It's Between The Devil And The Deep Blue Sea For Ishita - Page 5

Originally posted by: Wings-of-Fire

Thank you for this amazing post Aani. Parenting is the toughest job in the world yet there's no proper guidebook or training available. Parents learn to deal with their kid with time and from experience. Besides the points you have risen, I think this fact also contributed to Ishita's actions. She's only been a parent for about a year and half that too of a really sweet baby with whom she has a strong connection. But suddenly she's the mom of a teen with troublesome past. That has to terrify her. She doesn't know this kid enough to know where he's coming from or what his limits are. Raman on the other hand can chill because he did raise him for six years and although he didn't get to act the part of a parent for a long time, he still was one. Although that experience doesn't necessarily make him a better parent, but it surely helps in coping with the fears that come with raising a teen.

Originally posted by: -Gan-

Wonderful post Aani 👏 you've explained the situation at hand, especially about both Ishita and Raman and the reason for their conflicting parenting style very well. I am glad the girls encouraged you to post this outside of the LU thread.. The forum truly needs more mature Posts like these where there is a balance with objectivity in the analysis..

Loved it! 😳

Originally posted by: cloudy24

awesome write up👏

Originally posted by: abhilasha_dream

After Mr. Jhakkar revealed the fake phone truth to Bhalla's, Raman held Ishita back from talking to Adi. He did express his POV to Ishita clearly. When Ishita questioned about why did he stop her from talking to Adi, Raman had answered - " his son has come back to him after a long time and he did not want to lose him again. Secondly, this is the age where u cannot restrict him as a child. Give him space and he himself (I.e. Raman) will handle it. "

Raman did go and talk to his son, after which Adi did come and apologise to Ishita. When Vinnie came to the house, Raman had disclosed to Ishita that he was aware of Vinnie's arrival, which meant that Adi was on the right path as he was sharing things with his father.

When Ishita came back from SPA all of a sudden, and refused to go back, at that time also Raman had told her to relax and give kids some space as well as trust them and him, but Ishita escaped from there.

I think the above instances are proof enough for any person that Raman had a tab on his son and he will not allow him to wander away. Secondly, he had put forth his POV in front of Ishita several times which she decided to turn a deaf ear to. It was lack of trust of Ishita in Raman's parenting which led her to take such drastic steps.

So in the Precap, if Raman accuses her then this time Ishita had brought it upon herself as though there was constant telling by Raman to stop being so over-protective and leave things to him, Ishita doesn't give in to his heeds and finally does things which blows Raman's fuse.