SAMBHALIYE INHE...2/5/17

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Mdwst

@Mdwst

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Posted: 8 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: zindagi4pyaar

Dat shagmani scene was over d top sweet n so cheesy...

N wen ishita came n askd 4 cold water raman said i dont need dressing n fyn... He thought dat c came coz c was worried but d bubble burst wen c splashed d water on his face n he was lyk are u mad...

4 me wat i get is dat raman is still not aware 4 wats d readon ishita is away 4rm him... He is so casual... It seems dat yaar bas 4 5 din c will b back 2 me...

He is saying sorry as if he is doing an ehassan by saying sorry 2 d prsn... He is not meaning any of his sorrys...

N his attitude wen his mom was askng him 2 drink soup...
Dat was rly bad... Askng her not 2 lecture him...

N den wen he went 2 meet pihu... Again his gussa took ovr.. He was lukng at ishita as if he is gono shout d nxt sec if c ones again say him 2 stay away 4rm pihu...

Woh toh bhala ho family walo ka jo dey came... On tym
He didnt even see dat pihu was so scared of him...

N lastly yes ramans wardrobe need a change... I mean he is 40+ n a ceo... Yaar kuch toh classy sa ho uska wardrobe...

He is wearing skin fitting tshirts... Dat doesnt go along wid his character...

Romi is better dressed den raman

Hi @ bold ..yes...she sees splashed water on his face to wake him up, it was harsh... to give him a reality check..as how his kids are affected by his behavior. Be responsible adult act like one..that's the jist ...coz kids absorb everything good and bad..and she's trying to prevent the bad from being absorbed...the children are at an impressionable age...that he's not getting it and that what she's trying to do. The apology is not going to be heard felt or genuine with regard to the magnitude of the hurt..with respect to the hurt it caused her. Yes he was angry when he was not allowed bear pihu..but that kid was shaken and snuggled closer to ishita...that killed d was shocked abdctrynarized seeing her had behave like that...and bhallJi took him away before it turns ugly. I Did feel bad for Raman as a father...but he has to change as pih is very scared of him.

I liked Raman's wardrobe during the early days...his recent outfits ...not appropriate for the character he portrays.

Shagun mani...less said the better...

Thank you for commenting

Edited by Mdwst - 8 years ago

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GBSC

@GBSC

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#22

The director has brought the old style of comparing couples at the same time.
Romi-miku.Love w/o kids.
Shags-mani.Love for the sake of kid.
Ishu-Raman.Kids but lacking love.
The 3rd couple is wired.
Ishu is a mom to Raman's kids.But became one only when they were 7+.
Ishu has not experienced pregnancy.Cant Raman show his love by taking her to a gynaec for treatment,at least once.This is one place Raman failed big time.Maybe it might reduce Ishu'a hurt.Just my view.Accorging to me,each day of a person's married life is precious.Once gone,will never come back.

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sky-if

@sky-if

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

#23

Thank you for the detailed review.

I don't think I'll watch today.. since the CVs are back at stretching things too far to make a point.. Raman acting like an uneducated, drunk brute and Ishita back in lecturing mode 🤢 - so you start to loose the connect with her pain.

Pihu is one confused child who is forced to show allegiance to whichever parent seems the safe choice at different points in time.. first she was Raman's ladli then went to 'I only need Shagun mama in my life' back to 'paapa is the best' and now on to Ishimaa.. very poorly etched character that even Ruhanikaa's acting prowess evokes no connect from the audience.

Just when you think the distance will make IshRa re-evaluate what they mean to each other, you find it is actually the other couples that miss each other and are growing closer.. y'day it was the senior Bhallas and today Romi/Mihika. 😆

ShagMani baby - no words. How insulting to bring that in considering the state Ishita is currently in and to top it all all the Bhallas are happy for her and Ishita actually goes to help her out?! 😕

So in the midst of all the confusion at home, Simmi decides to get married! Wow!

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Mreddy

@Mreddy

Explorer

Posted: 8 years ago

#24

Feel Ishita's pain is all yesterday's news now..They both failed as parents to be good role models to their kids. Don't feel the attachment to Pihu..her feelings towards her parents/family are all over the place. She still is attached to Shagun..and is giving a chance to Ishita...they scrwed up this relation big time.

Raman with his emotional abuse of his wife publicly and private and Ishita never standing up to him all these years has resulted in out of control kids. Ruhi misbehaved with her parents/family and as parents instead of laying down the law when she was talking disrespectfully to them, they let it slide and bend over backwards. You dont let a minor make such decisions to go meet and invite someone to their house..and let her roam freely...granted in India, the kids have means of getting around without depending on parents like here in US (until they get their drivers license..)but they do tell their parents where they are going and seek their permission. I dont know this <I trust my upbringing> nonsense..as a parent you have to be vigilant if your minor daughter is cozying up with an adult (Sohail seems to be in his early twenties). looking at the parents behaviour she didnt think twice before insulting them in front of a stranger..and was obnoxious. This is all I feel is a result of what they see and learn..parents equation and Ishra equally are insulting to each other (Raman more so...). Throwing a glass of cold water is over the top..why bother getting so furious and bottling up everything...because if she introspects, it is directly a result of her not standing up way before..even after the leap..she let everything slide...her pain or outburst should also now be pushed under the rug..Saying Raman needs to realize and change is not fair..she had a big hand in this. She too needs to change and become the 11pm ishita. Understanding a persons vulnerabilities and behaving and forgiving accordingly and nurturing a persons ego at the cost of your hurt..does not make the person strong..it makes the person weak..just as Raman became weak..you need to make them strong..so that people like Ashok and Shagun dont manipulate him all the time.

Adi..also learnt from Raman and Ishita..when Aliya didn't reciprocate his love in the beginning, he publicy misbehaved/disrespected her in the office..(because Raman does that to his wife..and Ishita does not say anything..)and did not apologize. Ishita failed big time here..she never told Adi that is not right to shout and insult a woman. Adi became a devadas...drunk..on the roads..just like Raman.

Bhalla kids..(Ruhi and Adi..can't figure out Pihu) as long as everything is going their way..they are happy, kind..but adversity brings out the worst in them..rude to elders..insulting in public..manipulating parents love for their benefit..making a public spectacle of themselves..

I think Ishita's hurt and standing up is too little too late to have any effect on the audience or on her kids/Raman. Ishra are repsonsible for reaching this situation in their life, not just Raman. Who thought they are the ideal couple..Abishek and Divya needs their heads examined..😉

Sorry for the rant..

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Seetha_R

@Seetha_R

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#25

Originally posted by: sumita_ghosh
Hi Viji:)
thanks for the review..:)

one aspect is very clear ..

A role reversal is being played out again for the viewers..Just as the last role reversal went over my head ..this role reversal is also beyond me..

Role reversal in this instance has become an escapist route for the CVS..since they are incapable of dealing with and sorting out the core issues between a husband and wife ..next solution is make the wiife a brute and the husband a FEEBLE ALCOHOL DEPENDANT HUMAN..reverse the previous equation between them ..

When will the cvs understand that both scenarios is distasteful to watch..

I wanted to see the angst ..the intensity of love of being away from each other..most importantly introspecting where they went wrong ..and look what I got ..

what the hell is Raman doing..kidnapping Ishu 😆 ..he is really coming across as juvenile..

and now with Ishu back to Bhallas are they done with portraying Ishu's pain😲 ..dusted and swept under the rug ..sincerely hope not..

I guess it had overdose of Shagun scenes..cant stomach that..so will skip the episode..😛

Nice review Sumi..

@bold CVS have lost it totally.. i am beginning to doubt whether the CVS know the meaning of relationship between husband and wife?

The way they are turning this story into one immature way to deal with relationship is disgusting..

Yep ishita's pain is pushed under the rug..now the focus will be once again celebrating Shagun's yet another pregnancy and Bhallas, Iyers and Raman, Ishita including kids being happy as if it's an achievement..although it is i guess where she can rub it on Ishita's face once again..

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Diksha Naik

@DikshaN

Sparkler

Posted: 8 years ago

#26

I felt I lost even the small connect that I had rebuilt on yhm during the last 2-3 episodes today
shagmani scene was over the top
whatever we wanted to see happening with ishu is now happening with shagun and it's very irritating to see that considering the state in which ishu is now
raman and toshiji have still not realised why exactly ishu is hurt
at least Raman should have realised it by now he still thinks she is just angry with him
I dint like ishu splashing water on Raman it was harsh she dint even tend to his wounds that hurt the ishra fan in me but I don't know what else she should have done to wake him up considering he was stone drunk and she was hell angry with pihu getting hurt
ruhanika was superb when she said mere Papa ko mat maro she enacted it well
I don't understand why Raman is taking ishus hurt so casually that he thinks just by his apology she will come back
the street fight also was very distasteful with him asking whether they met his wife and are asking apology for that seems like he doesn't even want to say sorry and is being forced to say it
I liked it that ishu after listening to senior bhallas conversation was taking the kids to Ramans award function though she wouldn't attend it herself
shagun must have come to meet pihu at iyer house and I don't blame Raman if he got confused with her being ishita but even I for a sec thought she was ishu from her hair and since no other lady stays in iyer house at present
but how she got so suffocated?? I mean the distance from the hall to the room wasn't 2-3 Kms
the precap seems cute but I don't like ishu caring about shagun so much it's not digestible at all

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sumita_ghosh

@sumita_ghosh

Navigator

Posted: 8 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: Lacustris

Nice review Sumi..
@bold CVS have lost it totally.. i am beginning to doubt whether the CVS know the meaning of relationship between husband and wife?
The way they are turning this story into one immature way to deal with relationship is disgusting..
Yep ishita's pain is pushed under the rug..now the focus will be once again celebrating Shagun's yet another pregnancy and Bhallas, Iyers and Raman, Ishita including kids being happy as if it's an achievement..although it is i guess where she can rub it on Ishita's face once again..

Raji

Iam ready to throw my hat in where Ishra is concerned ..don't have it in me to analyse it anymore😆..I mean even in fictional sense the relationship has been butchered..I mean the cvs have a completely skewered sense of how a marital relationship should be like ..in this track they are maligning Ishu again..this is supposed to be a track dedicated to her pain but the inept cvs have been unable to highlight her pain ..and that makes me mad..

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Seetha_R

@Seetha_R

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#28

Originally posted by: Mreddy
Feel Ishita's pain is all yesterday's news now..They both failed as parents to be good role models to their kids. Don't feel the attachment to Pihu..her feelings towards her parents/family are all over the place. She still is attached to Shagun..and is giving a chance to Ishita...they scrwed up this relation big time.
Raman with his emotional abuse of his wife publicly and private and Ishita never standing up to him all these years has resulted in out of control kids. Ruhi misbehaved with her parents/family and as parents instead of laying down the law when she was talking disrespectfully to them, they let it slide and bend over backwards. You dont let a minor make such decisions to go meet and invite someone to their house..and let her roam freely...granted in India, the kids have means of getting around without depending on parents like here in US (until they get their drivers license..)but they do tell their parents where they are going and seek their permission. I dont know this <I trust my upbringing> nonsense..as a parent you have to be vigilant if your minor daughter is cozying up with an adult (Sohail seems to be in his early twenties). looking at the parents behaviour she didnt think twice before insulting them in front of a stranger..and was obnoxious. This is all I feel is a result of what they see and learn..parents equation and Ishra equally are insulting to each other (Raman more so...). Throwing a glass of cold water is over the top..why bother getting so furious and bottling up everything...because if she introspects, it is directly a result of her not standing up way before..even after the leap..she let everything slide...her pain or outburst should also now be pushed under the rug..Saying Raman needs to realize and change is not fair..she had a big hand in this. She too needs to change and become the 11pm ishita. Understanding a persons vulnerabilities and behaving and forgiving accordingly and nurturing a persons ego at the cost of your hurt..does not make the person strong..it makes the person weak..just as Raman became weak..you need to make them strong..so that people like Ashok and Shagun dont manipulate him all the time.

Adi..also learnt from Raman and Ishita..when Aliya didn't reciprocate his love in the beginning, he publicy misbehaved/disrespected her in the office..(because Raman does that to his wife..and Ishita does not say anything..)and did not apologize. Ishita failed big time here..she never told Adi that is not right to shout and insult a woman. Adi became a devadas...drunk..on the roads..just like Raman.

Bhalla kids..(Ruhi and Adi..can't figure out Pihu) as long as everything is going their way..they are happy, kind..but adversity brings out the worst in them..rude to elders..insulting in public..manipulating parents love for their benefit..making a public spectacle of themselves..

I think Ishita's hurt and standing up is too little too late to have any effect on the audience or on her kids/Raman. Ishra are repsonsible for reaching this situation in their life, not just Raman. Who thought they are the ideal couple..Abishek and Divya needs their heads examined..😉

Sorry for the rant..

Perfect Madhavi!!!

It's the culmination of the unbalanced relationship of Ishita and Raman and their blindness to observe and course correct their behavior is the result of the mess they are experiencing in their life today.

As you said Ishita standing up for her self-respect is too little too late. And her her nurturing his arrogance and male ego by allowing him to walk all over her and and her over and untimely forgiveness of all his deeds gave birth to uncivil and abusive Raman we are seeing today. Just like the saying says "children learn from what they live" all of Raman Bhallas kids are master manipulators, abusers and disrespectful. They have no boundaries defined nor expected to follow.. as you said they all are sweet as long as things go their way just like Raman..

One word Raman and Ishita are big failure as a couple and as parents.

I don't even want them as my neighbors as they are a very bad influence on the society as a whole..

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Seetha_R

@Seetha_R

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#29

Originally posted by: sky-if
Thank you for the detailed review.
I don't think I'll watch today.. since the CVs are back at stretching things too far to make a point.. Raman acting like an uneducated, drunk brute and Ishita back in lecturing mode 🤢 - so you start to loose the connect with her pain.

Pihu is one confused child who is forced to show allegiance to whichever parent seems the safe choice at different points in time.. first she was Raman's ladli then went to 'I only need Shagun mama in my life' back to 'paapa is the best' and now on to Ishimaa.. very poorly etched character that even Ruhanikaa's acting prowess evokes no connect from the audience.

Just when you think the distance will make IshRa re-evaluate what they mean to each other, you find it is actually the other couples that miss each other and are growing closer.. y'day it was the senior Bhallas and today Romi/Mihika. 😆

ShagMani baby - no words. How insulting to bring that in considering the state Ishita is currently in and to top it all all the Bhallas are happy for her and Ishita actually goes to help her out?! 😕

So in the midst of all the confusion at home, Simmi decides to get married! Wow!

@sky-if perfect... The story lost its plot totally.. there is no sense and sensibility.. both Ishita and Raman now I don't even k ow what they want any more..the total cluelessness from Raman is un real. Is he an educated CEO or an uneducated sadakwala? His drinking and making a public bruisende and public yellings it's no longer entertaining or amusing.

Pihu i don't know why this character is even created.. her connection with Shagun is more strong and evident i really want CVS to make her sharam baby... Then it really fits in the puzzle if Shagun white/grey/black or rainbow color scheme, and Raman's obsessive attachment irrespective of Pihu's insults towards him and her open hatred towards ishita. Why force fix her as Ishita's kid where neither Ishita carried, nor shared, nor celebrated, nor raised that kid.. she is nobody as far as I'm concerned..

Yep other couples are atleast in their senses and realizing the bond... That once again makes Ishita and Raman's marriage as unfit as it happened for all the wrong reasons.. there is no love nor respect in it..

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Seetha_R

@Seetha_R

Voyager

Posted: 8 years ago

#30

Originally posted by: sumita_ghosh
Raji
Iam ready to throw my hat in where Ishra is concerned ..don't have it in me to analyse it anymore😆..I mean even in fictional sense the relationship has been butchered..I mean the cvs have a completely skewered sense of how a marital relationship should be like ..in this track they are maligning Ishu again..this is supposed to be a track dedicated to her pain but the inept cvs have been unable to highlight her pain ..and that makes me mad..

Sumi there is nothing left in the story.. as I see it it will be shagun pregnancy and Ishita taking care of her.. now why would she even cry for self respect when she is acting as there is no need to respect her. People only respect her if she respects herself. Helping Shagun here looks more like she wants to hold on to the "selfless"title forever.. then if that's the case she shouldn't be walking out on Raman for self-respect.. these two are contradictory.. either love and don't expect anything in return that goes for self respect or stand up for what you believe.. which is you expect people to respect you..this is heights of stupidity.. i give up...

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