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Posted: 10 years ago
I'm not at all speaking from experience since I am the oldest in my immediate family and have yet to go through the trials and tribulations of married life, but this is my point of view and how I see things.
When you grow up as the baby, I think its tough to adjust to a place where you are expected to be mature, responsible, and completely sorted. There will always be moments of weakness and distress, much more in the beginning, when you will fail to realize that your actions after marriage affect a whole new set of people in different ways than they did before marriage. Going back to DII so suddenly or taking out your anger against one person onto another are symptoms and manifestations of that distress. With time, it will be easier to manage those symptoms and treat them with a dose of rationality so the angst does not spin so far out of control.
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Hsp.canada

I agree II should not run everytime she encounter an issues. II is impulsive and she was hurt. Vandu is doing the right thing and giving her guidance. It takes time to understand your spouse,family and expectation. She is new to all this cut her some slack 😆😆😆 it's fiction so we all want perfect, in reality the girl would be calling her frds, siblings and talking about it and looking for advice. Another thing with II is, she was very pampered and treated like a child at DII but at MM she is just learning to be the lady of the house and nobody turns mature overnight when you go from being Ms to Mrs. Speaking from experience 😆


I echoed almost these exact thoughts in another post Shev without realizing that you had posted this already. 😊
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Posted: 10 years ago
Internet funnies 😆
Sorry for the bad humor. 😳

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Posted: 10 years ago
R&B and II both are right and wrong in their places at the same time
Practically and sensibly R&B must not have been so nasty in the way he responded to her and II should not have come to DII for so long but the best part is both of them dont sweet talk or butter each other they are frank and the themselves with each other and I respect the relationship they share cos this is what matters
They might have issues but they will solve it even if they take their own sweet time they will solve it

About II coming to DII its a very clear act she needs to be constantly reminded that R&B needs her in his life we all know she is doubtful about what they both have so all this to feel important its clear in the sentence if he could not sleep without me he should have come to take me back Tuesday night itself that she wanted him to come tale her, she wants to hear it from him that she matters.she fears that a guy who doesn't care for his own fathers hurt might not care for her on day too.

And R&B's reaction is ungaurded and honest
He has lost his mother and has been in great pain and everybody keeps pushing him to talk to ranjan (no I don't think ranjan is guilty but R&B does) he is tired of hearing it from everybody,even more frustrated that he has to live in the same house with all the memories and II saying it was the last nail to the coffin his composture snapped
Plus he is possessive and could not just bear II fighting with him being on somebody else's side... It must have been hurtful
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Posted: 10 years ago
Wow, I read the last two updates B2B, am very happy shappy...( actually thanks to 12hr pwer cut) seems to be getting repetitive...I know😉
BTW, I loved the heart to heart b/w sisters...very happy that they share such a close bond without any sibling rivalry, jealousy and envy. It could be so easily the other way.
Loved the texting b/w Vandu and dude...
Appa so happy that II was staying over😆
Typical reasoning of II...usually many newly married wives do this I think, let him come and get me types...😉

How will II manage the financial troubles???? Will she confess to the dude, ask him for a loan and again piss him off?

So the dude has turned up???? Aage kya hone wala, sab padiye SoSy, jaan ne ke liye bahut betaab hoon.

Will come back after preparing breakfast...
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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: namratha.shree

R&B and II both are right and wrong in their places at the same time
Practically and sensibly R&B must not have been so nasty in the way he responded to her and II should not have come to DII for so long but the best part is both of them dont sweet talk or butter each other they are frank and the themselves with each other and I respect the relationship they share cos this is what matters
They might have issues but they will solve it even if they take their own sweet time they will solve it

About II coming to DII its a very clear act she needs to be constantly reminded that R&B needs her in his life we all know she is doubtful about what they both have so all this to feel important its clear in the sentence if he could not sleep without me he should have come to take me back Tuesday night itself that she wanted him to come tale her, she wants to hear it from him that she matters.she fears that a guy who doesn't care for his own fathers hurt might not care for her on day too.

And R&B's reaction is ungaurded and honest
He has lost his mother and has been in great pain and everybody keeps pushing him to talk to ranjan (no I don't think ranjan is guilty but R&B does) he is tired of hearing it from everybody,even more frustrated that he has to live in the same house with all the memories and II saying it was the last nail to the coffin his composture snapped
Plus he is possessive and could not just bear II fighting with him being on somebody else's side... It must have been hurtful


You hit the nail on the head with that Namratha. 👏
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Posted: 10 years ago

If II was all practical and behaved per the books...then she wouldn't be II right? There would be no story. Expecting a perfect reaction to every situation is far fetched imo. Whether we like it or not, she did what she did and will learn to better deal with R&B eventually ... but overnight expecting her to get the hang of reading through R&B's mind is being too harsh on her. She is reactive and that R&B certainly knows - In the same breath R&B is an introvert and that II knows as well ...

R&B is just being himself I would think, yes he was harsh spiteful and deliberate. And I bet somewhere deep down he knows that as well... I would give him time to speculate and recognise that he is not alone in it any more - like it or not II is as much vested in his grief as he is. What affects him affects her...

As far as babies are concerned, if this was for real... I am all with II...damn...they are just 2 months into this marriage...But for the romance part of it, a freak accident would make it an exciting read...😉

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Posted: 10 years ago
SoSy's II (Intelligence Index, Intrigue Index, Influentiality Index) increases with each new update.😕

Yes, how's she going to handle her financial worries, how's her role as a wife, a daughter in law, and (what looks like the inevitable😊) role of a mother...going to evolve...is all interesting to see.
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Posted: 10 years ago
This is such a powerful video...do check it out if you have a chance. 😊

Zenosyne: The Sense That Time Keeps Going Faster
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Posted: 10 years ago
10 o clock!!!present ma'am!!! 😊

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