So all mistake is raman's -- well done cvs - Page 4

Originally posted by: crazy_bholi

Both are equally responsible...they did not think about their kids even for one moment ...they should suffer more than kids...and the fact that ishita accepting shagun in raman's life is so irritating pathetic and cheap.I did not like that bit...tum khush ho mere bina...i left you ...you are happy...writers dont keep in mind the characters...how can he be happy without her...ishitas thought I am not getting...she knows he loved her so so much and the kids ke liye factor was vanished long back...still aisa dikha rahe hai...I mean i am not able to connect or understand because of these dialogues.

Originally posted by: swatica

lilies r jst a symbol dat watevr u do if u love me frm heart dn im urs n vl b wid u always..

😳

bt reaching to any conclusions based on ds cute light hearted scene is bizaaree.

though cvs r more bizaare bt dey wont finish al ds..

dere is along way..

before any sorry a lot of drama accusations r on d way...

Originally posted by: Divan-holic

I want apology and heart to headt talk from both sides.
I want raman to ask her that why she left him and They should tell each other that how much they suffer and they are incomplete without each other.

How much weird YHM has become! This is not the initial YHM even though CVs are trying hard to make it like so. "The Beauty and the beast" was never the concept of YHM, it was applied after Mani made his first grand entrance just after time slot change. What is the point of all these, if they deliberately make it look like that the ML doesn't deserve the FL and the FL is doing some kind of "ehsaan" by being with or pining for ML while she has better options available. We certainly didn't sign up for this type of cliche story telling.

I am thankful that the initial YHM was aired at 11 pm slot and we got to see a balanced love story where two broken souls had come together two complete each other. If it were aired at 7:30pm, we would have got that we're getting now-- the story of the beauty and the beast. Whether anyone agrees or not, YHM clicked because of its unique concept, had they applied this "beauty and beast" storytelling in the first place, it would have either gone off air in few months or become another SNS by now.

PS: My opinion isn't based on that particular scene but the entire context that is being shoved down our throat for last one year, specially post leap.

Originally posted by: charminggenie

Ignoring the other non-sensicle things that happened, Raman erred when he took the decisio of surrogency without Ishita's permission. For me the marriage was over then and there. Ishita became party to his mistake when she , so happily accepted his decision about her own body and parenting.

Raman crossed many lines when he called Ishita shitty names . I get her hurt and I would have appreciated if she would have moved out with her kids or atleast alone AFTER informing her parents. I would buy the suicide too as for her going into the shock but 7 years? The guilt be bigger than her own love for her parents, kids ? How did she survive without knowing how her new born baby be doing or her parents be okay. If Raman erred than Ishita screwed up as well.

At this point, i don't want an epic reunion. I want a mature talk, between a husband and wife , as individuals and as parents. I don't want either to brush off and move along the conflict without addressing and improving upon it.

Raman might be Punjabi and anger might be his trait but there are traces of misogyny which has time and time, reflected badly on their marriage and Ishita. Similarly, Ishita's guilt makes her irrational and sometimes she ends up harming people unintentionally . I actually want to know what she feels. is she angry at Raman for trampling over her self-respect and questioning her motherhood- only sensible thing that be there. Or, she has resigned to his words and actually believes in it- which is very disturbing.

Originally posted by: ankitasen

How much weird YHM has become! This is not the initial YHM even though CVs are trying hard to make it like so. "The Beauty and the beast" was never the concept of YHM, it was applied after Mani made his first grand entrance just after time slot change. What is the point of all these, if they deliberately make it look like that the ML doesn't deserve the FL and the FL is doing some kind of "ehsaan" by being with or pining for ML while she has better options available. We certainly didn't sign up for this type of cliche story telling.

I am thankful that the initial YHM was aired at 11 pm slot and we got to see a balanced love story where two broken souls had come together two complete each other. If it were aired at 7:30pm, we would have got that we're getting now-- the story of the beauty and the beast. Whether anyone agrees or not, YHM clicked because of its unique concept, had they applied this "beauty and beast" storytelling in the first place, it would have either gone off air in few months or become another SNS by now.

PS: My opinion isn't based on that particular scene but the entire context that is being shoved down our throat for last one year, specially post leap.

in dis case raman is main source r root cause n ishita also took part in it


aur do spa fav pat,patni,maa,fav sweep etc.. n cvs more well done karega 😆

Clearly, RKB loves his JKR a lot and we've paid testament to that thus CVs need to reinstate that! Otherwise, that'll give a botched up love tale of the 'Beauty & the Beast" and that clearly isn't what IshRa stand for cos the duo loves each other like crazy... One's the heart and other the heart beat. If CVs continue to show Ishita having a monologue on how HER Raman is happy without her and he's moved on in life then that'll clearly be a big problem cos in the fans minds' the picture of Ishu not believing in Raman's love will get fit ...

Is that what the CVs want ... Ishu doubting Raman's love for herself? Yes feeling guilty is another thing and negating Raman's love is a whole different thing ... how can Ishita forget everything that Raman has done for her (I'm not saying she has guys. I mean her thinking that he's happy and all that jazz; how does her conscience allow her to think all this??)

He shut Bala's mom's mouth during Appa-Amma's anniversary party
He protected her dignity from that leecher Param
He did so much for Amma when she met with an accident
He helped Bala on so many occasions
He offered Appa work in his office

He's been such a support to HER; he put his president ship on stake for her dental license (of course Ishu also got it back rightfully!!)
He got a necklace designed for her

He's done ALOT ... I think its high time CVs really DO justice to his emotions cos he deserves an emotional outburst ... Raman needs to let loose and not be blamed for everything that's gone wrong!

Also, why must Raman be accused alone? Ishita should have understood that Raman needed him the most! Remember when he heard of her suicide; a part of him died ... he broke yet lived on cos his kids needed him

Ok I agree he didn't tell Pihu of her biological mom and maternal family but with all the accusations being thrown at this man ... does anyone think he would have the capacity to deal with the questions Pihu would ask? He needed his wife... she left him ... all alone ... with a tiny Pihu ... the Iyers began a blame game ... Raman wanted to block out all his angst and thus he's cut cords (not that there's any difference in his love, respect and care for his Madrasan's family... if you remember he called Mrs Iyer Amma, and he had a rant on how Mihika was living with Romi without marriage ...)

Clearly, Raman wants to keep a guard on his inner emotions cos he doesn't wanna fall weak ... I think that Ishita, the Iyers and the Bhalla's need to realise Raman's importance ... why should he apologise?

I don't see a reason man!! It all began with Nidhi playing her dirty trick ... the discord stemmed from her existence in their lives. She's the root cause of all the chaos and mayhem

Rather than indulging in blame games and the apology business: CVs need IshRa to unite ASAP

They then need to reunite with Ruhi; rehabilitate their girl and rebuild their rapport ...

I don't want CVs to waste time on "you were alive; you didn't tell me ... fine then let's get married to someone else ... well I think that needs to be cut out cos if they decide to marry other people then really WHY would they wanna come together SIRF RUHI KE LIYE ... go on help Ruhi without being married ... if you want!!)

The bottom line is; don't indulge in MU, marriage and all that jazz; no point!! Cut to the chase ... let IshRa take their badhas out ... get angry but just scream out how much they love each other, be mature (that's to have a heart to heart; vent out all their feelings and realising that it's only us two who can anchor each other and get together to heal each other and their ROOH)

they need to get together ASAP and REDEVELOP a strong bond that which is about love, trust, respect, trust and communication

Thanks for bearing with me!!

Originally posted by: QueSeraSera

I keep reading one word on this forum like a million times - nepotism and often accusations fly at one woman only; though I fail to see how can she manevoeur things when she cannot even have a track dedicated to her in the show where she's supposed to be the damn lead herself...if there' nepotism in YHM land offscreen its clearly practiced by another individual only its called perks of being the BFF there 😳

When you don't wanna see, this can happen. 😊

Originally posted by: -MS-

When you don't wanna see, this can happen. 😊