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Posted: 9 years ago
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After today's precap it's some what clear that Raman doesn't want ishita..
may b m wrong but those who watched. Episode give me u r review
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Raman is only saying what's in everyone's mind. They've done this all for Ruhi right? Not for themselves. Ishita has said the same too, that this isn't permanent. Clearly they both haven't thought what will life be post 20 days get over. But when they give it a thought the communication gap, misunderstandings and their issues stand in between them. Ishita assumes Raman doesn't want her (he doesn't make it any better) and Ishita had also said she is here temporarily... He assumes that when she didn't come back in the 7 years she was alive, she will not stay back even now...

He isn't telling this to her...he's reminding himself that he can't dream and hope again.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Raman said not keep any expextations
Once ruhi is back they will part away
He is back to work and she will go to aus
Dnt build emotional attachment
It's just matter of 20-24 days
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Sahi kha yaar lagta hain ki Raman shagun ko hi chaita. Hain Aur kuch nahi Ab to dhika do yaar ishita Ka self respect Pagal ekta
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Anku-

Raman is only saying what's in everyone's mind. They've done this all for Ruhi right? Not for themselves. Ishita has said the same too, that this isn't permanent. Clearly they both haven't thought what will life be post 20 days get over. But when they give it a thought the communication gap, misunderstandings and their issues stand in between them. Ishita assumes Raman doesn't want her (he doesn't make it any better) and Ishita had also said she is here temporarily... He assumes that when she didn't come back in the 7 years she was alive, she will not stay back even now...


He isn't telling this to her...he's reminding himself that he can't dream and hope again.


yes what you said is right. but my question...then why did he ask Ishita to come for PTA? Why not go alone? When Ishita was not there, did Raman and Shagun always attend the PTA together without fail? This was Pihu's school and had nothing to do with Ruhi. So why take Ishu at all???? And if he takes her...then why not introduce her to the teacher? Why leave it to Ishu to do the explaining?
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Posted: 9 years ago
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After precap i am totally disappointed with Raman. I hate him, he only deserves Shagun
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: rose1000


yes what you said is right. but my question...then why did he ask Ishita to come for PTA? Why not go alone? When Ishita was not there, did Raman and Shagun always attend the PTA together without fail? This was Pihu's school and had nothing to do with Ruhi. So why take Ishu at all???? And if he takes her...then why not introduce her to the teacher? Why leave it to Ishu to do the explaining?

exactly...he himself is involving ishita in pihu's matter by asking her to come with him but on the other hand saying her not to get emotionally attach...my question is why take her help in matters other than ruhi if he doesn't want her to get emotionally attached?...isn't it better if they keeps things only related to ruhi?...form raman's dialogue it also feels like he is sensing that ishita is getting emotionally involved with his family
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: rose1000


yes what you said is right. but my question...then why did he ask Ishita to come for PTA? Why not go alone? When Ishita was not there, did Raman and Shagun always attend the PTA together without fail? This was Pihu's school and had nothing to do with Ruhi. So why take Ishu at all???? And if he takes her...then why not introduce her to the teacher? Why leave it to Ishu to do the explaining?

Even i was thinking the same.
They are so confusing😕
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: brihati

Raman said not keep any expextations
Once ruhi is back they will part away
He is back to work and she will go to aus
Dnt build emotional attachment
It's just matter of 20-24 days


Guys I have not watched the episode
I have a question now
Is he aware that ishita is expecting something from him? Has he sensed it? That's why he's telling not to have any expectations?., he knows her well right?.., I'm not mocking the character or bashing him .. it's an honest question . Somebody please she'd some light .
Thank you
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: rose1000


yes what you said is right. but my question...then why did he ask Ishita to come for PTA? Why not go alone? When Ishita was not there, did Raman and Shagun always attend the PTA together without fail? This was Pihu's school and had nothing to do with Ruhi. So why take Ishu at all???? And if he takes her...then why not introduce her to the teacher? Why leave it to Ishu to do the explaining?


But I am not justifying him when he's wrong. He is wrong that Pihu doesn't know who his real mother is, he's wrong that he even let Shagun think he wants a life with her when he clearly doesn't...But that's what you do when you're a mess and he is in one at the moment.

I have no explanation for why he took Ishita along, he shouldn't have if he didn't want to acknowledge her as the mother. But just let's think of it this way. 7 years back he thought Ishita died, so he didn't tell Pihu anything about her, now when she's back and they're trying to get Ruhi back to them... Can they tell Pihu the truth and handle the repercussions it would cause? Pihu would have a million questions, heartbreaks and amidst feeling all of it she would distance from Ruhi, from the family and question Ishita why she left and didn't come back... So I have an answer for why none of them are telling Pihu the truth yet...But why he took Ishita for the meeting? Maybe he's being a hypocrite here... he wants to spend time with Ishita, wants to do these set of things they couldn't as parents and when he notices he's swaying he reminds himself he is dreaming beyond what's possible and as is his habit he scolds her instead...because that's how Raman is and which is something I won't justify because it can't be.

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