How should Ishita React regarding Subbu?

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Viji15

@Viji15

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Posted: 10 years ago

Finally a track where we get to have some good conversations!🥳

So after the last two episode, people are questioning Ishita's behavior toward Subu, including my self.

I also feel that Ishita's character is kind of cornered no matter what she does she will be wronged. She can't just simply forgive and be normal...cause that against the societal norms, cause we have to understand Subbu did have all of her love at one point ...

Here she is reacting, but this contradicting to what she told Raman regarding Shagun and moving on from her past...

So my question is how should Ishita react? Whats more right according to you guys?

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anjali

@nancysa

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Posted: 10 years ago

Her feelings are right becoz she does not trust subbu now as she is thinking why he has come into her life all of a sudden now..she is happy with raman

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jaya321

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Posted: 10 years ago

Ishita should follow what she preached to Raman. What was her famous preachy bench convo back in June last year? "Raman you should let go of things and forgive her(Shagun), she's not your wife anymore. You don't have to hate her. Hate is a strong emotion and you should have no emotion towards her."

If Ishita can force/influence Raman and Mihir to forgive Shagun, why can't she forgive Subbu? Ishita CLEARLY told Raman and Mihir to forgive Shagun back in September after Mihir's Tilak ceremony and that time Shagun was not alone either. She had her the then fiance Ashok and son Adi by her side.

what Shagun did to Raman, Subbu hadn't done even 1/100 th of that to Ishita.

And if Ishita has really moved on, then why would she hold grudges against Subbu? Rather she should be thankful to him because she's got Raman and Ruhi in her life for that.

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--Megha--

@--Megha--

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Posted: 10 years ago

Anger n disgust is obvious considering Subbu was her past.

But cvs r showing that Ishita is unhappy thinking about Subbu enjoying his family with wife n kid, this shows she still has attachment towards Subbu even if it is in form or hatred or resentment of unfulfilled wishes.

Ishita herself said in past she has moved on from her past, Raman shud forgive Shagun etc. This makes her human finally n not a Devi who ties her sautan's hair or feeds her soup.

This is thrown at us just to create drama. So that this track drags for another month for KP's absence.

If we see Ishita during Shravan's thread ceremony she felt sad seeing Subbu with his wife but she did not think much about it, she was more concerned about adopting a child then, she had clearly moved on.

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ishra00

@ishra00

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Posted: 10 years ago

I guess when she wl come to knw abt Subbu wife 's death, she wl be super happy (as per her stupid logic of forgiving people) and thn she wl forgive subbu and thats the day she wl invite prob in her life. How contrast CV hav portrayed her view in this matter from normal person. while normal person wold think that since he lost his wife n child , he came to win her back n create prob in her life.

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Nithi06

@Nithi06

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Posted: 10 years ago

Interesting question

I don't have an answer for this because Subbu track just started, we don't know how Ishita will react to it as the story just starts progress .Any judgement at this point according to me is either favoritism for Ishita or people just wants to point faults at her. As the situation at hand isn't easy.

so far her reactions is quite real if I had a past like her,...I wouldn't want to do anything with my ex either and its not a matter of forgiveness...i think most of us would.

Edited by Nithi06 - 10 years ago

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Pooja2311

@Pooja2311

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Nithi06
Interesting question

I don't have an answer for this because Subbu track just started, we don't know how Ishita will react to it as the story just starts progress .Any judgement at this point according to me is either favoritism for Ishita or people just wants to point faults at her. As the situation at hand isn't easy.

so far her reactions is quite real if I had a past like her,...I wouldn't want to do anything with my ex either and its not a matter of forgiveness...i think most of us would.

Well, people wouldn't have questioned her if she followed the same step with Raman and Shagun. She forced Raman to forgive Shagun and now she can't do it in her own case.

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sunitas123

@sunitas123

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Pooja_Chavan

Well, people wouldn't have questioned her if she followed the same step with Raman and Shagun. She forced Raman to forgive Shagun and now she can't do it in her own case.

Not just that she brough Shagun home, right? But that was for Adi. Shagun has kids and hence Raman needs to interact with her whether he likes it or not, so he might as well take less stress. But with Subbu, she had spent her whole life planning everything with him, she was ditched and his mom even today leaves no oppty to humiliate her. So why shud she even look at Subbu now? And if u see, he has come back coz his wife and child r dead. he is uhappy so he may now want Ishita to be happy, even though right now he is using Ruhi to get thru to her. Ishita is right- she did not want subbu close to Ruhi.

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Nithi06

@Nithi06

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Posted: 10 years ago

Originally posted by: Pooja_Chavan

Well, people wouldn't have questioned her if she followed the same step with Raman and Shagun. She forced Raman to forgive Shagun and now she can't do it in her own case.

Shagun track wasn't just two days old...Give some time to Ishita is all what I'm saying , from pre-cap Raman seems like he will play a role in making Ishita forgive Subbu..

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Pooja2311

@Pooja2311

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Posted: 10 years ago

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Originally posted by: sunitas123

Not just that she brough Shagun home, right? But that was for Adi. Shagun has kids and hence Raman needs to interact with her whether he likes it or not, so he might as well take less stress. But with Subbu, she had spent her whole life planning everything with him, she was ditched and his mom even today leaves no oppty to humiliate her. So why shud she even look at Subbu now? And if u see, he has come back coz his wife and child r dead. he is uhappy so he may now want Ishita to be happy, even though right now he is using Ruhi to get thru to her. Ishita is right- she did not want subbu close to Ruhi.

Well, first time she brought Shagun to old Bhalla house without consulting anyone and didn't consider Raman's plight. And, now she's trying to hide from Subbu. That seems contradictory.

@Bold: Your point is logical. I wouldn't have anything to say if she had said what you wrote. But what did Ishita say? She said she can't forgive Subbu coz he's enjoying his married life with his wife n kid! That means she still got affected remembering those broken or unsullied dream. She is not happy as she is not there with him. She still thinks she should have been there. That is clearly not a sign of a woman who has moved on from her past.

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