Originally posted by: Alu-
I really enjoyed today's episode. Atleast it had ishita opening up to Raman and isn't that what we always wanted?. I think you guys are being a bit harsh on ishita now, yes I did disagree with her part that shagun needs me cause that's just gross, but keeping that aside everything she said made sense. I think what she said was reasonable. Raman does go out of bounds and scream dafa hojao, you're not the mother of kids. Whatever ishita does is different, that's wrong as well, but Raman doesn't have the right to be so harsh each time. That's why I believe today's episode was good in dealing with ishitas concerns
Alu, I'm not sure about others, but I am happy that Ishita's concerns is addressed today. I did make a point that I was happy to see Ishita speak her mind and she spoke all that she should have spoke, whenever he hurled those abuses on her. Till then I was absolutely fine and happy. My only concern was, since we had their "conversation", which we never get most of the times, it would have really made sense, if both the sides of the problem were expressed and addressed, instead of making it look one-sided. IMO, for a relationship to emerge stronger from problems and for the kids to have a stable environment, it is necessary both of them make amends to their actions and mistakes & not repeat them, not that one raises concern & other rectifies and it is left as such. So I wanted it to be a two-sided conversation, where the mutual hurt because of each others words and actions are discussed and they actually think and work about it, now that they have the much needed space, with this separation. That is why, I said, I had a mixed reaction to the scene. I was happy that Ishita spoke to him finally in private, but disappointed that Raman did not speak his mind, after listening to her.
The confusion I have is, how is she going to believe and get convinced that Raman has indeed changed permanently for good? Is she going to play a wait and watch game? How long is the wait going to be? Will that not affect the kids even more, now that Pihu has explicitly told her disappointment? These were my concerns . No offence to Ishita as a character. But someone needs to make her realize her part and mistakes and none better than Raman could have done that, just like Ishita did today.
I am not sure if I made sense to you, but this is what I feel. 😊