SAMBHALIYE INHE...2/5/17 - Page 6

Originally posted by: Mreddy

Feel Ishita's pain is all yesterday's news now..They both failed as parents to be good role models to their kids. Don't feel the attachment to Pihu..her feelings towards her parents/family are all over the place. She still is attached to Shagun..and is giving a chance to Ishita...they scrwed up this relation big time.

Raman with his emotional abuse of his wife publicly and private and Ishita never standing up to him all these years has resulted in out of control kids. Ruhi misbehaved with her parents/family and as parents instead of laying down the law when she was talking disrespectfully to them, they let it slide and bend over backwards. You dont let a minor make such decisions to go meet and invite someone to their house..and let her roam freely...granted in India, the kids have means of getting around without depending on parents like here in US (until they get their drivers license..)but they do tell their parents where they are going and seek their permission. I dont know this <I trust my upbringing> nonsense..as a parent you have to be vigilant if your minor daughter is cozying up with an adult (Sohail seems to be in his early twenties). looking at the parents behaviour she didnt think twice before insulting them in front of a stranger..and was obnoxious. This is all I feel is a result of what they see and learn..parents equation and Ishra equally are insulting to each other (Raman more so...). Throwing a glass of cold water is over the top..why bother getting so furious and bottling up everything...because if she introspects, it is directly a result of her not standing up way before..even after the leap..she let everything slide...her pain or outburst should also now be pushed under the rug..Saying Raman needs to realize and change is not fair..she had a big hand in this. She too needs to change and become the 11pm ishita. Understanding a persons vulnerabilities and behaving and forgiving accordingly and nurturing a persons ego at the cost of your hurt..does not make the person strong..it makes the person weak..just as Raman became weak..you need to make them strong..so that people like Ashok and Shagun dont manipulate him all the time.

Adi..also learnt from Raman and Ishita..when Aliya didn't reciprocate his love in the beginning, he publicy misbehaved/disrespected her in the office..(because Raman does that to his wife..and Ishita does not say anything..)and did not apologize. Ishita failed big time here..she never told Adi that is not right to shout and insult a woman. Adi became a devadas...drunk..on the roads..just like Raman.

Bhalla kids..(Ruhi and Adi..can't figure out Pihu) as long as everything is going their way..they are happy, kind..but adversity brings out the worst in them..rude to elders..insulting in public..manipulating parents love for their benefit..making a public spectacle of themselves..

I think Ishita's hurt and standing up is too little too late to have any effect on the audience or on her kids/Raman. Ishra are repsonsible for reaching this situation in their life, not just Raman. Who thought they are the ideal couple..Abishek and Divya needs their heads examined..😉

Sorry for the rant..

Originally posted by: DikshaN

I felt I lost even the small connect that I had rebuilt on yhm during the last 2-3 episodes today
shagmani scene was over the top
whatever we wanted to see happening with ishu is now happening with shagun and it's very irritating to see that considering the state in which ishu is now
raman and toshiji have still not realised why exactly ishu is hurt
at least Raman should have realised it by now he still thinks she is just angry with him
I dint like ishu splashing water on Raman it was harsh she dint even tend to his wounds that hurt the ishra fan in me but I don't know what else she should have done to wake him up considering he was stone drunk and she was hell angry with pihu getting hurt
ruhanika was superb when she said mere Papa ko mat maro she enacted it well
I don't understand why Raman is taking ishus hurt so casually that he thinks just by his apology she will come back
the street fight also was very distasteful with him asking whether they met his wife and are asking apology for that seems like he doesn't even want to say sorry and is being forced to say it
I liked it that ishu after listening to senior bhallas conversation was taking the kids to Ramans award function though she wouldn't attend it herself
shagun must have come to meet pihu at iyer house and I don't blame Raman if he got confused with her being ishita but even I for a sec thought she was ishu from her hair and since no other lady stays in iyer house at present
but how she got so suffocated?? I mean the distance from the hall to the room wasn't 2-3 Kms
the precap seems cute but I don't like ishu caring about shagun so much it's not digestible at all

Originally posted by: swa6

Find me weirdest of weird...😉 yesterday I was happy for Mani...He s becoming father for the second time, and this time he will get to see everything n he will get the feel of "becoming a father"! (Mani's expression when Aliya is saying you will get to see pura process...is beautiful😊)

Yet I m really sad except Ishitha, everyone else will become fathers n mothers in some or another ways in this soap... but what to do...she is destined to be a mother by not becoming a mother!

So, Mani n Alu are pampering Shaun like anything n Ishu will join the queue...along wt her whole family... Sometimes I feel jealous of her yar... She is the most luckiest n pampered one in whole YHM😆 She is pampered by EVERYONE of YHM😆(If pihu is remained, it will be done soon)

I didn't get why on earth he is drunk before going to award ceremony!! Is there any great destruction happened in his life?! Ish n Ra are fighting, she is expressing, he didn't understand, all he knew is she is 'angry'...fine...why drinking now? Its not like his kids are in problem or his wife "completely left" him na?! She is living in the next door...still in talking terms...She still loves him...she didn't cheat on him like the case earlier.. why to get drunk everyday

Then picking fight wt each and every guy he found on road...?! He is frustrated that Ishitha is not accepting his sorry, He is not able to take his frustration out on Ishitha, hence taking out his frustration on those people...in the process Pihu got hurt, and Ruhi is so disturbed(probably guilt mode)

Now Ishu is mad at him...That if she is able, she may kill him a hundred times, and then make him alive...😆She has been shouting her lungs out what her problem is... yesterday also she told him...Instead of understanding the problem, and working towards solution, he is doing more n more mistakes n making it worst, that's why she is mad at him now...on top of that their kid got hurt...!

At the time when Raman was adamant to meet Pihu in hall, when Ishu came, he immediately became silent(like a student got afraid of teacher😆) and the scene followed ...even Toshi is shocked and angry that she splashed water, she couldn't even say a word..she actually got afraid of JKR..lolz

Then in bedroom, it would have been better if he changed clothes n have a better look, be in senses n come to meet her... not like this. I don't know whether Pihu ll still get afraid or not , but it would have been better...

Pihu is very disturbed and is in trauma(thanks to Sohail), then she s damn worried about her parents separation, and now this...I guess because of her current health condition(afraid of fights/shouts n blood), she is more afraid... otherwise she would have seen him drunk since she is born(as it was everyday routine for Raman for those 7 years), then why to get afraid now! But I m sorry I don't recommend some one drinking n roaming infront of kids...(@the end of the track, if he stops drinking, I ll be so happy😊😊)

yaar...Mihika😡 She is not anymore sister of Ishu, but she is just the wife of Romi...second bahu of bhallas...thats it. According to her, "one shouldn't keep a "family" in a position, where some have to choose one, and some to choose another...so that entire family don't split into two parts"...well said👏 it would have been so good, it the same was followed by her...🤬

The scene is actually cute only if Mihika is not related to Ishu...

As of now Aliya Mani are pampering Shagun, Not because they love her, but because she is giving their 'ghar-ka-chirag'(chirag-correct?)... Shagun thought he started loving her, but sad as it s all for his child...

In a way, I felt bad for her(kinda stalkholm syndrome of me), as she will get everything whenever she is gonna give "children" to ppl, if children is wt her, she ll have everything, and if children is not wt her she is nothing! Especially this would be the case whenever she is white! If ppl take her granted whenever she is changed n start ignoring her like a dump, she ll feel why should I change-to-good even?! Forget about the previous cases, when she is not genuine, Mani behaved like a love sick puppy n now she is genuine - all Mani is doing is provoking her "black"side! Why to even complain later?!

And they have talked about something that left some hint for future twists... Mani didn't do any mistake + Mani is doing all this for "his own" child, What if Mani did any mistake? What would be punishment for him?

Simmi is angry wt Param, which is why she choose Gaurav... same old formula between lovers.. I guess she still loves Param(she said I din't move on these many years thinking you changed), but she has misunderstanding(that param slept wt that lady, n he didn't change), hence as she is in heated argument wt him n then Gaurav came, she said "yes" to him.. Param has to prove his goodness+love for her n Annu. Ok, gonna be nice track if they dont spoil...looking forward.😊

Pre Precap: I didn't listen to lessons while teacher teaching--> I didn't even study from the books --> I didn't prepare for the exam --> Put slips -->caught by teacher --> then I said question paper is wrong, out-of-syllabus --> teacher warned me n threw out of class -- > I tried to bribe her😉 , dint work , tried to threaten her, didnt work --> when it is time for evaluation, I thought of kidnapping her to scare her again so that she ll give marks eventhough I didn't study/understand questions/write answers😆...

Kidnapped -- brought her home - open the sack - booom!!

Teacher ke jagah Principal Nikli😲 😆

Abb kya hoga?!

Originally posted by: ladyprincess

viji di.. i don't get time to visit IF everyday but here it is haha

this is about yesterday. DT has just been amazing.. not enough to praise her everyday. those consistent tears. and specially when she tried to hide her tears after raman's srk kinda kal ho na ho speech and he put his hand around her shoulder.. uff loved that bit like a very normal couple one trying to hide tears in public and other comforting after a fight. she so knows he loves her but she is adamant this time to not give in to his love. she needs respect too and a decent human behavior in front of kids as a father setting a right example to look up to .. and not follow the footsteps of someone who can't control his anger.. ruhi pihu adi already have those genes though

like

then bhalla ji's the slap that followed.. idk if it was necessary. but after today's kaand i felt it was.. he was going to an award function after getting drunk ? why so much drinking. ishita was right in saying that we don't get drunk every time we have problems or are stressed.

raman isn't still realizing what he did

why is ruhi making no effort this time.. waise to badi dadi amma bani firti hai.. ab apne hi failaye raite ko saaf ni kar rahi

shagun ko bhi complications hote hn. that's breaking news! only if somebody could come and tell mani and the doctors what all stunts she has done while carrying pihu.

what is adi alia's status btw.. no updates

lighter note- raman can't recognize his current wife from the back? we could, he couldn't 😆 daboch lia shagun ko..

i liked the precap, there could've been a better way though😆

Originally posted by: Mdwst

Hi darling

So you finally caught up...yes DT was fab..and the scene you mentioned..she wiping her tears..his arms around her,,nice it was. Yes ishu wants respect too...who wouldn't ...and you rightly pointed out..pihu Ruhi are following their dads foot steps. I was wondering..who will drink and go to an award function dressed like that!..only Raman..seriously...he needs to stop this and take responsibility ...

Lol shagun and complications..what a joke... as if..

Aadiliya...maybe back together soon..@ bold...😆😆😆..and I know that way too...😉😆

Originally posted by: ladyprincess

lol don't even get me started on his looks.. ceo of the year. chain aur earrings se toh munnabhai ka circuit lagta h

and when does he go to work jo award mil rha tha 😆 ishita ki dentistry on n off rehti hi thi ab ye bhi.. and did i read it right? ishita going to take care of shagun.? shut the **** up man.. she tried to kidnap and kill u once for god's sake.. mahaanta ki bhi hadd hoti hai.. hats off to the creativity of these creatives

Originally posted by: Mdwst

lol I don't know the exact situation...there was a segment where ishuta backs her bags and decides to go to mani's...why no idea...in going to wait until the episode airs...then was another segment saying ishita is leaving Coz she thiught raman tricked her with toshiji' illness...so I have no idea,,

Originally posted by: swa6

Hi Sumi :) Nice review...

about above line, I remember the param track, then adi accident track and then the scenes just before shanaya track...😳

It would have been soo good if we get to see that kind of story telling, but it is going in combination of emotional n funny ways...probably they cant afford not showing comedy now ..? I m not sure...

Originally posted by: swa6

Find me weirdest of weird...😉 yesterday I was happy for Mani...He s becoming father for the second time, and this time he will get to see everything n he will get the feel of "becoming a father"! (Mani's expression when Aliya is saying you will get to see pura process...is beautiful😊)

Yet I m really sad except Ishitha, everyone else will become fathers n mothers in some or another ways in this soap... but what to do...she is destined to be a mother by not becoming a mother!

So, Mani n Alu are pampering Shaun like anything n Ishu will join the queue...along wt her whole family... Sometimes I feel jealous of her yar... She is the most luckiest n pampered one in whole YHM😆 She is pampered by EVERYONE of YHM😆(If pihu is remained, it will be done soon)

I didn't get why on earth he is drunk before going to award ceremony!! Is there any great destruction happened in his life?! Ish n Ra are fighting, she is expressing, he didn't understand, all he knew is she is 'angry'...fine...why drinking now? Its not like his kids are in problem or his wife "completely left" him na?! She is living in the next door...still in talking terms...She still loves him...she didn't cheat on him like the case earlier.. why to get drunk everyday

Then picking fight wt each and every guy he found on road...?! He is frustrated that Ishitha is not accepting his sorry, He is not able to take his frustration out on Ishitha, hence taking out his frustration on those people...in the process Pihu got hurt, and Ruhi is so disturbed(probably guilt mode)

Now Ishu is mad at him...That if she is able, she may kill him a hundred times, and then make him alive...😆She has been shouting her lungs out what her problem is... yesterday also she told him...Instead of understanding the problem, and working towards solution, he is doing more n more mistakes n making it worst, that's why she is mad at him now...on top of that their kid got hurt...!

At the time when Raman was adamant to meet Pihu in hall, when Ishu came, he immediately became silent(like a student got afraid of teacher😆) and the scene followed ...even Toshi is shocked and angry that she splashed water, she couldn't even say a word..she actually got afraid of JKR..lolz

Then in bedroom, it would have been better if he changed clothes n have a better look, be in senses n come to meet her... not like this. I don't know whether Pihu ll still get afraid or not , but it would have been better...

Pihu is very disturbed and is in trauma(thanks to Sohail), then she s damn worried about her parents separation, and now this...I guess because of her current health condition(afraid of fights/shouts n blood), she is more afraid... otherwise she would have seen him drunk since she is born(as it was everyday routine for Raman for those 7 years), then why to get afraid now! But I m sorry I don't recommend some one drinking n roaming infront of kids...(@the end of the track, if he stops drinking, I ll be so happy😊😊)

yaar...Mihika😡 She is not anymore sister of Ishu, but she is just the wife of Romi...second bahu of bhallas...thats it. According to her, "one shouldn't keep a "family" in a position, where some have to choose one, and some to choose another...so that entire family don't split into two parts"...well said👏 it would have been so good, it the same was followed by her...🤬

The scene is actually cute only if Mihika is not related to Ishu...

As of now Aliya Mani are pampering Shagun, Not because they love her, but because she is giving their 'ghar-ka-chirag'(chirag-correct?)... Shagun thought he started loving her, but sad as it s all for his child...

In a way, I felt bad for her(kinda stalkholm syndrome of me), as she will get everything whenever she is gonna give "children" to ppl, if children is wt her, she ll have everything, and if children is not wt her she is nothing! Especially this would be the case whenever she is white! If ppl take her granted whenever she is changed n start ignoring her like a dump, she ll feel why should I change-to-good even?! Forget about the previous cases, when she is not genuine, Mani behaved like a love sick puppy n now she is genuine - all Mani is doing is provoking her "black"side! Why to even complain later?!

And they have talked about something that left some hint for future twists... Mani didn't do any mistake + Mani is doing all this for "his own" child, What if Mani did any mistake? What would be punishment for him?

Simmi is angry wt Param, which is why she choose Gaurav... same old formula between lovers.. I guess she still loves Param(she said I din't move on these many years thinking you changed), but she has misunderstanding(that param slept wt that lady, n he didn't change), hence as she is in heated argument wt him n then Gaurav came, she said "yes" to him.. Param has to prove his goodness+love for her n Annu. Ok, gonna be nice track if they dont spoil...looking forward.😊

Pre Precap: I didn't listen to lessons while teacher teaching--> I didn't even study from the books --> I didn't prepare for the exam --> Put slips -->caught by teacher --> then I said question paper is wrong, out-of-syllabus --> teacher warned me n threw out of class -- > I tried to bribe her😉 , dint work , tried to threaten her, didnt work --> when it is time for evaluation, I thought of kidnapping her to scare her again so that she ll give marks eventhough I didn't study/understand questions/write answers😆...

Kidnapped -- brought her home - open the sack - booom!!

Teacher ke jagah Principal Nikli😲 😆

Abb kya hoga?!