Software Symphonies 20 Color my shadow on 100 - Page 89

Originally posted by: TanjoreGirl

II said sorry na
she comes home at 11 and expects food to be made for herself and her boyfriend .. and gets home food from Sams ..
Manny is ok with roti daal and roti roti subji made for her she is close to 30 years herself..
Isnt there a better way to convey the same message why does she have to be so mean
so she may like it or not but the house is run by another person is it a crime to inform her when she will be back..
i agree II made a mistake but she didnt murder someone and she doesnt deserve to cry ..
If my SIL forgot food for me i would trust that its a mistake and just have anything thats available or make something but wouldnt want to make my 2 month old SIL feel bad

Swati... I beg to differ..

I knew it, Manny will be a spoil sport, poor II, even though she made a mistake, it was done unthinkingly nd now she is talking to herself and crying feeling bad.

Marvelous update Nisha! The way you described the small real time incidence in life is just astonishing. Everyone of us can relate to these situations. II is comparing her situations to amma and akka. Everyday new lesson for her in MM.

The dinner date was really good. Ranjan is getting little happy moments in life because of II. He is also worried about AGM😔. Don't know what Nisha has stored for us?

I also have SIL but I never behaved as Manny 🤣. I know my Lakshman Rekha!

Originally posted by: Ashu25

Swati... I beg to differ..

Manny needs ro understand here as well!!

She suddenly disappears from the scene and does not inform anybody at home if she is returning, is that called responsibility?!?!!

How ever wealthy you are you learn to be responsible firat. She is living all by herself in sone distant land , we can expect some sorta maturity here

M not denying MM is not her home. But she as a daughter has to know she has ro accommodate new memvers into family! Not all days will be like when they were young. Her brother is married, his wife has all rights to look after tge hoise just as she has rights over MM

Originally posted by: swathi1990

Sure.. till now she never had to inform anyone...so just like old times she would expect mahavir to be there illa ???? How would she know that suddenly II changed the rules and let the help go ??? Now that she knows this, she will be more careful and let mahavir know that she will be coming late...

Sure it is II's home as well and she can make decisions...but before sending the help, why didnt she think of manny at all...she wuld have thought of ranjan and r&B for food illa...but she left manny and did not even call her to know whether she will come back or not ??? That is wrong...

Yes mistake hogaya II se .. why cant II be a baby why should everyone learn to be mature .. why should every one be a naari mahan bahu taking care.Why should II become a Sam or a Vanditha. I dont want II mature i want her impulsive and crazy .

She made a mistake she sent the help out since they were going on out, she didnt know , she is willing to cook . its clearly a mistake hota hai all of us do that.
Yes Iyer house or any house she would have been clobbered so in MM too she will get clobbered but i think if some one does things to purposefully hurt and be mean they should be clobbered and when its completely unintentional then why make a big deal.
I wont take ur Ikkat, i will ridicule ur culture and food, watch when my brother makes out with his wife, knock at middle of the nite , enter without knocking how is she different from the chachi clan folks.

This is Manny's house too i agree she has suddenly decided to make it her own again and give up her PHD and taunt Ranjan and R&B and treat II like dirt like Chachi does is not right and yes some rules change and it will change for both Manny and II , just like it changed for R&B and Ranjan and II for that matter.
I know this is how Manny will react my point is its not right..I get manny's point but i still feel thats mean and not needed.

On the break for 5 minutes, loved the last 2 updates, shopping and dinner was a good family affair.

manny's behaviour is not justifiable as a well behaved one.but it is almost exactly what happens in real life...you can meet a lot of manyas in real world and actually samyuktas are difficult to be found...

Anu.. Lovely reply!!