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Posted: 9 years ago
#21
Here's one thing they can do:

They don't want Ishita apologising: fine!

At least, she can bear her heart out to him ...

She should let him know of her insecurities, fears ...

As for RKB apologising ... well ... I don't think an apology is appropriate. Personally, I don't tend to apologise for my goof ups ... words once taken out; can't return so what's the point

They should have a face off: shout, scream, yell, fight it out, do whatever they want but just bear their hearts out ...

If they take this end ... the whole separation shouldn't have been in the picture in the first place ... cos this apologising business could've been done without such a long gap

If they're giving a build-up... they need to explore the individual feelings/emotions of IshRa ...

If they show the feelings of both that'll give clarity ...

We need to see their PoV's

Ishita should be JKR ... The feisty girl who doesn't behave like a doormat

RKB should be Ravan Kumar aka Naariyal Kumar who's tough from the exterior and soft and mushy from the inside

I believe IshRa need a new start and not just pick up from what they left behind

It's not about apologies and being super bahu ... it's about a relationship and it's credentials. CVs need to rebuild IshRa
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Posted: 9 years ago
#22

Originally posted by: QueSeraSera

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Whoa wait up</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">First of all this was a hypothetical situation they discussed, so let's not jump to conclusions here and here they talked about a mistake - not about a heartbreaking situation, that was a talk in happier times, when the couple never even imagined something like Ruhi dying could happen, that a tragedy might strike their lives - it was a hypothetical talk, like we keep fighting and what if someday we fight so much that there's a walkout here?</font>


<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">This wasn't a fight that happened - this was so much more and bigger - and the scene has to play out in this context here, where Raman extending lilies wouldn't just mean he is sorry, but it would be construed as in he still loves her, he still cares for her, the one thing that is keeping her away is the guilt of accusations and the hatred that she thinks is now filled in his heart for her...</font>


<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Remember the hut scene in the Shanaya track, she says I died the moment you saw me with so much hate and anger in your eyes...here it is much the same only in a very bigger scenario.</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Here Ishita has to know Raman still loves her and is a mess without her, it need not be a begging on his knees scene, only a scene where he says that I still love you, despite it all, I love you...</font>

<font face="Georgia, Times New Roman, Times, serif">Lilies are symbolic for that.</font>



You hit the nail on the head!
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Posted: 9 years ago
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if ishita could marry someone whom she hated only for ruhi's happiness then why can't she bear the hate of her own husband for sometime(obviously raman can't hate her for a long time) who loves her crazily, for her own daughter and parents who needed her more than anyone
but she just left raman alone to deal with all the mess
she could have informed him about herself and mani's condition
raman would have helped her
but somewhere deep inside she was afraid of his hate
she didn't want to face him.
so simply she ran away from everything ๐Ÿ˜”
how can she think that raman would be happy without her ??
raman's only fault was his outburst
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Originally posted by: QueSeraSera

Whoa wait up

First of all this was a hypothetical situation they discussed, so let's not jump to conclusions here and here they talked about a mistake - not about a heartbreaking situation, that was a talk in happier times, when the couple never even imagined something like Ruhi dying could happen, that a tragedy might strike their lives - it was a hypothetical talk, like we keep fighting and what if someday we fight so much that there's a walkout here?


This wasn't a fight that happened - this was so much more and bigger - and the scene has to play out in this context here, where Raman extending lilies wouldn't just mean he is sorry, but it would be construed as in he still loves her, he still cares for her, the one thing that is keeping her away is the guilt of accusations and the hatred that she thinks is now filled in his heart for her...


Remember the hut scene in the Shanaya track, she says I died the moment you saw me with so much hate and anger in your eyes...here it is much the same only in a very bigger scenario.

Here Ishita has to know Raman still loves her and is a mess without her, it need not be a begging on his knees scene, only a scene where he says that I still love you, despite it all, I love you...

Lilies are symbolic for that.



lilies r jst a symbol dat watevr u do if u love me frm heart dn im urs n vl b wid u always..
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bt reaching to any conclusions based on ds cute light hearted scene is bizaaree.
though cvs r more bizaare bt dey wont finish al ds..
dere is along way..
before any sorry a lot of drama accusations r on d way...
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Posted: 9 years ago
#25
I want apology and heart to headt talk from both sides.
I want raman to ask her that why she left him and They should tell each other that how much they suffer and they are incomplete without each other.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Ignoring the other non-sensicle things that happened, Raman erred when he took the decisio of surrogency without Ishita's permission. For me the marriage was over then and there. Ishita became party to his mistake when she , so happily accepted his decision about her own body and parenting.
Raman crossed many lines when he called Ishita shitty names . I get her hurt and I would have appreciated if she would have moved out with her kids or atleast alone AFTER informing her parents. I would buy the suicide too as for her going into the shock but 7 years? The guilt be bigger than her own love for her parents, kids ? How did she survive without knowing how her new born baby be doing or her parents be okay. If Raman erred than Ishita screwed up as well.

At this point, i don't want an epic reunion. I want a mature talk, between a husband and wife , as individuals and as parents. I don't want either to brush off and move along the conflict without addressing and improving upon it.

Raman might be Punjabi and anger might be his trait but there are traces of misogyny which has time and time, reflected badly on their marriage and Ishita. Similarly, Ishita's guilt makes her irrational and sometimes she ends up harming people unintentionally . I actually want to know what she feels. is she angry at Raman for trampling over her self-respect and questioning her motherhood- only sensible thing that be there. Or, she has resigned to his words and actually believes in it- which is very disturbing.
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Posted: 9 years ago
#27

Originally posted by: swatica




lilies r jst a symbol dat watevr u do if u love me frm heart dn im urs n vl b wid u always..
๐Ÿ˜ณ
bt reaching to any conclusions based on ds cute light hearted scene is bizaaree.
though cvs r more bizaare bt dey wont finish al ds..
dere is along way..
before any sorry a lot of drama accusations r on d way...

true dear after face off tissue paper apne sath rakhna padhega
Emotional confronatation
Accusations
Mu
Heartbreak
Pain
Ruhi's truth
Ruhis pain
Ruhi s ignorance
Parents pain
Families pain
๐Ÿ˜ญ
Tight ur seat belt for emotional bumpy ride
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Posted: 9 years ago
#28
Just by one epi we can't go to conclusion..cvs brains r unpredictable one day they suprise us by giving gud ones another day by extremely bad ones they r not consistent ..I agree the extremely built up gud drama are ended in funny note...
As we all know both ishra are at fault both r to be blamed but we can't deny tht raman's poisonous words was one of the biggest reason for this entire mess ...in others point of view he was at more fault..it's not tht ishita was not blamed more than others she is blaming herself for ruhi's death ..it's not tht she is staying away frm him becoz she hates Raman nor accusing him for every thing ..she know she Was at fault and tht guilt not letting her to go back to Raman ..we can get the complete scenario once ishra face off happens ..
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Posted: 9 years ago
#29

Originally posted by: sweet.Aman

apologise nai whilte lillies dega aur kehega madrasaan tumne hi kaha tha agar mein koi big mistake karon toh white lilly se maan jaogi
Dekho mwin white lillies le ayya

N madrasaan han raman mujhe yaad hai
Pehle kyn nai diyye white lillies
N madrasaan bhaag k raman ki bahoon mein a jayegi( like DDLJ SCENE )
Happy ending
ANd xena n macchar ko na raman mila naa lillies

Imagine this scene dear ๐Ÿ˜† ๐Ÿคฃ


now i understand white lilies dekhar mani macchar itna kyun dar gaya.
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Posted: 9 years ago
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Both are equally responsible...they did not think about their kids even for one moment ...they should suffer more than kids...and the fact that ishita accepting shagun in raman's life is so irritating pathetic and cheap.I did not like that bit...tum khush ho mere bina...i left you ...you are happy...writers dont keep in mind the characters...how can he be happy without her...ishitas thought I am not getting...she knows he loved her so so much and the kids ke liye factor was vanished long back...still aisa dikha rahe hai...I mean i am not able to connect or understand because of these dialogues.

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