IT'S ALL ABOUT THE CHOICES...9/21/17 - Page 4

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Posted: 8 years ago
#31
I really loved the episode
it had ishita speaking the truth and the injustice always done to her by Raman by making her choose
wish the other aspects of their relationship are also handled in this track including putting ruhi on the right path
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Posted: 8 years ago
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So raman will now distance himself from ishita just because ishita choose her daughter over him😲...wow👏
Somebody needs to remind raman of how many times he choose others over his wife ishita...choosing kids is normal and expected from any parent...heck raman even choose his ex wife over his present wife ishita after vandu's death😲😡...ishita never distance herself from him for that...she always accepted and understood him though it was not normal in real life scenario...but raman is unable to digest it...the reason is simple, its his ego

If raman dies there is no body who can take his poistion in ishita's life ...and i am sure ishita will be able to raise kids without a father just like simmi...but if ishita dies raman will need a mother for his kids...by mother do i need to name the woman who will be she?😉😆

Why people wants raman to die?...it should be ishita who should die and remove the haddi between kids and their asli parents forever...all problem will solve automatically...she is the reason for all the complexities and miseries of their life

There is no substitute for raman but substitute of ishita is there who can take her position and role...and we know who she is.😳...when ishita presumed dead she came to live in bhalla house...when ishita went to jail for chadda murder she again came to live there...ishita out==shagun in...so it is clear who is replaceable and need to die in this show
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Posted: 8 years ago
#33

Originally posted by: swa6


Wonderful Raji! ❤️


Just loved it!

Actually I have the same thoughts on why Ishu should try to know the truth of Nikhil or why she should contemplate telling the truth to Ruhi...
Because NO Relationship can be built stronger on LIES! The relationship built on lies always falls down like a house of cards, and its almost impossible to build it back, because when one gets to know the truth, and that they are building the relationship on a lie, trust will be broken and no one can bring the trust back. As someone said, one can forgive bt not forget. Can we or Ishu foregt the number of lies she had faced and the number of times her trust had been broken, since the time she entered bhalla's house. Infact she was welcomed with a lie😉(adi), and it continued...!! How it feels to know the truth from a third person or an enemy, Who else knows this more than Ishu 😉

So, as per what we see, Ishu never wants a relationship to be build on a lie... When Adi tried to hide his truth about marriage with Roshini, she revealed it to Alu, she chooses truth and trust in relationships always! Also, she tries to give best closure to her kid's problems. How she took Ruhi back to Nidhi, so that she will overcome the fear of Nidhi, she took Ruhi to Sohail so that Ruhi will get a proper closure to the Sohail's episode...and now...Despite of she wants Nikhil as her sil or not, she doesnt want Ruhi to marry him/to move on from him because of lies...because a relationship or a break up based on lies, neither way, its healthy. Ruhi should know all the truths, she should have all information with her and then she should choose whats good for her. [Same way, when she knew everything about Ishu & Shagun and chose Ishu, when alu choose Adi, and when Pihu choose to stay with Ishu despite of her went to jail...(sometime in meanwhile i didnt remember, Ishu in jail, asked Ruhi to tell pihu everything, not to keep her in dark)...

I feel if she discloses truth to Ruhi and if Ruhi is going to choose Nikhil still, Ruhi will learn a lesson later once again... If she discloses truth to Ruhi and Ruhi moved on from Nikhil, everyone can take a happy breath as Ruhi will never start Nikhil jap again 😉(just like Alu stopped Mihir jap earlier) It will be a real-moving-on! Afterall, its not love at all!

Anyhow, I didn't watch the episode, am saying based on Viji's reviews, bt we know Viji's review never fail to cover everything from episode😳 Thank you Viji, for your beautiful review... In my insta feed, it was full RED when I see posts related to YHM, Raman in his best wild expressions, and Ishu on floor, Adi beside her...everyone worrying faces, so I didn't dare to watch the episode...afraid what I will see & listen if I open them😆...

Once again, I am happy with Ishu's decision, to chose to tell the truth to ruh and to chose kids... not that they are going apart, but for me ...Ishu is a Maa and best maa as always, and I also know any mother will choose her kids over her husband, especially when kids are in need. [I cant assume Ishu choosing raman, and be with him and family happily while Ruhi is on roads, crying out as none understood her...a teen could possibly commit suicide at this point]


Thank you Swarna.

You wrote well about closure for Ruhi and it's true. Not everyone understand what closure is and why it's needed. Kudos to you for understanding Why Ishita wanted to tell her, but we definitely need a dialog or monologue from her why she acted the way she did. Will she as a mother let Ruhi go and marry Nikhil and mother to a kid half her age? Heck no. Though Ishita herself is matured and a mother to the core didn't she have problems with Adi's plotting against her? How can she wish same fate for her daughter?
She is not Shagun who took Ruhi to Nidhi fully knowing f ully well what Nidhi would do to her because Ruhi became a thorn to her plotting against Ishita.
Ishita can be anything be a door mat, lacks self respect and jagat mata, not a good wife and what not as people love to call her but she is not a BAD MOTHER. PERIOD.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mdwst


Hi Madhavi
Brilliant performance by Divan
But DT stole the show ,.her wonderful little nuances, gestures, voice modulation, dialogue delivery ..beautiful.
I agree romi has the steady character growth ..and adi ruined it..
Romi knew exactly where it's heading the minute ishuta said she's reached the decision..so,did adi..both tried their best to convince raman..but in vain.
Both Raman and ishuta are wrong and right..yes raman still carries the consequences...from a sweet and loving anf happy person...to a bitter and ruthless person after shaguns betrayal.
After ishuta came he wanted to show off that shagun never affected him..but she did..so he did everything with ishuta to spite shagun...fast forward 7 year leap...history repeats...he became the rithless person again...as to him ishuta betrayed him...yes he threw her out severed all his relations...and frankly how will a woman come back after this? .but when he knew she was alive and that she's with mani...it ticked him off even more ...and everything was repeated with shagun to spite ishuta. He didn't want anyone to,walk all over him again...he's been thru twice already..so he projects himself as a tough ,,but he's not..he's emotionally a weak person.
Ishuta was a strong girl..after leap..a 360... she became the weakest person...and raman enjoyed walked all over her..and continues to do so...coz he don't want her to rule him again...
@ bold yes that's it..
The reason she wants to know about nikhil is to make ruhi feel better...she felt very low of herself ..worthless..and she wanted to make sure that's nit the case. Guve her peace. I'm more interested to see how she handle she her now...
Ruhi needs lot of TLC for sure...hope that's addressed...
Lets hope for,the best ...
@ bold italics...yes...
Lets c how it proceeds...
Thank you for commenting..

Note...sorry if it's nit what you expected...frankly I wrote something else...but for some reason ...due to error codes I couldn't post it and lost everything...
This is my 4th write up...sorry to disappoint you...


Viji-No sorry needed. Your reviews are always excellent to read and your comments too. I am just puzzled that there has been no growth in Raman since the start. It is always about his pain/feelings and looks at everything from his pov. As you said he escapes from working out the tough decisions...and expects Ishita to work them out. The only time she didnt stay was for Pihu but that can be expected in that situation. I always think Pihu as Sharam child not Ishra's.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#35

Originally posted by: Lacustris

Raji true...if only the cvs had explored that aspect ...being in minority again true ...and you right she will never stand up for herself ever ----the SP bahu ...Iam still hoping maybe in this track ...but looks like it not happen ...ruhi kaand=Ishu daffa Ho Jao...I will be really surprised if they finally show them as parents to help Ruhi...yes that dialogue was for the trp audiences d and your analysis on Ruhi🤗👏

Edited by sumita_ghosh - 8 years ago

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: sumita_ghosh

Sumi CVS exploring Ishita no way? What will happen to their darling? Ishita is a huge disappointment in all aspects and she ain't no role model for any one either. Better not to expect. When something bothers i will post else stay out of this crap.
Thank you darling for liking it.

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