Originally posted by: sweet.Aman
Shagun less epi š š
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Originally posted by: sweet.Aman
Shagun less epi š š
Pb - after coming to terms with a lot in YHM, I am trying to find a small silver lining in lollipop scenes b/c neither the story nor it's execution are appealing to me any longer. There is no winning. But I have stuck around YHM through it's highs and millions of lows...so I gotta keep tryingLuckily our thread openers, Aman/Sri, and others here are good at finding even 1 1 minute scene that is worth watching š³
Originally posted by: bscorp13
No point ranting poonam, sad fact is cvs have chosen sides too...thas why it takes a mani to make ishita realize that she can't give up on her family...that's why we don't get any convos between ishuta and raman after such a huge event like ruhi custody bring given to them... ..i will wait for tjhe epi to air..but yes..God forbid we ever get a scene where raman thinks to shagun's sacrifice. .heck ppl blame raman for bringing shagun into their lives for pihu..but fact is ishita too kept mani in het life even after he recovered etc., even after he proposed to her. .but since cvs show mani as the well wisher and shagun as back to evil..guess who every one will blame. ..Its so obvious what cvs are doing ...and thats why I agree with @charminggenie..while shagun eats screentime...mani kills the love story if anything if it is left that is. ..Waise would it not have been a million times better if ruhi and raman had saved ishita from tjhe kidnappers and ruhi had her realization that day that her ishima could never give up on her. ..no..it takes a lengthy lecture by mani instead...this is no longer a story of raman and ishita who once loved each other and their small family..it's of 2 individuals who hardly know each other anymore. , Everything Needs A 3rd party..that's what comes through off late. ..š
Originally posted by: bscorp13
Sorry for being pessimistic yaar...but @bold..is it? Because here was a chance to show a a beautiful culmination to tjhe 30 day deadline. .most important for all 3 of them. . And what did we get today. .3 seperate realizations. .Raman -realized when he almost lost ishita again...self talk and anguish...but has not yet conveyed to herRuhi - confused still, but had a huge 'realization moment' thanks to 3 Rd party - maniIshita - still confused about her place in the family and with raman , thanks to shagun - will have a mini realization , again thanks to mani using negative reinforcement. ..So why have bothered bringing 3 if then together for 30 days..? Was it too much to exact all 3 realizing at least in bits due to each other, for each other .. and wanting to be with each other..?..today was a huge opportunity lost..heck raman doesn't even know ishita and ruhi planned to leave i guessšWhat makes you confident another 4 months of shagun and sauten and pihu manipulation won't end in another damp squibšBtw i liked toshi and Amma today..reminded me of our lollipop gang...šš..even in all this drama all they cared was ishita still loves raman and raman is starting to declare he loves ishita tooš..talk about blinker visionš
Such interesting discussions, I am reading through so many and feel like giving my two cents. But it all comes back to the same thing over and over.
That this story which is supposed to be about Ishita, Raman, Ruhi and Adi and now even Pihu is basically a story about anyone but them. Both IshRa have to have realizations, both have to learn to give priority to their relation and each other, converse their problems out. They both made mistakes, starting from surrogacy down to pre leap andboth their mistakes lead to their problems. But the blame lies only with one...And to stall that progress, and to make the FL heal the ML they make the latter so inactive that it turns out to be a one sided affair.My posts may make me seem like a biased Raman lover, but I am not. I have always been a person who yearns to see equality in relations and story. But it irks me that to glorify one character they overshadow every other. And in this scenario so that the ML is raised from his self induced hell ONLY by the FL, his character is shown doing nothing fruitful whereas characters like Romi, Simmi and even the new bimbo in town Alia gets to do a lot more in comparison.I have nothing against Mani, but like I cannot see Shagun slap Raman and drill sense into him (even if she was genuinely positive) I cannot see Mani take part in something that is a family matter and should be solved by either the Bhallas or the Iyers. Talking to Ishita is his right, because he has earned it over the last 7 years. But Ruhi? NO. That should have been Raman or Ishita or anyone from the family.I don't get the purpose for anything that's happening right now. What should have been a reunion between IshRa and Ruhi turned out to be a glorify and sympathize with Mani affair and although what he told her was so wonderful, I can't appreciate it for the sheer factor that one clearly doesn't understand what purpose does that man have in being involved in this matter.I am going to wait till KP is back from his holidays, and if even post that there's nothing that involves him in the tracks how he should be. I'd like to question the people justifying anyone and everyone else's involvement being right.
correct both not realizing.
My prblm is y need a third person to realize...
If raman neglects ishita's feelings wen it comes to his kids(i read that) then for ishita too raman comes last wen it comes to her selfless nature..
I wud like to know only one thing if ishita breaks down in raman's arms that i cant live without u (forget abt lift scene that is totally forgotten by ishita) n raman thinks abt shagun or mani's sacrifice n ignore ishita's breakdown n decides to leave her then v will support raman ...?? A big NO from my side...and i m not saying ishita shud forgive raman n run into his arms bcs ppl always take it wrong...
N ur line is really bang on...if raman dances on shagun's tune then ishita too dances on mani's tune it doesnt matter wat relation she shares with him..
He jst said n she is ready even if its a plan...i give up š„±
Originally posted by: sweet.Aman
that what i m saying the way mani made ruhi realise .. I like that kynki pain bhi usine dekha ishita ka ..
I knw we dont like mani ...
Bt fact is he is not selfish he only wants ishitas happiness..
Aur precap ki baat .. Dono ek doosre ko kch bol nai rahe .. Toh kisi ko toh kch krna hoga na..