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Originally posted by: bscorp13

Sneha. .many of us did say adi went overboard that day..do rwad the dats review threads... heck but how many times before that has adi remained silent and yielding when mani beat him, slapped him , punched him and abused him...but did raman now abuse aliyas father. .did he say she was as ghatiya as her father..did raman push aliya and ash her and her mother to get out of his house ..did he slap aliya the way mani has repeatedly slapped adi...

No parent deserves such treatment from children. .nope..even if adi was wrong how does that justify aliyas wrong? I wouldn't ever teach or appreciate if my child behaves like this with those much older to them. .

Remember ishita used to even teach ruhi to behave well with shagun. .she used to tell raman to behave well with shagun because she deserved respect. .where did that ishita go today when adi us behaving this way..heck most of us didn't like the way adi spoke to his parents and grandparents the othet day too..that was wrong., this is also wrong. .

I guess you did mention few days back that you do not compare raman and mani. ,But Yet Again you did Make A Comparison here..😕..this is a comparison na?

Again it's apples and oranges here. .but since it's about raman I guess such a comment becomes fair?

Anyways this is my pov..hope it made sense..

Not stretching this further. .likely we may not agree. .but do try see facts and think of what it could be in n real if a child were to behave like this in real life😛

Originally posted by: snehaseshan

No I m still not making comparison I just stated that if ppl r talking abt disrespecting eleders then adi beating mani also come under disrespecting who ch ppl never mentioned but wenever I state past example u say I'm comparing but u & even others state past examples of adi & Raman for d present situation then is that not comparison.. even in this thread ppl HVE given examples of aaliya behaving like in this d past, u didn't say they r comparing.. my motive behind stating adi beating mani is just for disrespecting elders issue not d situation.. so i was not comparing Raman & mani

Coming to d comparison between apples & oranges :

did adi face any situation in aaliya's house till now where he is blamed wen he is not wrong no na so now ppl telling that adi is being respectful & aaliya disrespecting is also unreasonable comparison like apple & oranges as adi has not faced d situation like aaliya where he is blamed for no mistake of his were as here Aaliya is b blamed & scolded for not cooking properly so now comparing adi & aaliya is also wrong acc to d situation they r in..

IF adi doesn't react to mani wen he is blamed wen he is not wrong then comparung aaliya & adi wud b right as according to u comparison shud b done acc to situations else now it's again comparing apples & oranges na if u compare adi & aaliya like comparing mani & Raman

Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r

Just now watched the segment. This is why I always felt that the swap game in itself is pathetic idea.🤢. The relationship is still not solemnized, they are yet to become the members of the family officially. I neither like Paati taking some senseless tests for Adi nor do I find this act of Alia acceptable. There are clear boundaries that needs to be set and people should be careful enough not to go beyond that, until the relationship is accepted at both ends.

If Ishita or members of the family cannot stand up for themselves and talk against Raman when he shouts at them,then the problem lies with Ishita & family. They lack the sense to stand up for their respect. They need to grow their own spine and not depend on others to speak on behalf of them. That does not in anyway give a free pass to Alia to misbehave with her overboard behavior. At this point of time, she is nothing more than a guest, a prospect bride for the family. It ends there.

"Can you listen to me for once Raman Uncle?" - This would have been more acceptable than

"Stop it Raman Uncle. Ye sab yaha nahi chalega.". .

For me modernization & generations cannot change the respect one should have for elders. I have always pointed out that the elders needs to be treated with respect, regardless of how much ever you are friendly with them and we need to be really careful about the words we use for them. I did make it a point to call out Adi when he went against Mani, when he went against IshRa. I pointed out Alia when she questioned Mani about 'hote kaun ho aap". I'm doing it today as well.

So even if not for the sake of respect for elders(which most of the children in YHM, unfortunately doesn't have😕 and is considered acceptable😳), atleast for the fact that she is nothing more than a guest at the Bhallas, Alia should have not gone overboard with her behavior. Her intentions might be to tell Raman not to be harsh with the family, but the tone and choice of words were not acceptable for me. My opinion. No offence meant to anyone.

Originally posted by: sweet.Aman

Bhai ishita is devi ... raman is dusht janwar
Ishita didnt deserve raman... bas bast khtam 😵

Ishita ke dard mein sympathy

Raman ka dard kynki he deserve this...

Yhm dekhna bandh kardo beauty beast aur us beast ke bache ki story dekhna babdh kardo...

Originally posted by: sarunholic_arhi

So true

Raman is a janwaar who deserves all kind of pain 🥱

Ishita is a jagatmata who should get sympathy