IshRa: A couple which should not have happened in the first plac-DTNT8

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pomegranate

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Posted: 10 years ago

#41

Originally posted by: Dmug
Ok forgot to mention in my earlier post but as far as having sex in concerned in reality in India to be precise most of the marriages are arrange marriages where bride and groom hardly meet each other before marriage forget about loving each other but they end up having sex on the first night itself do u think its out of love for each other absolutely not its mere physical attraction for each other love comes much later and sadly its all done with an objective of baby making and very rarely out of love for each other its a harsh reality of indian marriage system so if they are approaching it as baby making process then its very much real and fits into the definition of a so called "perfect couple"

Please give the indian arranged marriage system some credit, it isn't as backward as you make it out to me. perhaps back in the day bride and groom hardly met eachother, but in urban india, they do meet and get to know eachother before tying the knot. it's not the archaic ages anymore.

As for sex, it happens out of physical attraction not baby making. nowadays, newlyweds wait before thinking of kids.

Ishra has been married for 1.5 years and they are in love, yet they want to have sex for a baby. that makes no sense. Couples who are married for that long and love eachother, would have sex for love and attraction.

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Dmug

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Posted: 10 years ago

#42

Originally posted by: pomegranate

Please give the indian arranged marriage system some credit, it isn't as backward as you make it out to me. perhaps back in the day bride and groom hardly met eachother, but in urban india, they do meet and get to know eachother before tying the knot. it's not the archaic ages anymore.

As for sex, it happens out of physical attraction not baby making. nowadays, newlyweds wait before thinking of kids.

Ishra has been married for 1.5 years and they are in love, yet they want to have sex for a baby. that makes no sense. Couples who are married for that long and love eachother, would have sex for love and attraction.

C i dont want to sound regressive but in today's world also in arrange marriages people meet hardly twice or thrice before agreeing to marry each other do you think its enough to take such an important decision of your life but still we go ahead and do it and offcourse there is no love there it may be a liking for that person but love comes later and yes in today's world people do family planning but still there are some who deliver babies in the first year of marriage itself i know many such couples!! I was just trying to say its not always out of love!! And i believe in our marriage system i myself am going through the phase where i m searching a groom for myself through this very system but certain things are true which cant be ignored!!

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beckysharp

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Posted: 10 years ago

#43

Haaa haaa! I am amused !

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1019702

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Posted: 10 years ago

#44

Its Funny how none of the Members have Defended IshRa on the Points stated by the TM , all they have did is :

1) Asked her to use Remote Control

2) Called names by asking to go to Mental Asyylum

3) Take digs at her Favs

4) Asking how other couple's are better than IshRa

5) Reply in Sarcy Gifs...

But None have actually written anything supporting IshRa.

This is like to show a Line Bigger , draw a Smaller Line in front of it... 😉

To Defend your Fav , bring down Others...😆

Edited by RollingStones - 10 years ago

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1019702

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Posted: 10 years ago

#45

Originally posted by: pomegranate
i don't know about real couple but they are definitely not a healthy couple.

In Reality No wife gives a Khandani Earings gifted by Husband to anyone let alone to her Husband's.

Ex . She never Humiliates her Husband in front of her Friend atleast out of Respect for the Relationship . Husband even if in rage hurl's accusation to his Wife , He learns from it and try best not to Repeat It .

They are definitely bad Influence on each other . One was lost the Self-Respect and other have JUST lost his Basic Core Personality.

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Raveena

@Loveforlife

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Posted: 10 years ago

#46

Very good post by TM and valid points!👏

Log agar fangiri ki patti utar ke dekhe toh what they are showing in the serial is nonsense! Bas!

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Alu-

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Posted: 10 years ago

#47

Originally posted by: RollingStones

In Reality No wife gives a Khandani Earings gifted by Husband to anyone let alone to her Husband's.
Ex . She never Humiliates her Husband in front of her Friend atleast out of Respect for the Relationship . Husband even if in rage hurl's accusation to his Wife , He learns from it and try best not to Repeat It .

They are definitely bad Influence on each other . One was lost the Self-Respect and other have JUST lost his Basic Core Personality.

Well then in that case no couple on Indian TV is a real couple? Accepted 😛

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smritishah

@smritishah

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Posted: 10 years ago

#48

It's so funny that some people could not even argue on the points that the TM raised. Rather they bring ShaRam (!!) to compare IshRa ...😲😲😲😲
If ShaRam is the standard for them for comparison, then the whole debate is pointless.

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mreshma

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Posted: 10 years ago

#49

Disclaimer : Do not consider this essay of mine as a lecture session on relationships for u nor am I trying to force my points on u...just my POV...😊

I would just like to know what exactly does a 'perfect couple' means to u, be it reel or real?

For me, a couple should definitely have love, understanding, respect n of course tolerance for each other but they should also be self -esteemed equal partners in that relation n have an individuality too...It is a fact that we have couples who lived or r living their life together successfully n there r is another set of umpteen number of couples who part ways n end up in divorce...N the saddest part is nowadays the no. of couples getting separated within a few months of marriage is a common menace...

What do u feel will be the reason behind successful marriages? Do u really think that such couples never fight with each other or do not have any differences of opinions in their entire married life? My point is, it is very common that partners end up in terribly nasty fights due to differences of opinion at a moment when their individuality gradates to ego...but but but if they r a couple who has sincere love for each other, the moment their anger subsides, their love will become a notch higher than their self-regard n they will reconcile happily...And in the case of couples whose self-esteem is a notch higher than love for the partner, will find it difficult to be back together...But no, I am not generalizing anything becoz there r also some couples who make adjustments for the sake of kids...

Coming to IshRa, as u said in their 1.5yrs of marriage, they had very bad fights, faced some very tough situations... and if they r still together even after all these then I think it is only becoz they love, care for n understand each other...N that for me makes them 'an imperfectly perfect couple'...And I doubt if there will be any 100% perfect couple...And yes, as per the current scenario they have made it look like IshRa may consummate for a baby on Ruhi's insistence(which I am also unhappy with), but that somehow does not make me doubt their love n desire for each other becoz there r no. of instances that prove it...

Edited by mreshma - 10 years ago