Originally posted by: moumita04
Sameer is a shell of the person he used to be... The loss he has suffered is huge. It would definitely take time for him to come out of it and understand that he needs to take up new responsibilities.
But personally, I don't want Naina's sufferings to be that trigger. We have already seen Sameer in pain when Naina was in pain, we have seen him revive her, make her smile, pull her out of heart break, make her trust him and his love again. And when he did this he was also 17, a teenager, a kid. She was broken because of him, so he was strong for her...
This time I want Naina to be the strong one... Yes, she is 16 (soon to be 17), but she has more emotional stability in her surroundings and family that Sameer ever had. She is also a teenager, a kid just like Sameer was when he did all the "Naina manao mission". That is why I feel her age is no excuse to why she cannot be strong.
And she has been strong in the past...
- Remember that one time when she heard how Sameer's mother talks only twice a year to him, she decided to knit sweater with her own two hands... She knew she couldn't fill in his mother's void completely, but she understood that she could provide him the warmth of her love.
- When Sameer was caught for breaking Rakesh Sir's scooter, she stood up against her own father and gave priority to Sameer... Yes, Rakesh never knew that his own daughter tricked him but indirectly she did stand up against her family for him... She saved Sameer from trouble.
- When Sameer broke down in Mt. Abu, she understood his pain... she understood that he felt rejected by his own mother... she understood that he felt incapable of being loved... That's when she, a girl of strong morals and virtues, overstepped her own set of rules and provided him the comfort of her touch that made him feel accepted... the solace of those words that made him feel loved. It was a bold step for her, but she did it... because she loved him...
Then how can we even expect that she wouldn't understand his pain now when their relationship is so much stronger... Yes, she can feel devastated on hearing the news, guilty of not being there, shattered by separation... But ultimately, I want to see her pull herself together and be the stronger one this time...
It should be her undying love, constant emotional support, and unmoving faith in his abilities that would make Sameer realize that he has to start living again and take up the responsibilities that Nanu wanted him to...
She should be the one who would stand by him when he faces this new phase, holding his hand, lending him strength. She should realize that if once she had given him the warmth of his mother's love now it's time for her to give the emotional support that Nanu gave...
Yes, she cannot directly stand up to her family now... at least not until they both are of legal age to marry... But she is smart enough to pull off complicated pranks and lie smoothly... These qualities of hers were not shown to us in vain... She needs to use these strengths of her to find ways to support Sameer...
Naina should be the PILLAR OF STRENGTH and WALL OF SUPPORT for Sameer now...
