this situation as well. But my heart goes for him in this situation. I don't think he could have really confused his love at this time. Now he has lost his love and his family both.

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braveheartdoc thumbnail
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I would like to share my pov on this...i hope you wont feel offended...it would be from both the POV ...i hope its ok😊
Coming to Shefali...we ahve a girl who has been shown to speak what is the truth and takes a stand for what is right. Here she was being blamed for something that she had not done...it was him who offered his car to her and instead she was blamed for trapping him...so if I was in her situation I feel even i would have also revealed that they love each other. Also Arjun is older than Naina...and in those days it was common to get married at this age😳
So what Shefai did was right according to me.

Now coming to Arjun...i feel that he is a guy who cant take a stand for anything...and somewhere Rakesh is responsible for this trait in him. He has put an undue pressure on him always. In such a situation I agree that he cant take a step and accept that he was the one who did all this...as he is scared of his father and the repercussions of this confession...but for once did he think of Shefali...even after seeing her courage and her love and her will to fight for their love...he never showed any courage to defend her😔
He could have said something else and twisted the story in some other safe way...but he put the entire blame on that girl😔

If such a thing would have happened with his sisters...how would he feel😳
That just shows he has no guts to speak the truth ever

Regarding him losing his family...probably he hasnt lost that...but love...surely he has...and he desrves that...Shefali deserves someone better😳
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Arjun is just 19 years old and still has to do something to sustain his future...means he just nobody today.so at such situation he crumbled to the pressure of family.sameer is rich ...he has his own business that' why he is confident. Naina s family will agree to sameer and I guess there will be lot of opposition from sameer family because of class difference...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Arjun is completely and utterly spineless -- and this is partly Rakesh's fault. In fact I was amazed at his level of cowardice.
He didn't have to say Shefali is lying. In fact, Shefali doesn't first admit that they love each other at all and that he's promised to marry her. She only does that when she's pressurized by Arjun's family. She states the truth about the situation in the beginning. All Arjun had to do was admit that she was telling the truth about why the car was gone and how they were found. He could have kept shut about their relationship and simply said he saw her in trouble so thought to help out...also made up some excuse about how he had to be near the area anyways so took her. I know his family was being crazy, dramatic, and he had just heard that his dad had tried committing suicide, but he had time to think of a story on his way home. I'm sure his chachaji would have managed to handle the situation had Arjun just spoken.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Then why did arjun talk to shefali mother..that he will never leave shefali .
He made a lot of promises
Couldn't he at least think how his words might effect the dignity of a girl.
shefali deserves someone better than arjun
No girl has to be in her place
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I know its about Arjun but today I could feel that if Naina was in this situation or will be in a similar situation in future would do the same. That's their upbringing...they way Agarwal family threatens kids and keep them under their belt (chach/ chachi are an exception however) none of the kids will ever have courage to go against the family. I'm so sure...we'll witness a similar drama when Sameer/ Naina's truth will come out.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: braveheartdoc

I would like to share my pov on this...i hope you wont feel offended...it would be from both the POV ...i hope its ok😊

Coming to Shefali...we ahve a girl who has been shown to speak what is the truth and takes a stand for what is right. Here she was being blamed for something that she had not done...it was him who offered his car to her and instead she was blamed for trapping him...so if I was in her situation I feel even i would have also revealed that they love each other. Also Arjun is older than Naina...and in those days it was common to get married at this age😳
So what Shefai did was right according to me.

Now coming to Arjun...i feel that he is a guy who cant take a stand for anything...and somewhere Rakesh is responsible for this trait in him. He has put an undue pressure on him always. In such a situation I agree that he cant take a step and accept that he was the one who did all this...as he is scared of his father and the repercussions of this confession...but for once did he think of Shefali...even after seeing her courage and her love and her will to fight for their love...he never showed any courage to defend her😔
He could have said something else and twisted the story in some other safe way...but he put the entire blame on that girl😔

If such a thing would have happened with his sisters...how would he feel😳
That just shows he has no guts to speak the truth ever

Regarding him losing his family...probably he hasnt lost that...but love...surely he has...and he desrves that...Shefali deserves someone better😳


I completely agree with all that you said...but your last sentence,šŸ‘šŸ‘ a girl like Shefali deserves someone better. This is not the first time Arjun has shown that he is spineless.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Atleast he could have said that he loves her. He could say that i love shefali but i won't marry her without family's consent.But he didnt. Instead he lied. He literally betrayed shefali. He become innocent and acted like shef trapped him.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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My POV ..
My first question rise is would it be the same story if CV's or director had given it other view.?? .. The actors would have thought to stay and wait for their SS ..??...If there were only family members and not whole bunch of relatives judging his character and upbringings ...??... If his father wouldn't tried commiting suicide ??... If he didn't love his Father or Family ??

Coz whatever Rakesh is... His kids love him irrevocably and unconditionally ...Kids in that era never questioned their parents ...And they whole heartedly loved them... Both Naina and Arjun have shown the love for their father again and again...


Other then that... Just once think about a 19-20 year old boy ..Think about his position...Think about his mental state... He may be just one or 2 year older then Naina...

If the forum accepts Naina's POV and desicions to break up her 2 year long affair...Just because she is seeing it in different light from viewpoint of her family...And we are here justifying her ... Then why are we name calling arjun in this...Spineless and what not...
Even Swati was worried when the family decided to call her mother...So what would you say...She was spineless to accept her relation...No ...Not...But given the situation where she can't voice her opinion..She was scared... Laters may be she would be able to convince her parents and make them see why she is in love ...But at that time she was scared to face her family...


For once I feel bad enough for all the kids who grew up in that time period... And similarly all the young people in our show... Naina , Sameer...Shefali..Arjun...Swati...Munna...
Edited by asmita21180 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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If he had opened his mouth and said that he had gone with Shefali thinking that she is Naina's friend and needed help...that they are unnecessarily making a big issue of it...they didn't get married and they are not getting married as they are kids ...need to study and concentrate on their career...

I am sure at this chacha ji would have supported

But this fellow didn't open his mouth...his in ability to stand up and tell a simple truth...made Shefali insecure and she confessed their love in front of every one...

All he had to do was to tell the truth. ONLY the truth...but he is so spineless even in front of his dad that he couldn't even utter the truth which was very harmless...nothing close to what Naina had done.

Regarding parents committing suicide .. that is blackmailing ...no matter what and how bad the situation is a parent SHOULD NEVER TAKE SUCH A DECISION...what are you trying to teach your kids...to give up in life...and NO kid should fall for such acts of parents and ruin their life...if he had done that , imagine how it would have affected Naina and Arjun...did he even think of it...kids make mistake you need correct them ...not commit suicide!!

I know a lot of you will have sympathy to Rakesh , but I don't because he is the root cause for his kids to go be this way...both his kids found affection outside the family is because they were not getting enough attention and love inside the house...they were being brought up that s all ...provided ...but kids need more than food clothing and shelter...Naina is still more balanced because of her chacha , else should be in a worse situation...with character she is ...she would have been just an obedient girl with no guts to take decisions in life..

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