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Posted: 10 years ago
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Did sr.bhalla wrote will on ruhi????
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -Anku-


Yes but what is so different from the scenario back then. Raman wasn't making a decision for the company then, he was talking in a raised tone with the daughter of the house back then too. And even with Rinki in the current situation. And in both the scenes his intention was concern. Moreover similarly in both the scenes Rinki and Simmi were misbehaving as well.

If you remember around the episode I just linked, Raman even pinned a nameplate outside the house that read Dr Ishita Raman Bhalla, right below Senior Bhalla's name. Why no offence then? Why now?


@green... I think the answer is there in ur question itself...Ishita's nameplate was below Bhallaji's nameplate, that too outside the house owned by him...Here, Raman named his company to Ishita and the very next day he saying that he is the one who looks after the expenses of this house, so his sibling should leave will definitely not sound good to a father, that too when he only heard that part of the convo...I think Raman can be easily MU...My problem with Bhallaji's attitude is he was not thinking seriously of what Rinky said that made Raman say this , though impulsively...and ignoring n insulting him totally when he was ready to apologise...anyway it's just my POV...
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Posted: 10 years ago
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If I am not mistaken, didn't Mr. Bhalla transfer the old flat at Aakash Ganga society in the name of Ruhi ?
As a father I would have expected Mr. Bhalla to at least go to the bottom of the issue n find out why Raman uttered those words to Rinki. He should have questioned Rinki too on why she was spewing venom at IshRa. He is the patriarch, rather than just standing mute, he should have shut Rinki up.

Just my pov.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Because previously in both cases Mr Bhalla was present there and heard the full conversation to evaluate who's on the right side unlike last time. Plus his own insecurity regarding his son must have popped up too.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Anku - 👏

Raman does say things impulsively, but now everyone is being driven by insecurity and not able to fully understand him.

In all this, only Rinki went overboard. Raman was MUed first & the rest of the MU were of Ishita only because people struggled to communicate out of pride, insecurity, & impulsivity. Most of the characters tried to see the opposite side but their fears were too overpowering.

Mr. Bhalla may have seen this as a rehash of his & Raman's fight from the Shagun era, but the same thing applies to Raman. Before only Mr. Bhalla really boycotted him, but here he feels the entire family is starting to slip away. So his grasping onto the one voice of reason in all of this - his wife. Raman was momentarily disrespectful to his father but he was already riled up. While Ishita tries to convince him, she never forces her decision on him during this track from my understanding.

What is being shown is realistic with most of the characters acting independently out of deep seated emotions, and isn't that what YHM has been about?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: malaxmi

He has even said Ishita a number of times that it is his house. He has even asked her to get out of the house. But none of the Bhallas reacted that time. I am a huge fan of RKB and I am justifying his act and not blaming him.


Yes he has. It's never intentional. His tongue does more work than his brains when he's angry that's all. And I know in the same way even Mr Bhalla can be justified that he was angry and misunderstood. But my question has only been that he knows his son better now. He knows Ishita isn't Shagun, so why not give him a chance to explain at least later?

And of course, you don't have to explain whose fan you are. Every opinion is important 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: mreshma


@green... I think the answer is there in ur question itself...Ishita's nameplate was below Bhallaji's nameplate, that too outside the house owned by him...Here, Raman named his company to Ishita and the very next day he saying that he is the one who looks after the expenses of this house, so his sibling should leave will definitely not sound good to a father, that too when he only heard that part of the convo...I think Raman can be easily MU...My problem with Bhallaji's attitude is he was not thinking seriously of what Rinky said that made Raman say this , though impulsively...and ignoring n insulting him totally when he was ready to apologise...anyway it's just my POV...


Yes, I understand. That he heard only part of a conversation. But when the man knows that Raman has uttered this a number of times in some context or the other. He should know if he's said it now, it means that there must be a reason. Why not give the man a chance to explain?

I totally respect your POV. I am a believer in respecting parents, and giving them the most priority. And even if Mr Bhalla was wrong, if Raman is the one who eventually apologizes, it'll be the best. BUT that does not mean that the parent was never wrong. They're human and they can be at fault. My only issue with Mr Bhalla is, how he followed up post the argument, by dividing the food, by insulting Raman in front of an outsider and not letting him even apologize. I think he took the matter to another level.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: beckysharp

If I am not mistaken, didn't Mr. Bhalla transfer the old flat at Aakash Ganga society in the name of Ruhi ?

As a father I would have expected Mr. Bhalla to at least go to the bottom of the issue n find out why Raman uttered those words to Rinki. He should have questioned Rinki too on why she was spewing venom at IshRa. He is the patriarch, rather than just standing mute, he should have shut Rinki up.

Just my pov.


Exactly. He sees Rinki is getting bitter for Raman. He only heard part of the conversation. Instead of taking it all on himself and dragging the matter, as an elderly he should have heard Raman or Ishita out. And it's fine if he didn't. He is human. But after sleeping over it, on another day he took the matter to another level itself. He divided the food, insulted Raman in front of an outsider. Raman hadn't committed a crime had he?
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -MS-

Because previously in both cases Mr Bhalla was present there and heard the full conversation to evaluate who's on the right side unlike last time. Plus his own insecurity regarding his son must have popped up too.


Fair enough :) But what stops him from going back to understand what lead to the fight? Why rely on only one side of the conversation. Plus the past is different from the current situation. Ishita isn't Shagun and even Raman isn't the same naive fellow he was when married to Shagun. He's grown and how.
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Posted: 10 years ago
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Originally posted by: -K.13-

Anku - 👏

Raman does say things impulsively, but now everyone is being driven by insecurity and not able to fully understand him.

In all this, only Rinki went overboard. Raman was MUed first & the rest of the MU were of Ishita only because people struggled to communicate out of pride, insecurity, & impulsivity. Most of the characters tried to see the opposite side but their fears were too overpowering.

Mr. Bhalla may have seen this as a rehash of his & Raman's fight from the Shagun era, but the same thing applies to Raman. Before only Mr. Bhalla really boycotted him, but here he feels the entire family is starting to slip away. So his grasping onto the one voice of reason in all of this - his wife. Raman was momentarily disrespectful to his father but he was already riled up. While Ishita tries to convince him, she never forces her decision on him during this track from my understanding.

What is being shown is realistic with most of the characters acting independently out of deep seated emotions, and isn't that what YHM has been about?


I agree, Raman was partly wrong that day. He should have let his dad speak what he had to, and then voiced his side of the story. But nonetheless he didn't mean anything the way it was taken. My only issue with Mr Bhalla's reaction is. That times have now changed. Neither is Ishita Shagun NOR is Raman the man he was when he was married to the latter. Mr Bhalla can't have such little trust on Raman. He should know how much Raman loves and adores his family.

Like Raman was angry, he had rights to be as well. But like Raman woke up the next day determined to resolve issues. Why did Mr Bhalla take issues to another level with his actions?

And totally. This is like the old YHM we knew. Realism at its best. 😊 *touchwood*
And agree again. Apart from Rinki the other misunderstandings are more believable. Insecurities and inferiority complex is leading everyone to doubt and question.

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