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Originally posted by: priyadarshini.r
Just now watched the segment. This is why I always felt that the swap game in itself is pathetic idea.🤢. The relationship is still not solemnized, they are yet to become the members of the family officially. I neither like Paati taking some senseless tests for Adi nor do I find this act of Alia acceptable. There are clear boundaries that needs to be set and people should be careful enough not to go beyond that, until the relationship is accepted at both ends.
If Ishita or members of the family cannot stand up for themselves and talk against Raman when he shouts at them,then the problem lies with Ishita & family. They lack the sense to stand up for their respect. They need to grow their own spine and not depend on others to speak on behalf of them. That does not in anyway give a free pass to Alia to misbehave with her overboard behavior. At this point of time, she is nothing more than a guest, a prospect bride for the family. It ends there."Can you listen to me for once Raman Uncle?" - This would have been more acceptable than"Stop it Raman Uncle. Ye sab yaha nahi chalega.". .For me modernization & generations cannot change the respect one should have for elders. I have always pointed out that the elders needs to be treated with respect, regardless of how much ever you are friendly with them and we need to be really careful about the words we use for them. I did make it a point to call out Adi when he went against Mani, when he went against IshRa. I pointed out Alia when she questioned Mani about 'hote kaun ho aap". I'm doing it today as well.So even if not for the sake of respect for elders(which most of the children in YHM, unfortunately doesn't have😕 and is considered acceptable😳), atleast for the fact that she is nothing more than a guest at the Bhallas, Alia should have not gone overboard with her behavior. Her intentions might be to tell Raman not to be harsh with the family, but the tone and choice of words were not acceptable for me. My opinion. No offence meant to anyone.
Bang on.
@bold exactly, if they got offended from Raman then they should speak up not let some girl just came shout at him and make fun of him.
Actually here more than Raman's anger/janwar mode, it shows that Aalia has no values. She's still not matured enough to get married. The innocence a girl should have clearly lack from Aalia.
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