Very normal Response by Sameer - Page 6

Originally posted by: doublecross

Are you saying that a man should never protest when he sees other men lusting after innocent women? I get your point here itWas a hypothetical situation where he imagines naina in place of those studio girls. But what he was protesting against was completely right. After all thoseguys took one of the studio girls pictures with them. Am sure you must be knowing what next they must have thought about doing with that picture. Since you are a psychologist and since you understand male ego and misogyny so well. Yes his anger was misdirected which even the voiceover talked about but not what he was protesting against. Because he was protesting against those guys who were visually disrobing an innocent girl/girls for no fault of theirs. Much like rape.

Originally posted by: paagalbandar

Yes Priti, this is what I am trying to point out lol😆 Thanks for understanding hahahha😆 And to tell you honestly, I don't mind a little possessiveness from men of my family...It just shows me that they care...And knowing them so well, I know that, touch wood, guys that I have come across whether its my Sam, my friends, my bro, or my dad, may be possessive, but, they are all extremely good guys...guys that will not watch any girl being tortured, disrespected or harassed in front of them. Infact, just the other day, I was being bugged by some guy on fb, and my bro, my hubby, and my friends, they found out about it. And they were so cuteee, in their own manly way, they all went out to find the person who was bugging me. And didn't say a word to me. Infact, they said if someone is bothering you, you must tell us. lol So yes, little bit of possessiveness is normal, and infact its very satisfying to know that someone actually genuninely cares for your well being. I am sure Naina will appreciate Sameer, ones she finds out why he said what he said. I don't think she is looking at his outburst, she is just trying to find out why he reacted that way. And when she does, she will feel more respect for him.

Originally posted by: paagalbandar

Exactly girl😃 Agree with you. His reaction was not 100% possessiveness, it was care and concern which was channeled as anger. 😃 Its just similar to as if your bro/husband/dad, when they react angrily b/c they cannot talk about some guy making lewd comments at you directly to you as it makes them feel awkward. Especially in our culture, a father or a brother, till date cannot come up to you and say, your boobs are showing, cover them. The way they will react is "yeh kya pehnaa hai, jaake change karo". Or your mother will not say your underwear is showing, she will say "beta theek se betho dress pehni hai". It doesn't mean they are abnormal or they patriachal mindset lol...its just their way of showing their feelings, their concern, their love. For guys, when they feel like they can't say what they want to, they do tend to show it as frustration, cribbing or anger. In case of Sameer also, though they love each other, if you think about it, they are not at the level where he can make her understand what he saw in Delhi. He saw those guys lusting over those girls's photos, but do you think that even if he wanted to, him and Naina share such comfort level, to be able to talk about it???? No they don't. That comfort will come after marriage maybe. She shied away just with his touch, do you think she will be able to understand if he told her the things he saw. Do you think he will be able to tell her that, those guy would make out with those pictures when they get home??? and be able to explain to Naina what makeout meant during those times. Ofcourse not. Hence the frustration and anger.

Originally posted by: RaDev_Fan1

I think his getting upset over it could be normal for 90s era as that's how males use to think back than (some still think the same way). But breaking the frame with her pic and going away like that doesn't look normal. You wait to meet someone for so long and come all the way from Delhi to Ahmedabad ( travel in 90s was not so often) and than leave in a few minutes for any reason is hard to understand.

And if this is possessiveness and being protective... Tab to usse aur bhi Naina ko chod kar nahi Jana chahiye. If this is the only reason he is returning to Delhi, does not sound logical at all.

Originally posted by: PritiSC

I really dont know why everyone are bashing Sam...He respects women and not only Naina..there are many instances

1. He fought for Naina in Mt Abu with that bet boys and took a slap from Rakesh

2. Upcoming fighting sequence for his Mom

3. In Delhi when those boys pull the photos from the shop he didnt like he was going to bash them...those photos was of random girl

So for me he is gentleman in true sense

As a women we shud understand men perspective as well...Naina is alone...uski jaan hai...He is not around...if any issue occurs who will sort out...Its not about orthodox...its only about care and protectiveness...If the man is good and gentleman this is a natural behaviour

Sirf he had lost all his patience...but this is learning phase...they will grow together

Originally posted by: Komalp1391

Sam behaviour was totally justified..i agree with u

Sab sam ko possesive mode me dekhna chahte the na lo dekho cvs isliye uska possesive mode nhi dikhana chahte the aut agar kisi ladke ne naina ki taraf aankh uthakr delha bhi toh sam babu uska jo hall krenge vo koi soch bhi nhi paega😆

And sam ka gussa hona is normal he is also agressive and when something like this happens many people who r so calm lose their patience

Vaise naina ka jo pose tha it was really very funny for me mujhe abhi tk hasi aa rahi hai vo dekh kr🤣