Originally posted by: DivianTanz_Divz
Don't know where to say this or this post is apt for saying this or not.
But, I see many people always saying that to make Ishita right or not to make her wrong,, Raman is made wrong, or to glorify Ishita CVs made Raman wrong. But, I don't see such dialogues when Ishita does a mistake. They just keep bashing her. Where, the same logic can apply to Ishita doing mistakes.. "To make Raman right or not to make him wrong, Ishita is made wrong."
Why is it!!! Really, if a woman does a mistake, she is like a sinner, if a woman doesn't make mistake, she is a devi .. she is always at extreme positions in people's view.. Well, this is true in real life also in some cases.
I would just like to say this - not everyone who is claiming that the CVs morphed Raman for drama puts Ishita out to dry when she makes a mistake. In fact I personally like her even more when she makes mistakes because she is relatable & human like during the Adi spying track.
Unfortunately everyone views the show through different lenses & different characters come under due or undue scrutiny. And similarly different characters are able to be defended/scrutinized in similar patterns always. The issue is the discrepancy in magnitude of the mistakes done by the leads, and it's hard to deny that there is a discrepancy in this in my POV.
I try to stay balanced, but this sudden surrogacy route from Raman does sting a little & seem unnatural.
With the time slot change, the reality is every character is morphed for drama - Raman into an idiot, Ishita into an almost super bahu, Shagun into black then white, Ruhi into a pushy kid, Rinki into a needy woman, Mrs. Bhalla into a regressive woman, etc, and the reality is that this will continue to deteriorate.
The method of storytelling always makes it Raman vs Ishita when they introduce high stakes tracks, but it sucks because we haven't even had a Ishita-Raman track. Now they are showing romance but with this undercurrent, which takes away from any enjoyment.
This time the blame doesn't fall on any characters for me but falls on the CVs poor method of storytelling. They rushed the pregnancy & they rushed the post-miscarriage scenes to get to here. It's an insult to the couple that lost a kid, it's an insult to the characters, it's an insult to viewers, & most importantly, it's an insult to real people with these issues.
No longer is YHM intentional or meaningful. It is merely a TV show that disregards the issues for drama. It may be more realistic & less obnoxious than other shows on air, but it is not better by too much. For many this is a reality we always compromise with when viewing.
Edited by -K.13- - 10 years ago
