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Posted: 8 years ago
#71

Originally posted by: Alu-

yeah fine that's fair enough, but I do believe we should appreciate the fact that ishita opened up. Otherwise what we get is Nothing. It would be wonders if Raman could share his feelings, however in a show where emotions are made a joke, one side opening up is like a reward


you are right again but then why is it always the same side opening up and explaining their feelings? In save Shagun from a dumpster track, post-leap, and many other times - we got Ishita's POV and her opening up. How often have you seen the reverse done appropriately?


And this track is incredibly flawed and that took away from the core message of why Ishita walked out to me.


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Posted: 8 years ago
#72

Originally posted by: Alu-

yeah fine that's fair enough, but I do believe we should appreciate the fact that ishita opened up. Otherwise what we get is Nothing. It would be wonders if Raman could share his feelings, however in a show where emotions are made a joke, one side opening up is like a reward


The problem is that cv have made Ishita confused soul as one day she say she is staying to take care of shagun n other day she says she is staying as Raman doesn't love her n have forgotten her
But yes this was a much needed convo because for once we saw Ishita expressing her hurt over being called as step mother and we know Raman speaks rubbish n absolute nonsense in anger n any women in place of Ishita would have left when he uttered nonsense for the first time.
If only Ishita would had been staying at Iyer house n not at Shagmani because she talks about her 'self respect ' n I dont think in regards with Shagmani she have any self respect knowing what Shagun n mani did with her in past
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Posted: 8 years ago
#73

Originally posted by: bscorp13



Vyas ..I am sure cvs know that even TRP viewers can't digest this version of ishita...that's why in the last few epis we suddenly have ishitas thought process and inner voice being brought out ..
Suddenly she seems to be telling everyone that she doesn't like living with shagmani ans she is majboor. ..
Suddenly bala who wasn't even there when ruhi went to jail etc makes an appearance because trp aunties can't tolerate too much of ishgun and again the 'why' and 'what' of Ishita's actions is seemingly justified ...i wont be surprised if after this scene baka again disappears ...'the last time he made an appearance in a big way was also when ishita's voice had to be heard by tb the audience post the first leap and she justified leaving pihu behind and cried to him about missing her daughter etv...
Again now words like 'so i am the villain'..why don't I get the benefit of doubt'..pihu screaming at tb ishita are all suddenly brought in,..
And icing on the cake is that a ishra conversation after a ishra date again becomes about ishita's pain and raman being the cause...
Cvs agenda is very clear now..
I have zero hopes from the accident and it's after math- like zoha saud we may get more of raman ne mujhe dhokha diya. ..and I thought he really changed but he didn't. ..stuff coming up...😕🥱




Yup

That is all that will happen

They realised ishita was looking out of character

So martyr syndrome kicked in
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Posted: 8 years ago
#74

Originally posted by: Alu-

I really enjoyed today's episode. Atleast it had ishita opening up to Raman and isn't that what we always wanted?. I think you guys are being a bit harsh on ishita now, yes I did disagree with her part that shagun needs me cause that's just gross, but keeping that aside everything she said made sense. I think what she said was reasonable. Raman does go out of bounds and scream dafa hojao, you're not the mother of kids. Whatever ishita does is different, that's wrong as well, but Raman doesn't have the right to be so harsh each time. That's why I believe today's episode was good in dealing with ishitas concerns


Alu, I'm not sure about others, but I am happy that Ishita's concerns is addressed today. I did make a point that I was happy to see Ishita speak her mind and she spoke all that she should have spoke, whenever he hurled those abuses on her. Till then I was absolutely fine and happy. My only concern was, since we had their "conversation", which we never get most of the times, it would have really made sense, if both the sides of the problem were expressed and addressed, instead of making it look one-sided. IMO, for a relationship to emerge stronger from problems and for the kids to have a stable environment, it is necessary both of them make amends to their actions and mistakes & not repeat them, not that one raises concern & other rectifies and it is left as such. So I wanted it to be a two-sided conversation, where the mutual hurt because of each others words and actions are discussed and they actually think and work about it, now that they have the much needed space, with this separation. That is why, I said, I had a mixed reaction to the scene. I was happy that Ishita spoke to him finally in private, but disappointed that Raman did not speak his mind, after listening to her.

The confusion I have is, how is she going to believe and get convinced that Raman has indeed changed permanently for good? Is she going to play a wait and watch game? How long is the wait going to be? Will that not affect the kids even more, now that Pihu has explicitly told her disappointment? These were my concerns . No offence to Ishita as a character. But someone needs to make her realize her part and mistakes and none better than Raman could have done that, just like Ishita did today.

I am not sure if I made sense to you, but this is what I feel. 😊
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Posted: 8 years ago
#75
Going to try and find a laptop before replying
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Posted: 8 years ago
#76

Originally posted by: Alu-

I really enjoyed today's episode. Atleast it had ishita opening up to Raman and isn't that what we always wanted?. I think you guys are being a bit harsh on ishita now, yes I did disagree with her part that shagun needs me cause that's just gross, but keeping that aside everything she said made sense. I think what she said was reasonable. Raman does go out of bounds and scream dafa hojao, you're not the mother of kids. Whatever ishita does is different, that's wrong as well, but Raman doesn't have the right to be so harsh each time. That's why I believe today's episode was good in dealing with ishitas concerns




There is no denying the fact that what Raman does is not correct

He indeed treats her like garbage

But point and problem is that it is all one sided

There is no realisation that even she has had played a big role in the mess
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Posted: 8 years ago
#77

Originally posted by: -K.13-


you are right again but then why is it always the same side opening up and explaining their feelings? In save Shagun from a dumpster track, post-leap, and many other times - we got Ishita's POV and her opening up. How often have you seen the reverse done appropriately?


And this track is incredibly flawed and that took away from the core message of why Ishita walked out to me.



@bold ..that a the whole point ..almost the whole of post leap yhm has been peppered with ishita's pov either aa her own self talks or family members or ishita herself telling raman -when pihu was taken away by shagun. ..ishita did open up to raman and Raman was her shoulder to cry on..and I can think of many many other instances. .
Yes what was addressed today was very important...but that said..
I think as a viewer I have gone beyond the point where I say ...at least we get to see one parties pain being addressed when it's always the same party whose pain is addressed and empathize with while the other person in the so called relationship never gets a voice or a shoulder. ., or even a mind talk about how hurt he may also be...
So such scenes though probably rare - leave me more bitter because I kind of know how it will all end again. .
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Posted: 8 years ago
#78
I don't quite understand what this accident thing is about as it mostly means Raman fot exposed

Now I am also not quite sure if they would end this track so early

There is possibility they might shift gulabo drama to bhalla house
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Posted: 8 years ago
#79
Don't think anyone will even bother replying to me. Nonetheless, I think (NOT that I'm justifying Ishita, please!!!) Ishita will start sharing things with Raman once she knows that he won't react on impulse! She's saying to him, don't get angry time and again. Evidently, she may be confident to share things with him once he's sobered down and assures her he won't behave harsh.
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Posted: 8 years ago
#80

Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r


[BR][DIV]You know what Zoha, I have started watching the show on TV, only for the last 4-5 episodes. My appa occasionally used to watch a couple of scenes while having his dinner. The reality is he is mighty pissed off with me for watching this crap[LOL], depriving him of his news and sports channels. Today on seeing Nidhi bringing milk for shagun, he asked me , " why is this lady 24 * 7 seated in the bed and people keep bringing her food and milk? Did she meet with an accident and is bedridden?"[LOL][LOL]. My amma, who is equally disinterested in this whole nonsense, made a sarcastic remark that no she is pregnant for the fourth time it seems and the whole family including the FL are celebrating her & her pregnancy whole-heartedly & taking care of her like a flower. [LOL]. He was like "What the hell, rubbish?[:o][:o][#-o]" and his anger turned on me "You have restarted watching this crappiest show on TV for this only? Please continue to watch this crap online from tomorrow and save us from this rubbish show and its content. We are not idiots to watch this and have better things to watch".[8(][:[]. I did not bother though, as I was more interested in IshRa's conversation[;)][LOL]. The point is, even the audience, who watches it on the go,at times, feel ridiculous about this whole care of Ishita & family for shagun[xx(][xx(]. Ishita staying at shagun's place is coming across as completely ridiculous and unreasonable to almost all of the sane & balanced TRP & non-TRP audiences around me, including my parents, friends and relatives.[LOL]. But then, ... you know what I mean[;)][LOL][LOL][/DIV]


even I have experienced the same thing where my dad was like wth is wrong with them
this time the baby isn't even related to them
even I got shouted and was told to give him the remote back so that he could change the channel
and the irony is that it was dad only who made is watch yhm at 11pm becoz according to him it was a different show
he loved Ramans character alot

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