SAMBHALIYE INHE...2/5/17 - Page 5

Originally posted by: swa6

Lovely analysis-es Raji, Madhavi n Diksha...😊

Originally posted by: swa6

Find me weirdest of weird...😉 yesterday I was happy for Mani...He s becoming father for the second time, and this time he will get to see everything n he will get the feel of "becoming a father"! (Mani's expression when Aliya is saying you will get to see pura process...is beautiful😊)

Yet I m really sad except Ishitha, everyone else will become fathers n mothers in some or another ways in this soap... but what to do...she is destined to be a mother by not becoming a mother!

So, Mani n Alu are pampering Shaun like anything n Ishu will join the queue...along wt her whole family... Sometimes I feel jealous of her yar... She is the most luckiest n pampered one in whole YHM😆She is pampered by EVERYONE of YHM😆(If pihu is remained, it will be done soon)

I didn't get why on earth he is drunk before going to award ceremony!! Is there any great destruction happened in his life?! Ish n Ra are fighting, she is expressing, he didn't understand, all he knew is she is 'angry'...fine...why drinking now? Its not like his kids are in problem or his wife "completely left" him na?! She is living in the next door...still in talking terms...She still loves him...she didn't cheat on him like the case earlier.. why to get drunk everyday

Then picking fight wt each and every guy he found on road...?! He is frustrated that Ishitha is not accepting his sorry, He is not able to take his frustration out on Ishitha, hence taking out his frustration on those people...in the process Pihu got hurt, and Ruhi is so disturbed(probably guilt mode)

Now Ishu is mad at him...That if she is able, she may kill him a hundred times, and then make him alive...😆She has been shouting her lungs out what her problem is... yesterday also she told him...Instead of understanding the problem, and working towards solution, he is doing more n more mistakes n making it worst, that's why she is mad at him now...on top of that their kid got hurt...!

At the time when Raman was adamant to meet Pihu in hall, when Ishu came, he immediately became silent(like a student got afraid of teacher😆) and the scene followed ...even Toshi is shocked and angry that she splashed water, she couldn't even say a word..she actually got afraid of JKR..lolz

Then in bedroom, it would have been better if he changed clothes n have a better look, be in senses n come to meet her... not like this. I don't know whether Pihu ll still get afraid or not , but it would have been better...

Pihu is very disturbed and is in trauma(thanks to Sohail), then she s damn worried about her parents separation, and now this...I guess because of her current health condition(afraid of fights/shouts n blood), she is more afraid... otherwise she would have seen him drunk since she is born(as it was everyday routine for Raman for those 7 years), then why to get afraid now! But I m sorry I don't recommend some one drinking n roaming infront of kids...(@the end of the track, if he stops drinking, I ll be so happy😊😊)

yaar...Mihika😡She is not anymore sister of Ishu, but she is just the wife of Romi...second bahu of bhallas...thats it. According to her, "one shouldn't keep a "family" in a position, where some have to choose one, and some to choose another...so that entire family don't split into two parts"...well said👏it would have been so good, it the same was followed by her...🤬

The scene is actually cute only if Mihika is not related to Ishu...

As of now Aliya Mani are pampering Shagun, Not because they love her, but because she is giving their 'ghar-ka-chirag'(chirag-correct?)... Shagun thought he started loving her, but sad as it s all for his child...

In a way, I felt bad for her(kinda stalkholm syndromeof me), as she will get everything whenever she is gonna give "children" to ppl, if children is wt her, she ll have everything, and if children is not wt her she is nothing! Especially this would be the case whenever she is white! If ppl take her granted whenever she is changed n start ignoring her like a dump, she ll feel why should I change-to-good even?! Forget about the previous cases, when she is not genuine, Mani behaved like a love sick puppy n now she is genuine - all Mani is doing is provoking her "black"side! Why to even complain later?!

And they have talked about something that left some hint for future twists... Mani didn't do any mistake +Mani is doing all this for "his own" child, What if Mani did any mistake? What would be punishment for him?

Simmi is angry wt Param, which is why she choose Gaurav... same old formula between lovers.. I guess she still loves Param(she said I din't move on these many years thinking you changed), but she has misunderstanding(that param slept wt that lady, n he didn't change), hence as she is in heated argument wt him n then Gaurav came, she said "yes" to him.. Param has to prove his goodness+love for her n Annu. Ok, gonna be nice track if they dont spoil...looking forward.😊

Pre Precap: I didn't listen to lessons while teacher teaching--> I didn't even study from the books --> I didn't prepare for the exam --> Put slips -->caught by teacher --> then I said question paper is wrong, out-of-syllabus --> teacher warned me n threw out of class -- > I tried to bribe her😉, dint work , tried to threaten her, didnt work --> when it is time for evaluation, I thought of kidnapping her to scare her again so that she ll give marks eventhough I didn't study/understand questions/write answers😆...

Kidnapped -- brought her home - open the sack - booom!!

Teacher ke jagah Principal Nikli😲😆

Abb kya hoga?!

Originally posted by: Lacustris

Thank you swarna.. your too!!

Originally posted by: swa6

Lovely analysis-es Raji, Madhavi n Diksha...😊

Originally posted by: Mreddy

Loved everyone's analysis. Like your optimistic tone about Ishita's hurt being addressed. I would love it if she acknowledges that her way of not voicing out her hurt to her husband has largely contributed to the issues in the past and present an+d if they don't address the problems now, they will face problems in the future also. Raman may or may not realize, but Ishita also should realize. When her pain never mattered before to this extent, it will take some time for Raman to realize the core issue.

The biggest turn off is Ishgun.. shagun's pregnancy and Ishita becoming her nursemaid...can anything else be more nauseating...Shagun tortured all the kids for god's sake...and you are still exposing the kids to her...or does Ishita think she owes Shagun a favor because Shagun gave her kids and in turn Ishita got married and has a family. If she herself thinks she is worthless without the kids..what fault is Raman's or anyone else's not giving her the respect she deserves. This selfless all forgiving nature of Ishita emboldened Raman and Shagun to go for surrogacy or else any husband in his right mind will think 1000 times before committing this blunder..When Shagun is white, Ishra have no problem in getting the kids close to her..and when she turns a vamp and starts using them for her own agenda, another crisis and it will be a while before Ishra realizes that Shagun is behind and cycle repeats till the next color change.

Another nauseating thought...what if Shagun miscarries the baby, Ishita is pregnant and gives the baby to Shagmani to raise..🤢

Originally posted by: DikshaN

even I felt happy for mani but everyone of us wanted ishu also to experience the whole process at least with one child but CVS love shagun to be pregnant becoz she has the most fertile womb

Originally posted by: sumita_ghosh

Hi Viji:)

thanks for the review..:)

one aspect is very clear ..

A role reversal is being played out again for the viewers..Just as the last role reversal went over my head ..this role reversal is also beyond me..

Role reversal in this instance has become an escapist route for the CVS..since they are incapable of dealing with and sorting out the core issues between a husband and wife ..next solution is make the wiife a brute and the husband a FEEBLE ALCOHOL DEPENDANT HUMAN..reverse the previous equation between them ..

When will the cvs understand that both scenarios is distasteful to watch..

I wanted to see the angst ..the intensity of love of being away from each other..most importantly introspecting where they went wrong ..and look what I got ..

what the hell is Raman doing..kidnapping Ishu 😆 ..he is really coming across as juvenile..

and now with Ishu back to Bhallas are they done with portraying Ishu's pain😲 ..dusted and swept under the rug ..sincerely hope not..

I guess it had overdose of Shagun scenes..cant stomach that..so will skip the episode..😛

Originally posted by: Lacustris

Thanks for the nice review Viji. .I like it..

I am not watching as I have no stomach to bear another pregnancy from Shagun.. it's heavily insulting to me as a mother and big mockery for women like ishita..Raman's words and Shagun's repeated pregnancies really defeated and ruined the purpose of Ishita as a mother and the premise of this show completely.

So, now the focus is shifted to Raman's irresponsible behavior as a father it seems. Good as I don't mind if the story line is to address their deficiencies as a couple and as parents i am all for it. And why am I feeling that addressing her pain is done and dusted..But showing Ishita as insensitive here is not really needed and it's very distasteful..her pouring water on him may be necessary to show how much she is fed up or to simply make him realize what he had done? Hope the CVS find a better and entire way to show this..

His one line at the accident scene "have you met my wife? Why should I say sorry?" When the other party asked for his sorry shows how much respect and love he has for Ishita.. even though he is at fault here he didn't want to say sorry and he had to bring his wife in between his street fights. I don't know about anyone but this is very disrespectful as per my taste. As a husband where he should be protecting wife's honor he is ridiculing her in public apart from humiliating her whenever he feels like it... Drunk or not.

Looks like Toshiji didn't understand why Ishita left just like Raman.. or should I be happy that Toshiji at least recognized Raman reaching for bottle everytime a problem arises in his life? Chalo i will givie that much to her.. but Raman hasn't even realized that..

Pihu, Raman and Ishita scenes are really confusing me? Whom does Pihu love really? I know Shagun... But as parents..as I see no bond between her and Raman as well as her and Ishita. Initially they showed Pihu very sensitive and very attached (though we didn't see but impression wise) to her papa and when she saw some aggression she fell ill (post leap).. but then she herself became very aggressive and only attached to Shagun and no amount of disturbance in the family bothered her to make her fall sick... So is this Pihu makeover too to make her sensitive again? No idea what's the purpose of this scene..

Is the precap a precursor to their talk to address Raman's attachment to alcohol as solving problems in His life?

I think I'm losing to connect with today's epi..

Originally posted by: GBSC

The director has brought the old style of comparing couples at the same time.
Romi-miku.Love w/o kids.
Shags-mani.Love for the sake of kid.
Ishu-Raman.Kids but lacking love.
The 3rd couple is wired.
Ishu is a mom to Raman's kids.But became one only when they were 7+.
Ishu has not experienced pregnancy.Cant Raman show his love by taking her to a gynaec for treatment,at least once.This is one place Raman failed big time.Maybe it might reduce Ishu'a hurt.Just my view.Accorging to me,each day of a person's married life is precious.Once gone,will never come back.

Originally posted by: sky-if

Thank you for the detailed review.

I don't think I'll watch today.. since the CVs are back at stretching things too far to make a point.. Raman acting like an uneducated, drunk brute and Ishita back in lecturing mode 🤢 - so you start to loose the connect with her pain.

Pihu is one confused child who is forced to show allegiance to whichever parent seems the safe choice at different points in time.. first she was Raman's ladli then went to 'I only need Shagun mama in my life' back to 'paapa is the best' and now on to Ishimaa.. very poorly etched character that even Ruhanikaa's acting prowess evokes no connect from the audience.

Just when you think the distance will make IshRa re-evaluate what they mean to each other, you find it is actually the other couples that miss each other and are growing closer.. y'day it was the senior Bhallas and today Romi/Mihika. 😆

ShagMani baby - no words. How insulting to bring that in considering the state Ishita is currently in and to top it all all the Bhallas are happy for her and Ishita actually goes to help her out?! 😕

So in the midst of all the confusion at home, Simmi decides to get married! Wow!