ABOUT SHIPPING.

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SamAina_yudkbh

@SamAina_yudkbh

Voyager

Posted: 7 years ago

i found a post against shipping. i find many comments against shipping every now and then. there are practical minded people who don't find shipping very sensible.

so here are my thoughts about shipping. please go through.

i think unless and until the limits not crossed, the actors are not bashed, shipping is ok.

everyone is not practical. can not be. there are people who are romantic at heart. and as someone has said in one of the post against shipping, it is innocent to wish your fav onscreen couple to be real life couple, especially if they are not committed elsewhere.

people against shipping take objections to the inferences and conclusions shippers draw from the details of pics and videos and ivs of actors. so yes sometimes the details ARE far fetched but sometimes they are sensible too.

people in general are not dumb the way they show in the serials. they do sense the sparks the signs.

there are so many couples in real life who were online couples once. e.g. ram gautami, gauri hiten, sanaya mohit, raquesh riddhi, ritwik asha, deepika shoeb... the list goes on.

so the shippers are not altogether wrong you see.

in one of the post against shipping, the threadmaker has says that people of oposite gender work together in offices too and they remain professional and set of a show is like office for the actors so they are professional too. so let me remind that love stories happen in offices too. jodiyaan kahi pe bhi ban sakti hai .

it's absolutely wrong to make edits of onscreen couples to satisfy your own fantasies, tagging them in shipping posts, abusing them verbally when they post pics with their friends. this kind of shipping is abusive and obsessive .

but there is nothing wrong in harmless discussions about some romantic possibilities and drawing inferences from obvious and sensible signs when they are right in front of your eyes.

yes. in shipping there is always a possibility that your wish may not be fulfilled and there turns out to be nothing betn the said couple. this heartbreak hurts almost as bad as your own real life heartbreak but when you ship you should be ready for this.

and there is always possibility of your fantasies turning out to be true. and it brings almost as much happiness as your own story.

so yeah. emotional investment in shipping is subject to heartbreak risks but it's fun till it lasts.

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shravya rao

@shravyarao

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Posted: 7 years ago

Sensible and Well said!! 👏

Edited by shravyarao - 7 years ago

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Seema

@JaySee

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Posted: 7 years ago

Much needed and a good sensible post.

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dakshaavi

@dakshaavi

Rocker

Posted: 7 years ago

Well said ...

i am not against shipper but that should be in form of discussions ...edits are also ok ...but going over board to an extent of bashing ..using abusive words ...is not done ...

Most important no matter what the actor' do off screen we don' have any rights to question them ...people should not forget this ..

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Avan_s

@Avan_s

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: dakshaavi
Well said ...
i am not against shipper but that should be in form of discussions ...edits are also ok ...but going over board to an extent of bashing ..using abusive words ...is not done ...

Most important no matter what the actor' do off screen we don' have any rights to question them ...people should not forget this ..

Yeah same here, I don't mind healthy shipping but abusing or trolling an actor is kinda cruel. At the end of the day actors are humans too.

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bmk28

@bmk28

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Posted: 7 years ago

What a remarkable logical note. Thank you for sharing it.

I have read contrary point of view of people and they are also right in their own way. Respecting personal choice is basic courtesy.

However, if I want to do something different within the rules and regulations then it should be ok as well. The only word that I didnt agree to in your note was conclusion as its a very strong word and it required solid evidence (sorry I am finance professional and I use this word only when there is solid proof). So observing, talking, sharing and inferring is completely fine as per me.

Its good that you also took upon the analogy of normal work place. Everything which happens in media industry happens at work place as well. Love story resulting into wedlock to affairs and flings for certain reasons. I have seen it happening around me. Only affected people talk about it. For celebrities whole lot talk about it as many people want to know. Its not new. I have read stardust while growing up with all kind of stories. In today's time information travels faster through SM. Thats the only change.

So my request is that like minded people can have their forum and have a discussion without hurting anyone's sentiments. If there is way to take an action against people who get personal then that should be thought of. Rather than not having a discussion at all. Thats my point of view.

I am new on this forum so not sure about rules and regulations. If what I want to do is not permissible then please enlighten me and I will be out of it completely.

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Prerana167099

@Prerana167099

Explorer

Posted: 7 years ago

Hey I would like to put up one thing we love the onscreen couple because of the pure love they portray and the bond that we see for each other so much that we want it off screen. But if the story off screen is not the same or upsets us but the we have to accept and yes we don't want them as couple them. Yes there are chances of being off screen couple are more as they are having nice chemistry else we would not have loved them onscreen so much and they are together for 12 hours and hence there are high chances so we can pray for it.

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Isha

@mystique123

Dazzler

Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: bmk28
What a remarkable logical note. Thank you for sharing it.
I have read contrary point of view of people and they are also right in their own way. Respecting personal choice is basic courtesy.

However, if I want to do something different within the rules and regulations then it should be ok as well. The only word that I didnt agree to in your note was conclusion as its a very strong word and it required solid evidence (sorry I am finance professional and I use this word only when there is solid proof). So observing, talking, sharing and inferring is completely fine as per me.

Its good that you also took upon the analogy of normal work place. Everything which happens in media industry happens at work place as well. Love story resulting into wedlock to affairs and flings for certain reasons. I have seen it happening around me. Only affected people talk about it. For celebrities whole lot talk about it as many people want to know. Its not new. I have read stardust while growing up with all kind of stories. In today's time information travels faster through SM. Thats the only change.

So my request is that like minded people can have their forum and have a discussion without hurting anyone's sentiments. If there is way to take an action against people who get personal then that should be thought of. Rather than not having a discussion at all. Thats my point of view.

I am new on this forum so not sure about rules and regulations. If what I want to do is not permissible then please enlighten me and I will be out of it completely.

Can't agree more. Let like minded people have their fun without offending anyone. After all, it is live and let live.

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