about ishra behavior

i am confused whether i have to smile or feel bad about raman behavior and doings

up to his behavior i think he did for getting attention from ishu moreover want her to fight with him ( they can also he did everything to hurt her its up to raman haters ) but our ishu is in mahan position ready to give everything to everyone who needed

based on yesterday episode

first he buried the beautiful memories of them in front of her then also she doesn't react

second he announced his marriage with shagun then also she doesn't react ( at least they show she felt happiness when he clear her mu that he is not moved on his life still wait for her even he know she is dead before ) but still she behave like he is not her first priority only family ( i am confused about her thinking if raman is not belong to her how would bhalla family is her family ? if raman marriage shagun means moreover she lost her rights us wife ,daughter in law and mother also ? wife is exceptional if she think that raman doesn't deserve her or her love what about her motherly love to adi and piku ? piku is exceptional what about adi ? )

really i bow down of her sacrifice nature

based on today u me tv segment

third now he announce his marriage to society people everyone started gossip about that

reasons going to happen are

1. one they going to gossip about raman character or shagun character that they are characterless

what i am not sure is whether she going to support raman or shagun when they said bad about their character ( its about ishra or ishagun love up to her )

i am never support for raman words to ishu but he wants her in his life

to find out she still love him or want him on her life

first he show his ravaan avatar in front of her ( to bring back his jkr moreover she fall in love with ravaan not raman first )

second he make her to away from their kids ( so that her motherly love come in front he know kids are her life moreover her first priority )

third he put down their beautiful memories they shared when they are in deep love in front of her moreover its not belong to him or her its belong to them their love ( if he have rights to buried them then she has also have rights to stop him to buried them )

fourth he announced his marriage to shagun ( he know he belongs to her only ever and forever no one have rights on him except her like she for him )

fifth he put down his self respect his character on disguise (by informing everyone that he is live with lady with out marriage for seven years he know when it come to his self respect surely ishu will fight with them who utter bad about his character )

but still has no response from her she is behaved like he is not belong to her

already he make him monster in front of both the family kids now society people also but still she is in silent mode

raman is ready to do anything to get her in his life and ishu is ready to give everything its belong to her ( husband her kids) to shagun because she sacrifice her life for her kids and husband like she sacrifice her life for mani and his kids

really i wish to see jkr back not this mahaan character anymore

miss ishra badly

its my opinion please don't bashed me

extremely sorry if i hurt anyone

Like your post
hope we will get too see her jkr mode

Originally posted by: Divan-holic

Like your post
hope we will get too see her jkr mode

thanks dear

hope soon

Hi Lakshmi! 😃 I hope I've spelt our name correctly! 😳

Now coming on to Ishita. I see and hear people call her an Abla Naari, Tyaag Ki Devi etc..yet as I see it; Ishita is a dignified lady who has the conscious enough to step away from the heart break that the love of her life is giving her. It takes a lot of courage to love yet be distant from that one person who means the world to you! However, if she really does love Raman then she should try to initiate a convo and take a glance at his heart; that which only beats for her!

Originally posted by: Badtameez_Dil_1

Hi Lakshmi! 😃 I hope I've spelt our name correctly! 😳

Yesterday night, I was trying to gauge Raman's behaviour and even though people may strongly disagree but here's what I have deciphered out of the situations presented in front of me.

We have always known Raman to wear his heart on his sleeves and obviously with such a personality; one's delicate heart is ought to break! What I mean to say is that Raman wanted to live a normal, happy, content life with Ishu, THEIR children and the extended family. However, Ishita's intervening personality tore that dream apart! Yes it was Raman's past that led to such destruction but how was Pallavi related to any of them? Yet, Ishita decided she'll interfere and release the lady from her abusive husband's clutches. How do you fault Raman here? In this scenario, clearly Ishita is to be blamed because she went out her way to help a total stranger! What did this lady get... she was going to be hanged ... Raman's frustrations are justified ... because he is a man who needs love, who needs a support system... on many accounts; he's reiterated that ... then why when she claims to love him so much does she not live a normal life and mind her own business (other than the fact that this is fiction and we need such scenarios for pathetic OTT drama)

There lies the crux of the issue ... Raman's disappointment in Ishita stems from her uncontrollable urge to help people. As for his harsh and unjustifiable words ... I believe that (I'm not trying to justify him but I just happen to think in this manner!) he is upset at her for leaving their children, him and the entire family in the dark ... Raman is not wrong in saying that she didn't even have the decency enough to let their children know of where she was. I understand that she had her issues but how do you expect for things to clear out when you take absolutely no initiative yourself?

Yes Raman said all those words seven years back but shouldn't Ishita have retaliated ...? Shouldn't she have challenged them? She is the mother of the children, nobody denies that ... deep within even this Ravan Kumar knows that ... then why did he say those words? That's something which only he would know but the little idea that I get is that was too broken to think straight ... at that moment, she needed to sit him down and reassure him because you don't give up ... you don't give up and adopt cowardice and decide to give up on life ...

I rest my case; my two cents 😃

agree completely dear

loved your analysis dear 👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

the best

Originally posted by: Badtameez_Dil_1

Now coming on to Ishita. I see and hear people call her an Abla Naari, Tyaag Ki Devi etc..yet as I see it; Ishita is a dignified lady who has the conscious enough to step away from the heart break that the love of her life is giving her. It takes a lot of courage to love yet be distant from that one person who means the world to you! However, if she really does love Raman then she should try to initiate a convo and take a glance at his heart; that which only beats for her!

lovely said dear

agree

I noticed it now like shagun, ISHITA also served others for 7 years.
So like ,shagun should have the right over bhalla according to ISHITA; ISHITA also have some rights over raghavs . but we all know ISHITA don't want any that kind of ri8 from raghavs ,so it can be other way around. Raghavs should say u sacrificing ur life for us,as RAMAN saying for shagun ,so I should marry you.so mani should give the similarities before ISHITA and explain her about it,so that ISHITA ko realize ho ki shadi ke liye PYAR Jaruri HAI obligation nahi.

And puttar is doing only out of obligation according to ISHITA or she thinks now RAMAN love shagun or she thinks ab RAMAN ko mere se nafrat hai to wo shagun ke sath khush rahega or she thinks shagun RAMAN ke bachho ki sagi maa HAI so he is marrying her any one reason can be true ,then ISHITA should also marry mani out of obligation.
Matlab ishita puttar ko obligation ke naam pe khudkhushi karne degi aur usse rokege bhi nahi and khud pyar ke liye Mani ko reject kar sakti HAI. Very bad ISHITA. Puttar also loves u, u know the truth deep inside u,so why to let him do the SUICIDAL act.he won't be happy for a minute without u. 😭
Am I making any sense? 😕

If we going to blame Ishita for helping Pallavi & getting into this mess wouldnt it be correct to blame Raman for bringing Nidhi into their lives. It was him wronging Nidhi that started this whole string of events.

Originally posted by: Cinderella100

If we going to blame Ishita for helping Pallavi & getting into this mess wouldnt it be correct to blame Raman for bringing Nidhi into their lives. It was him wronging Nidhi that started this whole string of events.

Ishita never gave her Raman and kids to shagun. Raman threw Ishita out.

A - he never knew who Nidhi was until after the proof disappeared. It's not his fault his mom made a match without his knowledge 9 years ago.
B - no other Laywer was willing to take Ishita's case bc she picked a battle against a powerful enemy
C - have you not noticed that everything has to end up "the Bhallas fault" bc the Iyers can do no wrong?


Everything else - I don't care bc we have repeated over and over about Raman's vile tongue, but I disagree that Raman is to just blame for bringing Nidhi unless you want to have seen him given up and let Ishita croak in jail.