Originally posted by: sunitas123
I think people are forgetting a huge fact - Raman drew Ishita to suicide and he continued his wierd behaviour for a long time even after she got back and he was to marry Shagun.
Nope not forgetting everything but you are missing the point, Ishita is NEVER angry about that to him. Never and she also enables or like she says on-screen understands his anger. Is it crappy , yes but is your FL protests never.
Just like we conveniently overlook how Ishita left the house for 7 years and never bothered even asking about her parents' well being or about Adi and Pihu- weird that too. This is precisely why the leap and pre-leap thing is negated. They don't want to address it to show Ishita as a flawed parent too.
Post leap, Raman had built Shagun's hopes and she is still Pihu's mother and as per Raman the asli maa of Pihu as well.
Yeah well, weird were alot of things ..remember when Mani and Bala wanted to file the custody case for Pihu without Ishita's consent/
Raman has also told Ishita not to dream about Pihu and then he was okay to marry her for Ruhi. Ishita knows he loves her but just like Ruhi she is insecure too. Plus now Raman need not marry her since Ruhi is back and Ruhi too does not seem too inclined towards Ishita. In other words Raman Ruhi, Pihu and Shagun can be a happy family as per her thinking and she just came back and finished her unfinished business. What Raman has done with Shagun and Pihu must be a joke for him, but thats not the case for Ishita, it is very serious. And with Raman taking littleinitiative on anything, she does not want to spoil Pihu's world.
What was a joke then? Ishita leaving and pretending to be dead? was it a joke for her old parents? Or her kids..the psychology..or would that have been a joke if Raman was put behind the bars for abetting.
No, what Raman did was right given the situation..Ishita has no problems about that..have we seen opposing to that..or has she objected to her child calling shagun Ma even in private?
Ishita is worried because she thinks she is messing Shagun's life.
Ishita who saw Raman crumbling..who knows the whole Ruhi return hinged on Ishra being together.
Ishita who heard and saw Raman being distraught about her leaving him
Ishita who should talk and express but nope..she doesn't think like that..so why are we talking about what we would have done using Ishita/.
On the other hand, what has Mani done? He saved Ishita from suicide and then he loves her. He was also the one who pushed Raman to go after Ruhi, he had already given up even before starting.
See this is the problem ..this show never needed Mani..a father should go on his own- if you cannot see this as Raman's emotional stunting by the cvs to push Mani on a pedestral so that he gets support from Ishita fans..then what is not?Why do you even need Mani? How the heck was he there to save her?
Wasn't he bankrupt..did he call also insult her in the jail during alya case?
Did he not also mess up this show during earlier arc
Did he not make a move on Ishita after she rejected him?
why is he still here?
Raman loves Ishita but his extreme anger when anything goes wrong with his kids towards Ishita has a long history and it just got worse with Ruhi kidnap.
They are both messed up..with zero conversations between them as parents or as a couple..which is why [people protest against Mani because he eats up emotionally crunching scenes of RamanAnd why should a woman with self-respect be forced to put up with an ex in the same house? She wont be able to do anything now due to Pihu and she feels it is injustice to Shagun, why not? Raman uses Shagun as per his fancy but he has forgotten- Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned.
LOL Where was this self-respect when Ishita got Shagun in the bedroom.I would support you had Ishita EVER went after this angle..heck she is the one championing the cause of Shagun always.Ofcrouse Raman should know..but then where would the plot be
Why would Ishita not listen to Mani Listening to Raman she committed suicide, listening to Mani, she survived... thats the bitter truth.
LOL she survived? Bitter truth is that..you are even making this comparison and not understanding why the heck the show has suffered because of Mani..this putting down Raman is exactly what cvs want and give you Mani to make these arguments. Did it ever occur how come he suddenly was there to save Ishita- nope? Exactly..that.
No arc, no continuity yet he gets to play the saviour.
Does Ishita know this friend like Raman also took about her rights by conspiring to file that custody case..making that choice for her..yeah no..I get it
Raman has not understood ishita's pain. And Raman has always been manipulated by Shagun- even during the last Ruhi-Adi swap, Raman did nothing to remove Ruhi's MU about ishita. He kept himself in her good books and went on dinner date with Shagun.
Nor did Ishita. She saw her man broke down, saw the reality of Shagun drama , lived in aroom with him..saw him beg her to not leave..yet emotionally stunted.
So ishita must leave and Raman needs to take the initiative to set things right between her and Pihu and he needs to handle Shagun, which he wont...till she turns grey...
Ocourse Ishita must leave..she should..move out of this house to either go to her parents house or stay close to them.What is the need to play house with mani again..or got o Australia ..what err has Adi done here?
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