Very normal Response by Sameer

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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hey guys,

I saw lot of responses on how Sameer over-reacted. But we all need to think from a male point of view and not from female when it comes to Sameer. I will share with you my experience lol😆

What you saw is not a typical teenager response. Its actually a typical male response. You can ask any guy, and if they truly love you, they will not appreciate the fact that some other guy was luring over you, or flirting with you, or even starring at your photo in any state or position. And majority of the guys will tell you this that they will react the way Sameer did. It makes them uncomfortable to even think about another man staring at their wife/gf again provided that they genuinely love you. So yes Sameer's reaction is justified from a male point of view. From female point of you, its confusing for us. But to male, when they marry you and love you, they do feel a sense of entitlement on you. That is their way of showing love. Nothing wrong in the way Sameer expressed his emotions, its very normal in my opinion.

I have experienced it myself, when my Sam got pissed off just at the thought of some guy flirting with me. He was ready to beat the shit out of that person literally. Infact I told him about the same on the phone as he was in India, and he hung up the phone on me and didn't talk to me for several days and I couldn't understand just like Naina as to what I did wrong? I thought he had a right to know that someone flirted with me, and I thought I was doing the right thing by telling him that...But to him, it was like someone took over his property or something lol ...So yes it is very normal response that Sameer gave lol Some crib about it, and some guys act like kids, and some just burst out like Sameer did. If you want an angry young man like Sameer in your life, definitely be ready for the same reaction lol😆

And another thing that girls need to watch out for especially Naina because she is in love with an angry young man. Though you think they are not paying attention to whatever it is you are doing, or you think that they are busy doing their own thing, their eyes are always on you. And I don't mean in a bad way. Angry young mans, don't express their love in all lovey dovey way. They pretend they don't care and stuff b/c its against their male ego to admit that they need you or love you. But when you think they are busy and they don't care where you are, they infact exactly know where you are, and their eyes are on you despite being busy with something else lol. You think they don't notice what you are wearing, or how you are dressed. May god bless you if you think that way, they have scanned you up and down. And if anything is showing that shouldn't be showing, they won't say it directly, they will come and say as such "yeh kya pehna hai, yeh dress suit nahin kar rahi tum pe, go and change". This literally means that you are looking awesome and/or you might be showing more than they are comfortable you showing to the world, therefore, you must go change lol hahahhah😆 Angry young man kabhi bhi kooch directly nahin bolte. Unka pyaar aur hak jatane ka tarika indirect hota hai 😆 And they don't see anything wrong in the way they deal with these things😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Male point of view is different from female very true...
Guys knows very well how the other guy think ...
Like we saw munna and pandit got the point which naina and swathi and preethi failed to .
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: dakshaavi

Male point of view is different from female very true...

Guys knows very well how the other guy think ...
Like we saw munna and pandit got the point which naina and swathi and preethi failed to .



Exactly my point dear. Male express emotions differently than female. They are not all mushy mushy at all...they show anger to show love...and as female we think, does he not love me...but actually they are showing love hahahhah😆

Confusing aatma hum nahin, ladke hote hain 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Totally agree with you...n yes me too married to my Sameer...n one incident did happen with me...I ignored the guy coz we girls kind of get used to lewd men (we should not though)...n I'm not even getting started on my hubby's anger...but jo bhi tha...us din ke baad se I'm sure that guy would think thrice about passing an inappropriate comment to a lady. But uske baad se I haven't told my husband about 2 to 3 more ppl being flirtatious with me..I carefully ignored them n kept a distance. So yes, being married to a angry, young man is like this. They might not even show they care, but the truth is you cannot even comprehend how much you mean to them.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Samaina_1990

Totally agree with you...n yes me too married to my Sameer...n one incident did happen with me...I ignored the guy coz we girls kind of get used to lewd men (we should not though)...n I'm not even getting started on my hubby's anger...but jo bhi tha...us din ke baad se I'm sure that guy would think thrice about passing an inappropriate comment to a lady. But uske baad se I haven't told my husband about 2 to 3 more ppl being flirtatious with me..I carefully ignored them n kept a distance. So yes, being married to a angry, young man is like this. They might not even show they care, but the truth is you cannot even comprehend how much you mean to them.



awww exactly girlll...but yaar don't hide it from him, just tell him afterwards when you are alone...Because they feel betrayed easily too if you don't tell them. My angry young man, he gets pissed off even if I put some hot looking picture on FB and he sees some guy friend commenting on it hahahah...And he never says it directly, he just start acting up...and i know he is getting pissed, so I just have to handle him with care lol 😆 literally like a cribbing kid 😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: paagalbandar



Exactly my point dear. Male express emotions differently than female. They are not all mushy mushy at all...they show anger to show love...and as female we think, does he not love me...but actually they are showing love hahahhah😆

Confusing aatma hum nahin, ladke hote hain 😆

Yup that comes out in the form of anger and direct hit on loved ones
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Posted: 7 years ago
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We have just got glimpse of possessiveness of Sameer today when they are still teenagers...whats going to happen when they reach college.
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Originally posted by: dakshaavi

Yup that comes out in the form of anger and direct hit on loved ones



Yup and sarcasm starts tooo...whatever they want to say, they won't say nicely or directly...it will be under the belt hahahha...sarcastic tone start hojayega lol...Fir samjhlo aaj kooch toh gadbad hui hai aapse hahahha😆 Aur agar aap poochoge ki kya hua, kabhi nahin batayenge ki kya hua😆 they will just start cribbing, and until you don't figure it out, and fix that thing, their nose will be red and gaal will be fulle hue just like Sameer's lol...typical male behavior lol😆😆😆 Sameer is a typical angry young man, no difference lol😆 He will be even more child like and angry young man as he grows up hahahah😆 Just like Sashi mam said, that when Summit gets sick, she feels like she is taking care of a little kid lol😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I totally agree. Especially in this case, he was already frustrated by so many things.. so that was a breaking point for him in a way... And yeah I agree, angry young men have issues expressing their love openly 😆
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Originally posted by: paagalbandar



Yup and sarcasm starts tooo...whatever they want to say, they won't say nicely or directly...it will be under the belt hahahha...sarcastic tone start hojayega lol...Fir samjhlo aaj kooch toh gadbad hui hai aapse hahahha😆 Aur agar aap poochoge ki kya hua, kabhi nahin batayenge ki kya hua😆 they will just start cribbing, and until you
don't figure it out, and fix that thing, their nose will be red and gaal will be fulle hue just like Sameer's lol...typical male behavior lol😆😆😆 Sameer is a typical angry young man, no difference lol😆 He will be even more child like and angry young man as he grows up hahahah😆 Just like Sashi mam said, that when Summit gets sick, she feels like she is taking care of a little kid lol😆

arre yaar same here...sedhe baat bahar nahi aata..

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