Thank you so much Aani for posting it separately...
even thou it seems from the OLVs they r going to turn it into another comic scene...however i will wait till i comment abt that...coz at times how the scene plays out is very very different...
About your post...loved it totally...ans so true... either way she is going to be penalized...thou watever the reason that comment by her husband is not acceptable...however again i will wait till i comment about it...so my comments will be based on the episodes aired till now...
Parenting a teenager is so difficult and when the parents are also new to parenting it becomes even more so...both Raman and Ishita is going wrong here and not understanding each other's POV...
Raman...
He clearly is taking a cool dad route..which is all fine.. but his attitude comes from "itne din baad mera beta wapis aaya hain.." which he said when ishtia challenged him to speak to Adi about the phone call...That is bound to happen..its like..i finally got my son..let him enjoy...i will not tell him hate me again fr disciplining him...
I was totally with Raman when he was cool about his going to the party... coz afterall its just kids party... but however when police came to drop him off.. he shud have just had a word with him... not to scold..but just a word.. but he was busy escaping from ishita...
then came the next point... Lying to you frnds mom about the party is a serious issue.. Raman went to talk at ishita's insistence...but before that he was all cool...hid it from Vinni's dad that he is at home... this is a small issue.. but hiding ur son's mistakes can result in serious issues.. which Raman shud be aware of.. so I was surprised that raman was acting all cool...
not a word of caution.. saying " beta, i understand ishima is overreacting may be... but you shudnt have lied...what image of ur family are you representing in front of others... that they encourage you to lie? next time..please share your problem.. i will ask your frnd's mom to let her go..."...
When Adi requested him to hide abt vinni and her visit to bhalla house...a parent shud say...i will try to convince ishima...and not hoodwink her...coz indirectly you r suggesting its okay to lie and hide stuff from ur mom if she doesnt like something...
Ishita
I think the whole concept of becoming a parent of a teenager boy is a lil overwhelming for Her..handling ruhi is easy...coz all u need is maternal instinct... but not when you r handling a teenager..that needs evolution of a mother too...
n it does seem like she is gettign a lil influenced by her mother's overinterfering attitude...
afterall we do learn from our parents...so she is not realising it, but she is becoming a lil over critical...and I found it so natural... tht ishita is afterall a human...who is bound to make mistakes too...
but is she totally at fault for being paranoid??..the fact tht the police did come to drop him off is bound to make her scared...even thou he is nt at fault... and the fact that raman is being too casual is further making her more paranoid...
its not about punishing Adi for his past, but you do need to be cautious fr someone who did show a psychological disorder not too long back...
I think I have mentioned ealrier in one of my posts..i knew a guy..single child of his parents who were trying fr a long time... highly pampered... got everything he wanted... once they refused to give him a motor bike, he tried to commit suicide...he was saved... he apologised and said he will never do it.. but then again one fine day for some trivial fight or something.. he jumped in front of a train n killed himself...
but then again..am i saying ishita is right at installing cctv..ofcourse she isnt... even if she is scared... what they both need is to tone down and understand each other.. I m sure they will eventually... n meanwhile...
.i do understand when u r angry u say things...heck i know... coz i m female version of RKB (wrt Temper) to my hubby's male version of Ishita...(🤣) but there r few things you just dont say...
PS: dont knw how much coherent my ramblings are...but here it is...😃
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