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Ashu25

@Ashu25

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Posted: 10 years ago

#551

II recklessly coming off to her parents is understandable cause she was mighty pissed with the dude. I agree she should not have done that. Must have stayed back or must have informed the dude also she was leaving... Its totally a different story that he will even allow her to move an inch after that 😆

Akka texting the dude.. I agree she has all rights over II and she is doing it for her good only. Am just worried ki II might in a fit of rage hurt Vandu... Vandu is trying her best to drill some sense into her sister but texting her husband about it... Pata nahi...

And its not that she is interfering. I know II will be slapped if she ever mentions the word cause she knoes she lied and she is here cause she fought.

Am very sure appa and amma wont appreciate it... But usse those din uss bande se dur hi rehne dete hai yaar.

He is disappointed greatly too. When he didnt want to discuss it, he should have told her sternly. But he was nasty. He could have been ignored by her living under the same roof. But she chose to run away.

Am sure there will be a war again now.

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SAKIV

@SAKIVIAM

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Posted: 10 years ago

#552

I support RnB this time as always.

I hope he says I have to go to paris for a week.

and should not speak with II.Why should RnB take first step always.

She can do whatever she like.she is angry she came to D II without informing him.And he can't be angry with her.

I just wish RnB just speaks with Vandu and Amma and leave telling he is going Paris for urgent work.

he Ashu

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@nividances

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Posted: 10 years ago

#553

I don't find II to be wrong here. She married into a house where the only two other people who live under the same roof as her treat each other just cordially, essentially as acquaintances and nothing more. She doesn't know everything about what transpired between them, or even the entirety of the complex relationship that exists between them and Harish & Sons.

II is trying to navigate through her new life and relationships using the bits and pieces of information she has been exposed to thus far, which, if you think about it, is not a lot at all. It is like knowing the general direction in which you have to travel and knowing the names of a few scattered side streets, but not at all knowing the address of the place you have to reach, how far you have to travel, or how many turns you have to make. It's like driving at night, where your headlights are only able to illuminate the road a few feet in front of you and you have no idea of what lies even half a mile ahead. So basically, you have to trudge along through the journey, make a few wrong turns, take a couple of U-turns, and try your best to not get completely lost along the way.

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janani

@janani_divan

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Posted: 10 years ago

#554

Awesome update,R&B with clean shave,showered,smiling;-).Ii is selfish ,childish ,she only thinks about her feelings,her situation y cant she understand what R&B wants,needs,what he feels about his dad.y she always think she is right?kudko boss samaj thahai vo.some times i feel she want attention,pampering.MM IS NOT LIKE D II,She should learn from vandy akka and sam.vandy akka teach her how to behave with R&B.I DONT FEEL II LEARN AND FOLLOW WHAT VANDY AKKA,AMMA THOUGHT HER.R&B RUN PARIS,ITS BETTER TREATMENT TO II.she only care for ranjan,she never message R&B ,Y she expecting message from R&B.y he always to take first step.im expecting lasya in next update.

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Hsp.canada

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Posted: 10 years ago

#555

Originally posted by: SAKIV-RAM
I support RnB this time as always.

I hope he says I have to go to paris for a week.
and should not speak with II.Why should RnB take first step always.
She can do whatever she like.she is angry she came to D II without informing him.And he can't be angry with her.

I just wish RnB just speaks with Vandu and Amma and leave telling he is going Paris for urgent work.

he Ashu
is this your twitter handle
Ashu_22o5

I agree II should not run everytime she encounter an issues. II is impulsive and she was hurt. Vandu is doing the right thing and giving her guidance. It takes time to understand your spouse,family and expectation. She is new to all this cut her some slack 😆😆😆 it's fiction so we all want perfect, in reality the girl would be calling her frds, siblings and talking about it and looking for advice. Another thing with II is, she was very pampered and treated like a child at DII but at MM she is just learning to be the lady of the house and nobody turns mature overnight when you go from being Ms to Mrs. Speaking from experience 😆

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Ashu25

@Ashu25

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Posted: 10 years ago

#556

Nivi I second you.

He need not be nasty. The same words could have been spoken a bit more diligently!

She is not completely aware of the dynamics in the father son relation either.

I am not sure if what she did is right or wrong cause to me it is right in a way and she not informing her husband is a little wrong. Who doesnt lie to parwnts ki all is well after marriage?!?

I dont find II weing here. Vandu's attempts to bring the couple togetger are appreciated but she could simply leave them alone too.

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SAKIV

@SAKIVIAM

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Posted: 10 years ago

#557

then what about her statement.

when she got angry on her parents and removed it on RnB .

I guess tuesday after RnB came from Geneva.

She directly hurt him .

she said sorry though but she did hurt him .

She never thinks of her actions she just wan't everything to be her way.

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Nivi ;)

@nividances

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Posted: 10 years ago

#558

With respect to II being more attached to her maayka as opposed to her sasural, I don't see anything wrong in her behavior there either. She has lived with her parents for 27 years of her life and so it is perhaps instinctual that under times of even the minutest of stresses, she reaches out to her amma, appa, periappa, and akka. She has not been married for even three months yet, so how can she be expected to not make mistakes, to not behave childishly, to not act impulsively? She has been the child and life of DII for so many years that it will take time for her to adjust to the role of a bahu of a serious and stoic Malcha Marg that has been rocked to the core from the events that transpired four years ago.

Of course II can learn a lot from Vandita and Samyukta; after all, they have both been married for so long that they could give her a huge list of do's and don'ts. However, I am a strong believer in the idea that the biggest lessons in life are learned by living rather than being taught. For instance, every child is taught by their parents not to this and not to do that, but every child makes mistakes, gets hurt, and learns from their experiences. As important as it is to listen to others and take their advice, in the end you have to do what feels most right for you. It is the same case with II. Vandu, amma, and Sam can give her all of their collective knowledge of married life and how to behave "properly," but in the end, II still needs to carve out her own path for herself. Vandu is married to Bala, amma to appa, and Sam to Tan, but II is not married to either of these men, she is married to R&B. She needs to adjust to life at Malcha Marg and learn to be more patient, understanding, and forgiving, just as he needs to cut her some slack and be more open with her. They both need to grow and mature together in ways that cannot be taught, just lived and learned from experience.

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ishruhi

@ishruhi

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Posted: 10 years ago

#559

there is nothing completely right or completely wrong...but this is the way most of the people react.she knows a lil bit about the dynamics in MM and wants to get an atmosphere like II.and when he told her to stop she thinks why should I?and now she considers only the fact that he scolded her...baki she will give a thought only later...