Why so much anger and hatred towards sameer? - Page 4

Originally posted by: -vandy-

The whole problem is that everybody is mixing reel with real...

Shashi mam said she would've never accepted sameer after the bet...But naina did...

So here too naina will redeem him and accept him...

Thats y I also said sameer will need a huge reality check to realise the gravity of his doings...

@Aisha...

Even I'm not interested in replying to u...If u bring up ur personal life on a public platform...Be prepared to face the opinion of others roo...Just an advise nothing else...

And for those u think it was a personal comment...

It was not...There is a vast difference in being personal...

People here are putting sexual abuse and eve teasing in the same parameter...Which is not right...

I posted my opinion...On reel ...And will stand by it...

u know what people give advices very fast despite without knowing the facts clearly.u dont her even and making a personal comment is really disgusting and u r even justifying that if she will discuss it here then people will discuss abt it thats really shameful act of u pardon me for being so rude

Originally posted by: Hearttalks_90s

thanks for the post... and that shows a different perspective however eve teasing is not okay... drinking, smoking, po*n, gambling they r all okay... i for sure dont judge people on that...

but what do u actually know about eve teasing? do u think its okay to touch other women without her consent? that is what his friends did in the first place... agreed he wasnt part of it agreed he said sorry agreed he tried to stop them... but wen the gals brother said if sorry works if something happened to his own family member then why beat them? or why stop them from beatiing those guys who did eve tease the gal and like he doesnt like it happening to his family member same the other person wud also not like... so let them fight.

regarding retaliating or slapping back - pls go through stories of Asifa who was 8, the nun of around 70+ years - do you think they were in a age where they cud hv stopped anything from happening to them? just read through the brutality of what they went through... and i request pls read it...

and like u have said CVs have shown what Sam was always doing... so he was always respectful towards women. so why a U turn there? and i as an ardent fan here expected CV to keep that very quality intact in the flawed yet lovable characters that they themselves created...

they have taken many creative liberties... so wen out n out the country and even all over the world, the problem of eve teasing is rampant why not show that their very much real life character stick to that quality which he has inherent in him?

and somewhere it was mentioned that did he see those magazines? so we see cigarattes, beer bottles, cards but only for the magazines we shud think that he dint see them. why? well even if he saw that i dont hv any problem with that either...

Originally posted by: -vandy-

The whole problem is that everybody is mixing reel with real...

Shashi mam said she would've never accepted sameer after the bet...But naina did...

So here too naina will redeem him and accept him...

Thats y I also said sameer will need a huge reality check to realise the gravity of his doings...

@Aisha...

Even I'm not interested in replying to u...If u bring up ur personal life on a public platform...Be prepared to face the opinion of others roo...Just an advise nothing else...

And for those u think it was a personal comment...

It was not...There is a vast difference in being personal...

People here are putting sexual abuse and eve teasing in the same parameter...Which is not right...

I posted my opinion...On reel ...And will stand by it...

Originally posted by: -vandy-

Don't u think the CVS are doing exactly the same thing that people in today's world want ???

Sending out a message ????

U gave me examples of asifa, that nun, and I can also quote nirbhaya and that incident which happened in our neighbouring country...

What do we do ?

Sign a petition...And do a candle march ... What does it yield?

Nothing...

Until and unless that awareness starts from within...Nothing can be attained...

And I feel the CVS are hinting towards it...

Sameer got agitated the moment the brother mentioned his family...And sameer's VO mentioned naina too...

Its just that the gravity has not struck him...

He will reach that point of self awareness wen naina or anybody close to him will go thru this...

Its at this point he will realise...That just respecting women is not enough...We need to voice it out too...Stop others from doing wrong too...

Sameer is not a mahan atma...So I don't expect him to behave like a saint...He's human...He will learn like all of us do

Please stop fighting all of you! It's a show and not some reality that's getting showcased. The makers too have admitted to tweaking the story for creative benefits. Healthy discussions are fine but this seems to be spiraling out of hand. More like some mud slinging. Just stop.

Thanks to all who supported me🤗 I am really touched.

Originally posted by: Hearttalks_90s

i for one doesnt do candle march or petition... i hit the ground and if u hv time pls read the post about what i did wen someone was in trouble at the age of 12

and also after that incident what all i did -

https://www.indiaforums.com/forum/post/146825595

but alas that requires a real person who can understand the real world... if u really want to know do read it pls pls pls

Originally posted by: doublecross

Please stop fighting all of you! It's a show and not some reality that's getting showcased. The makers too have admitted to tweaking the story for creative benefits. Healthy discussions are fine but this seems to be spiraling out of hand. More like some mud slinging. Just stop.

Originally posted by: -vandy-

Its ok pooja (I hope I got ur name right)

Its just that I'm pretty blunt and don't sugar coat my opinion...

People do find me rude and my best frends over the years whom I found on this forum can vouch for it😆

I might come as mean and rude... But don't know the art of playing with words...

The whole point of my post was lost somewhere in the face of a comment of mine... But I'm glad that I got some good discussion going on too😊

So true. I'm not disappointed with sameer's character. It is as realistic and relatable that can be. He is just seventh years old not even attained his maturity age same goes with Naina.
Naina and sameer are bound to make mistakes and learn from it. We are judging them as leads of a serial not as a human beings that's why the disappointed came from. I am happy that CVS are exploring both the characters of the leads not making them look mahaan but as realistic as possible.
Sameer and Naina have a long journey to go still so we still have to wait.
This the only show where I can relate with the leads because they are flawed and not perfect.
Kudos for the CVS for portraying the characters like this then making it mahaan.