IshRa: A couple which should not have happened in the first plac-DTNT8 - Page 4

Created

Last reply

Replies

59

Views

8.4k

Users

29

Likes

327

Frequent Posters

silvermoonlight thumbnail
18th Anniversary Thumbnail Visit Streak 180 Thumbnail + 5
Posted: 10 years ago
#31
I agree with the OP in some ways

The show has been butchered by the CV...Ekta seriously ...no words...

Couples do fight..and in some respect its healthy...however the way Ishita and Raman fight is not healthy

Firstly, they never tell each other the whole story...they always keep things from each other until things blow up and are beyond control...Trust is the foundation of any relationship and its kind of lacking here

They been married for over a year and no consummation? WTH CV? Are these people trying to win the most "chaste" couple of the year award??? Personally I feel like the CV are scared of this scene and dont know how to approach it. The over the top scene in BALH between Ram and Priya was too hot too handle by some and rendered complaints

They let a 7 or 8 year old kid dictate their marriage at times...Shouldnt Ruhi be playing with toys or playing sony playstation like normal kids?? Instead she is telling her mom to make a baby and a doctor can help her with that?? What is the rush in maturing up this little girl?

And for shits sake, stop telling people to change the channel just cause they do not share the same opinion

I can easily say..stay out of this damn topic and go create IshRA FF or whatever people do here.

We are here to discuss our opinions and viewpoints to make the show stronger...even though the CV will never listen to its audience and Ekta will keep giving the show the royal screw


OnePiece thumbnail
15th Anniversary Thumbnail Voyager Thumbnail Fascinator 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 10 years ago
#32

Originally posted by: Phoenix-


I can name a few. Mohan-Mehgha from NBT, Manik-Nandini/MaNan from KY2.


Sorry for butting in, did you say Mohan and Megha? Before I start my argument, let me say that I love Mohan-Megha to the core and I miss the show to-date.

So Mohan-Megha are a couple and IshRa are not, is it? Was their journey a honkey dory one? Didn't their love life have problems? Didn't their marriage see highs and lows as every other couple? Heck, they were together only for 2 years and were away from each other for 10-12 years. We haven't really seen their married life and the journey together. And we all know they had so many problems in that 2 years too. Didn't Megha insult Mohan n number of times? Mohan married another girl and lied to Megha and remarried her again without clearing this first. Isn't that wrong?

The reason for their separation is an MU. Knowing Megha and her family situation, Mohan should have understood that her life without him would be nothing less than hell. Even then he left her and went away. Did he try to check on her at least once in those 12 years? Sending money is not the solution. Knowing her attitude, he would know that she wouldn't accept that.

And Megha. She loved Mohan. Did she trust him? No. She hated him for 12 long years and would have continued to blame him if the MU wasn't cleared after that. Did she try to reason once that Mohan couldn't have done such a thing? Never! She was a mother more at that time than a wife. If Megha is right in leaving Mohan coz of her son, then why can't Ishita listen to Ruhi? People go on harping about how Ishita isn't a wife but a mother. If Ishita was wrong, then Megha was wrong too.

If Mohan is right, then Raman is right too. In fact, we cannot have a direct comparison, as their situations, their family backgrounds, their surroundings are totally different. As much as I like Mohan-Megha, I cannot agree to the fact they left each other when they needed one another the most. I appreciate IshRa in that matter. They are trying to stay together and fight the battles together. Well, I am not here to give a recap of NBT. So, if you consider MM as a couple, then IshRa are no less. I base my argument as a person who have watched both the shows so as to not let people believe that I am biased towards one.

Dmug thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail
Posted: 10 years ago
#33
Ok firstly Ishra is not a real couple!! Its all fictional and in fiction sometimes couple's are not shown sharing everything with each other as they do not want to hurt each other which in my opinion is pathetic but those misunderstandings are the ones which bring trp's for PH but still in Ishra's case the MU was never stretched to an extent of breaking them apart and we always got closure except for Mani's case and i guess thats very real!! As in reality we can not keep on hiding things from our partner till eternity and certainly not to the point where it breaks!! Giving up gifts is concerned we wouldnt do that in any case so no arguments there!!
As far as their fights are concerned they both have very high tolerance level for each other they let it go and move on without holding grudges with each other for the love they have for each other and that to me is very real and they are just 1.5 years into the marriage and ishita has seen worst of raman than this so she doesn't take his dafa ho jao to her heart as she knows he does not actually mean it may be some years into the marriage if this thing continues then their patience level with each other can go down and the same things which now they are letting go would start bugging them as a couple but currently they are trying to coexist and adjusting to each other as in love couple but their relationship will gradually progress to being "perfect couple" as you term and no one is perfect in real life everybody learns from their mistake so will ishra!!
Nichuss thumbnail
Posted: 10 years ago
#34
u said wt im feeling on ishra
even aftr 1yr tey dont knw eahother...
Tey r nt couples...
Tey r just parnters to tc f kids...

Ruhi involvement n ishita response was th worst thing tat happened... Espcly instead f reasoning she was encouraged


cheee
-HoneyDukes- thumbnail
11th Anniversary Thumbnail Stunner Thumbnail + 2
Posted: 10 years ago
#35
The other thing i read..
IshRa being compared to Manan..WOW! 😆
From the little knowledge I have, they are typical in love teenage couple.

Doesn't the point just go moot there.?
IshRa are people with a past, heartbreak.. finding love again.. with kids and family..
So if it comes down to getting cozy like every 10 mins or 15 mins, then there is nothing much to talk about.

Let IshRa do it, and they become the best again..😆

Just trying to be logical.. 😳
pomegranate thumbnail
18th Anniversary Thumbnail Sparkler Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 10 years ago
#36
i don't know about real couple but they are definitely not a healthy couple.
Divan.Pooja thumbnail
13th Anniversary Thumbnail Rocker Thumbnail Networker 1 Thumbnail
Posted: 10 years ago
#37
Off of Anu post
An young couple vs a couple with kids... Wonderful. What a comparison. Pls compare apples to apples.
Dmug thumbnail
10th Anniversary Thumbnail Navigator Thumbnail
Posted: 10 years ago
#38
Ok forgot to mention in my earlier post but as far as having sex in concerned in reality in India to be precise most of the marriages are arrange marriages where bride and groom hardly meet each other before marriage forget about loving each other but they end up having sex on the first night itself do u think its out of love for each other absolutely not its mere physical attraction for each other love comes much later and sadly its all done with an objective of baby making and very rarely out of love for each other its a harsh reality of indian marriage system so if they are approaching it as baby making process then its very much real and fits into the definition of a so called "perfect couple"
sidivyapall thumbnail
18th Anniversary Thumbnail Dazzler Thumbnail
Posted: 10 years ago
#39

Originally posted by: Anu_IshraDivan

No no..
They will watch it minute by minute, analyze it and take the effort of going to this extent in finding faults.. And then say..over them.. worst couple.. 😛
Ever seen a appreciation post when good things happen.? Nada..😆😆

Its our choice which sucks..😛😛 #Toobad..😛


@bold: funny you mentioned that, Anu... apparently, when it comes to spreading negativity, there's no bar. However, when one deliberately chooses to ignore that very negativity and plead the fifth, if you will, they're supposedly showing bias and are inherently wrong.

Should anyone find my comment offensive, you know where the report button is so kindly use it and refrain from replying to my comment here.
Alu- thumbnail
17th Anniversary Thumbnail Stunner Thumbnail + 3
Posted: 10 years ago
#40
Now that I got information on Mohan and Megha, I can comment. So basically your example of a perfect couple is someone who stayed away from each other for 10-12 years, you call that love😳. So basically they misunderstood each other and separated and that is considered a perfect couple??
Lets be honest but staying away and separating for so long is not considered perfect, infact in reality that would be considered insane😳
Edited by Alu- - 10 years ago

Related Topics

Ye Hai Mohabbatein Thumbnail

Posted by: Devanshi14

4 months ago

FF: IshRa ISHQ !!

Chapter # 01 Title: “Pehli Baar Ishq Hua” Raman and Ishita had been married for months now—contractually, yes—but slowly, silently, love had...

Expand ▼
Ye Hai Mohabbatein Thumbnail

Posted by: Im_sherlock

4 months ago

ISHRA OS:- Tumhare bina main adhoora hoon.

It was one of those rare calm nights in Delhi, the kind that carried a soft breeze, the scent of blooming mogra, and a strange kind of silence...

Expand ▼
Ye Hai Mohabbatein Thumbnail

Posted by: Im_sherlock

4 months ago

IshRa OS: Unspoken Desires.

On the show, we all know how Raman tried to give hints to Ishita about his feelings and desires, by keeping a box of condoms in her drawer. An...

Expand ▼
Ye Hai Mohabbatein Thumbnail

Posted by: ChanChanMan

4 years ago

YHM DT #8 (Strictly Reserved for IshRa/DivAn)

I dare you to post a thing about anyone other than DivAn.

Expand ▼
Ye Hai Mohabbatein Thumbnail

Posted by: Manan_Pani_fan

7 months ago

Karan Patel and Divyanka Tripathi BOTH NOT part of Sony TV show

Exclusive:; Harshad Chopda and Shivangi Joshi likely to play leads The Sony TV show produced by Balaji Telefilms has seen major developments...

Expand ▼
Top

Stay Connected with IndiaForums!

Be the first to know about the latest news, updates, and exclusive content.

Add to Home Screen!

Install this web app on your iPhone for the best experience. It's easy, just tap and then "Add to Home Screen".