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Originally posted by: Badtameez_Dil_1
Hi Lakshmi! 😃 I hope I've spelt our name correctly! 😳
Yesterday night, I was trying to gauge Raman's behaviour and even though people may strongly disagree but here's what I have deciphered out of the situations presented in front of me.We have always known Raman to wear his heart on his sleeves and obviously with such a personality; one's delicate heart is ought to break! What I mean to say is that Raman wanted to live a normal, happy, content life with Ishu, THEIR children and the extended family. However, Ishita's intervening personality tore that dream apart! Yes it was Raman's past that led to such destruction but how was Pallavi related to any of them? Yet, Ishita decided she'll interfere and release the lady from her abusive husband's clutches. How do you fault Raman here? In this scenario, clearly Ishita is to be blamed because she went out her way to help a total stranger! What did this lady get... she was going to be hanged ... Raman's frustrations are justified ... because he is a man who needs love, who needs a support system... on many accounts; he's reiterated that ... then why when she claims to love him so much does she not live a normal life and mind her own business (other than the fact that this is fiction and we need such scenarios for pathetic OTT drama)There lies the crux of the issue ... Raman's disappointment in Ishita stems from her uncontrollable urge to help people. As for his harsh and unjustifiable words ... I believe that (I'm not trying to justify him but I just happen to think in this manner!) he is upset at her for leaving their children, him and the entire family in the dark ... Raman is not wrong in saying that she didn't even have the decency enough to let their children know of where she was. I understand that she had her issues but how do you expect for things to clear out when you take absolutely no initiative yourself?Yes Raman said all those words seven years back but shouldn't Ishita have retaliated ...? Shouldn't she have challenged them? She is the mother of the children, nobody denies that ... deep within even this Ravan Kumar knows that ... then why did he say those words? That's something which only he would know but the little idea that I get is that was too broken to think straight ... at that moment, she needed to sit him down and reassure him because you don't give up ... you don't give up and adopt cowardice and decide to give up on life ...I rest my case; my two cents 😃
yes, Ishita is interfering. But Pallavi is no stranger because she is Rohit's mom, the same Rohit who they thought was their nephew and suddenly was about to be thrown out back to the orphanage according to Toshi, because they feared their birth mother would come back. Ishita was trying to secure Rohit (he is a family member for her and Raman)because she gave a guarantee for Rohit at the time he was brought home. You do not cast out an infant just because he is not blood related. The rest was all for drama sake to bring out the separation.
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