Originally posted by: Zoyamalik2005
Aww thank you 😳I love hugsIn all honesty the return to normal after a huge argument is a default setting. That's part of why arguments about the same thing happen again and again. Because the issues end up in arguments and don't find a resolution.. The issues that lead to the leap being a prime example. And I do think we are in for some emotional scenes, but once the leads get back to admitting the still and always will love each other hopelessly, the return to normal default will take over.But in my very own case, my dad for example protests my mother only endured his parents a few years. We settled out of the country and she has her own home etc etc. He doesn't acknowledge the pain she endures when we return to visit and my grandmother and aunt act all lovey dovey as if nothing happened. The fact that she was refused to consult a specialist when pregnant with me and it caused a mild disability in the right side of my body is forgotten. We act as if nothing happened and plaster smiles on our faces.life is brutal. Sadistic. I'm Pakistani, and in my culture the woman, whether working or not compromises again and again.Ps I only take my example because it's story that allows me to still somehow relate to the brutality on the show. It's over the top on the show, yes, but the brutality doesn't disgust me the way it should. I became my mothers shoulder to cry on when I was old enough. She told me and her older sister only. My Nani has no clue of the degradation. Thank god my father is a doctor and we moved away. Now I see thejealousy on my aunt's face sometimes when we visit. Her own husband uneducated and she lives with him and their children in her maayka. Yet no one says anything about that. My father is always emotionally blackmailed. My grand father was an educated engineer for god sake, and says nothing.Sorry, sorry, rant over. I'm just trying to point out why some trp audience don't protest to some horrors shown n Indian tv.Do ignore my post if you wish 😊
