Mar 23rd: O Yaara Tu Pyaaron Se Hain Pyaara ❤️ - Page 7

Originally posted by: Hearttalks_90s

nice Nivi

episode jo bhi tha jesa bhi tha jo bhi discussion hua per i cant come to terms ke wo sweater ko mop bana diya... no matter what Sameer does to that Keshav i just hate hate hate it to the core... ye dikhane ki kya zarorat thi? kuch aur dikha dete like saying who uses such cheap market types sweater kyunki in sab ke pas to $200 ki nite suite hai na... i m too too sad😭

Originally posted by: anjalii123

i have the same thoughts on Vishaka too..even i feel she doesnt want him @ somanis but then now there is no choice either..She jus wants to control himself so tat he doesnt end up in a hostel as Somani n Dadi r hell bent on sendin him to one..Even now,she is not reacting for anythin Dadi says or does coz she knows Sameer wil burst out even more whcih wil eventually turn negative for him..Im waitin for her to break down soon,and Sameer to know wat really went wrong in her leaving him coz wat Dadi said is not the entire truth..The delhi track is itself to change the dynamics of Vishaka n Sameer..If tats not done,then this track is itself of no use..The way she tucked him n kissed him which he is unaware of tells me there is somethin more to al her PDA towards Rohan ..

Originally posted by: canapoem

Originally posted by: KashafZaroon30

Nivi🤗

Zulu... a fab post!!😊

Drama bhara episode with a lovely and much awaited precap...Letters... to be more precise Love-letters exchanged between two birds who are stuck in a cage under the name of family...

Due to work load I wasn't able to discuss certain points since past few days...hope I can rant/ramble today...Sorry in advance but I find your thread discussion worthy...

Vishakha- The lady who kissed and sometimes comforts Sameer in Somani land, today I saw a very different amount of discomfort on her face. She saw knows this very well that Sameer doesn't like that the amount of love which he was supposed to get is getting showered on Rohan, and Sameer isn't even getting 10% of it, despite of being her own blood. Sooner or later the truth will come out which will play a big role in her life. She feels guilty for not being there for Sameer but now it has been so many years that it is difficult for her to go back. These many years back of her mind she was happy that if not me then atleast my dad is his caretaker. May be after looking at Somanis she didn't want Sameer to live in that hell place cause she knows they will ruin his life. And now she is worried because of Sam's anger, and that's why she expects him to behave calmly and get adjusted so that nobody troubles him. She knows Somani and Dadi very well now and somewhere down the line she herself doesn't want Sameer to live with them.

Interesting interpretation...since they have kept Vishaka so enigmatic..these perspectives do seem to make a lot of sense. If she is not behaving thus due to any other issue...it seems reasonable to conclude that @bold...In fact, until Nanu's death...I had discounted her in Sam's life...and although I knew the dynamic will come up becos until Nanu left Sam's life, the conflict could not have become gripping (sorry for putting that across dryly) as Sam had almost not cared about his situation after Naina came into his life. So, in many ways..the remark of Vishaka when Nanu phones her up and tells her that you will be happy to know that Sameer wont require to come to Delhi and she was very happy about that...So, Nanu's death has compounded her issues...while she cannot forsake Sam under any circumstances, her ability for the tight rope walk will be severely tested.

Originally posted by: canapoem

Vishaka did get a new saree 😆 and a nighty too. 😲

But bechari had to adjust with the same kind of design and just a different color.😆

Nivi, thank you for these posts and caps, har roz.

Today most of the time I was thinking, - so this is how Ekta Kapoor serials would be everyday 🤔

Kya drama tha.

But first one of my favorite songs from Kaash movie was played in BG.

Thank you CVs for playing "Yaara, tu pyaaron se hain pyaar"

How peacefully Sameer slept after talking to Naina. Bechari Naina slept next to the phone waiting for Sameer's phone call.

Bina getting angry is ok. I mean if any parent sees a kid sleeping like that next to a phone will question the girl. But yaar her choice of words is cringe worthy. "Girls of this age will hug pillow like this and sleep etc etc", is it not too pervert kind of dialogues to be talking in front of your own kids?

Preeti again saved Naina and Swathi too helped her.

What would Naina do without these two on her side.

But what was the need to panic regarding the Redial button on the phone. It would have probably gone to the video cassette guy. 😆

Again Naina needs to control her emotions.

If you all remember, even after the bet revelation, Naina did react very extremely. I guess this is her nature. But long run this kind of outbursts and extreme reactions have to be toned down.

Vishaka can come and kiss Sameer when he is sleeping and when he is awake no such show of love? 😕

Evil vicious Dadi and her evil plans to torture Sameer 😡

Sameer is just 17 and she must be over 70. What kind of sadistic pleasure she finds in doing all these extremely cheap and disgusting plans.

And the way sinister servant sneaks in on people in their bedrooms at night, either to listen to their talks or steal their belongings is creepy, don't you all feel.

(Remember he sneaked in on Bobby and Vishaka too and heard about them talking about Sameer)

So whose plan was it to use the sweater as mop cloth? 🤢

Precap:

Pyaar ka Khath ka zamaana hain 😳

Originally posted by: sanfan

Nivi...

Your points on Chacha Chachi are absolutely right but I will try and give a diff perspective on it..

While it is true that Naina has a lot of freedom in that home and it would seem that Naina is betraying it but as Nandy rightly observed..in a conservative set up of the times..freedom did not necessarily include the liberty to confide in your elders..The liberal atmosphere was relative but adolescents do go through the phase..if one notices...Chachaji says humari bachiyan aisi nahin hain.. meaning they felt that our kids won't go astray..or they wouldn't ever go this route.
There is a certain interpretation I have of this..Liberal parents are better equipped to handle this phase than very strict ones... becos they can better advise the kids what pitfalls to avoid.
In this specific case... Anand and Bella may feel upset but I don't think they will react badly as if heavens have fallen...just a conjecture.. 😊

Originally posted by: sanfan

Posting in instalments today as things occur to me..

Writing about Vishaka the character is fraught with challenges.. we know so little.. we can assume so much and it is a character (mother) that is so vulnerable to interpretations and explanations. What I write below is a freewheeling thought open to discussion..

Since I see Vishaka as a character who is a woman first and then a mother, I would like to be guided by only what the story has shown to us so far.

Today's flashback about her dad and her stealthily coming into the room was there for a reason.
Vishaka either accepts that she has been a poor mother or she is not sure how to be a the mother that her father wanted her to be to Sameer...in either situation, the character portrayed her helplessness..

I often feel when we speak of the expectation of a good mother we are assuming that every mother has the instinct to be one..but is it inconceivable that sometimes a mother may not know how to be a mother, for instance when distance or misgivings rule a relationship, it may not necessarily occur to the person how to smooth the creases without forming new ones. Somehow I see Vishaka's character exhibiting that. I won't hazard a guess that a backstory will reveal it fully or the narrative will use the past and present to put forth the case..but for me she is an enigmatic character and while some of her actions belie a common sense approach to solving issues...I feel the writers have a plan.. I just wish they wrote Dadi better.. Kitu has been a disappointment but the writing is all coming across a bit strangely. If she is able to state in very clear terms that Sameer was unwelcome in the house earlier on...why is she trying so hard to be Janus faced now...Her own son does not want Sam in the home and Vishaka is already doing her bidding so where is the need for her to try so many underhand tricks to drive Sam out..UNLESS her motive is to make Vishaka send Sam away again? 😕