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Posted: 9 years ago
#41

Originally posted by: sindhu.kashyup

Raman's character is very inconsistent in the show especially post leap . At starting of today's episode he said "Agar aisa hi chalta raha tho sab kuch pehle jaise hojayega " and in precap he said its only a matter of 20days. wo tho pagal hi hai viewers ko bhi pagal banaraha hai "Raman is himself a big confused soul"😆



i strongly disagree
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Posted: 9 years ago
#42

Originally posted by: -Anku-


When he said there's a meeting and both parents have to be there, IshRa shared a look and that look said loud and clear - both the parents were right there. But that's not something they've yet faced, that's something they don't have the guts to face amidst all that's happening right now. But that look shared, his request and her quick nod was not shoddy writing... It was them subconsciously doing something for Pihu they would have in normal circumstances.

Him taking her there is an impulsive decision of involving her in his life but when the involvement raises hopes he crushes them himself... Isn't that how Raman has ALWAYS been? Hot and cold? He used to do that prior leap, in the first year of this show. There would be a sweet moment between the two in the night and morning would be back to square one. He did that because his brain stopped his heart from going with the flow of falling in love. And to cover up for falling weak he would shout at Ishita...Here he's scared to hope they can have that life again because so far they've both assumed they will go back to routine...and that is what he said (which again I am only guessing because we don't have the exact context) Hot and cold was going to be rehashed like everything else has been.

I don't believe this is shoddy writing though, because it's just like how Raman has been (not that it makes his behavior right...it's just the fabric of his character)

Maybe I over discussing or over analyzing...but some episodes do that to me 😆


So in that case should I conclude that the forum follows different sets of rules for the male lead and the female lead?
See I read posts where by people have said that tying Raman's hands is like treating him like animal. And that Raman is human being. Well I agree to that. CVs could have shown a better way to do that. But these same set of people supported Raman abusing Ishita and calling her baanjh, sauteli maa..and what not...So my question is..Is Ishita not human being? Does a person's anger justify him of his action to verbally abuse his wife? But in this forum..if anybody points out Raman's mistake, the person is labelled as basher. Whereas...people love comments where Ishita is bashed. Why this double standard? Then there was a comment...Ishita being married stayed with Mani. How could she do it? That same person forgot that Raman did the same thing. So why spare one and vilify the other? They both have done their share of mistakes...

There are some bullies in this forum who have sent abusive PM to some members for pointing out Raman's mistakes. Isn't this madness?

And yet people who bash Ishita want Ishita back with Raman...Isn't that funny?

anyways...it is just my POV...a true Ishra fan should be balanced...if not , then the person is a biased fan. Period.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#43
I will not comment on who is right & who is wrong but i don't understand the need of what raman said ... ishita never said she will be staying here after ruhi is back..not once did she try to force herself on the family ...or try to get close to pihu ... she dnt even interfere in pihu's matter or any other matter that is not concerning ruhi ..thn y all this ... raman knows it better thn anyone else that ishita is a very emotional person so if he was so apprehensive abt she getting involved thn what was the need to take her to PTA meeting ...thn saying all this that too after witnessing how ishu chose to be pihu's massi in front of the teacher ...he saw how hurt she was...
ishita also know that she is here till this ruhi thing clears out.. n she voiced the same no of times..to mani..to shagun ..thn y all this .

it seems shagun do good by giving it back to raman .. he misbehaved in the morning ..she dint even pick up his call rather switched off the phn ...dint even cared abt pihu ..other side ishita agreed to his request .. went along with him . n she got this in return ..
disappointed ...

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Posted: 9 years ago
#44

Originally posted by: rose1000



So in that case should I conclude that the forum follows different sets of rules for the male lead and the female lead?
See I read posts where by people have said that tying Raman's hands is like treating him like animal. And that Raman is human being. Well I agree to that. CVs could have shown a better way to do that. But these same set of people supported Raman abusing Ishita and calling her baanjh, sauteli maa..and what not...So my question is..Is Ishita not human being? Does a person's anger justify him of his action to verbally abuse his wife? But in this forum..if anybody points out Raman's mistake, the person is labelled as basher. Whereas...people love comments where Ishita is bashed. Why this double standard? Then there was a comment...Ishita being married stayed with Mani. How could she do it? That same person forgot that Raman did the same thing. So why spare one and vilify the other? They both have done their share of mistakes...

There are some bullies in this forum who have sent abusive PM to some members for pointing out Raman's mistakes. Isn't this madness?

And yet people who bash Ishita want Ishita back with Raman...Isn't that funny?

anyways...it is just my POV...a true Ishra fan should be balanced...if not , then the person is a biased fan. Period.



Yes I have also seen the same attitude with some ppl.when the character raman do something out of anger they justify saying that he did in the spur of the moment and supporting him for his rude behaviour to others.they supported him even when Romi outbursted raman in the hotel on the day of ruhi's revelation.if raman can beat him and blame him for taking money from Nidhi no one had any objection on it..I didn't find a great mistake in Romi for giving the child to nurse.she was the nurse from hospital and any person would have believed her and gave the child but they started blaming Romi for his carelessness .i too accept that he was careless but the words used by Raman were very hurtful to him and they didn't spare mihikha also.she lost her sister becoz of Raman s word and she should not get angry on Raman but after she softened her attitude after seeing ishitha alive .so basically here if anyone say any word against Raman then they are bashers and their most famous words feminist.in total they are saying if Raman does anything wrong he is doing that becoz he is in pain but when others do any wrong they are cheap and unfaithful people.also I accept Raman is in pain but what he is not realising is that all others are also in pain.if his anger let to slap Romi and bash ishitha then I would say it was Romi 's anger that made him to against his brother. The path which Romi chose to defeat his brother is wrong but his anger is not wrong. These people are making Raman as an innocent soul who is not loved by anyone but y don't they accept that he is also a human who has done mistakes. If Raman had ever shown guilty for his words then we could understand his pain and relate to his character.now his emotions doesn't have any effect nowadays.the best example for his emotions not getting any effect is his Shaadi with shagun for pihu ke liye.
Edited by gowthamiv90 - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#45
We are yet to see when the precap scene will be shown.. Before or after.. I have a feeling before .. Coz he brought her along to the meeting, He didn't introduce her.. That's a basic courtesy, she expected him to do it.. She realized / sensed/ he was uncomfortable.. It was an awkward moment .. She took the next step introduced herself as Pihu's aunt... She said her mumma ( Shagun) couldn't make it.. Hence she came. But the whole scene should air tomorrow. If he's seen how hurt she was., then today's precap scene will not be after the meeting, but before that's why he stayed quiet and let her make the move. It will only be silence, after the meeting. I may be completely wrong., this is my interpretation.
Edited by Mdwst - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#46
Do you know there was a comment yesterday on olv thread ..,
A dictionary meaning / reference -- to feminism to people who don't know the meaning of feminism.
!
Edited by Mdwst - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#47

Originally posted by: gowthamiv90



Yes I have also seen the same attitude with some ppl.when the character raman do something out of anger they justify saying that he did in the spur of the moment and supporting him for his rude behaviour to others.they supported him even when Romi outbursted raman in the hotel on the day of ruhi's revelation.if raman can beat him and blame him for taking money from Nidhi no one had any objection on it..I didn't find a great mistake in Romi for giving the child to nurse.she was the nurse from hospital and any person would have believed her and gave the child but they started blaming Romi for his carelessness .i too accept that he was careless but the words used by Raman were very hurtful to him and they didn't spare mihikha also.she lost her sister becoz of Raman s word and she should not get angry on Raman but after she softened her attitude after seeing ishitha alive .so basically here if anyone say any word against Raman then they are bashers and their most famous words feminist.in total they are saying if Raman does anything wrong he is doing that becoz he is in pain but when others do any wrong they are cheap and unfaithful people.also I accept Raman is in pain but what he is not realising is that all others are also in pain.if his anger let to slap Romi and bash ishitha then I would say it was Romi 's anger that made him to against his brother. The path which Romi chose to defeat his brother is wrong but his anger is not wrong. These people are making Raman as an innocent soul who is not loved by anyone but y don't they accept that he is also a human who has done mistakes. If Raman had ever shown guilty for his words then we could understand his pain and relate to his character.now his emotions doesn't have any effect nowadays.the best example for his emotions not getting any effect is his Shaadi with shagun for pihu ke liye.


I have been noticing..that when in an episode Raman does something that hurts Ishita...even before the episode ends...there will be threads to support his actions...in anticipation that Raman will be bashed...My question is ..why? Why this urgency to rush to defend him even before the episode ends or even airs? Unless they know he is guilty...but like Raman, they too are in denial mode...or they hate Ishita so much...that no matter what Raman does...they will support him...and then call themselves Ishra fan.
And Anku..I don't mean you. I know you love Ishra. I am talking about some others I see doing the same thing day in and day out...either they do it because they hate the actress or they cannot differentiate between reel and real. Anyways..the sane minds of the forum have all left...Just my POV...
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Posted: 9 years ago
#48
i will give my review when epi air n if i ve free time n feel so at tat time lol ,let d epi air.
Edited by Savz_Startling - 9 years ago
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Posted: 9 years ago
#49
Ishra relationship is biggest disappointed after the leap viewers want proper relationship not cold feelings raman can say bakwas to ishita . But he never clear things with airhead & keep her leave in lies .
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mdwst

Do you know there was a comment yesterday on olv thread ..,
A dictionary meaning / reference -- to feminism to people who don't know the meaning of feminism.
!


Yes ..but can u please clear ur point.i don't understand that y have u mentioned ?

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