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Finally my deadline is done...and I am back to

Congrates to sweet 16 thread..nisha di.thanks for your sosy..love u.
Is im missed any update?
Hi ashu!:-)

Janani, no you did not miss any update on this topic.

Ashu sorry went off to bed, fighting an awful cold as I write.
Swathi: Apaada enge poneyo nenaichen😆

EN: Sam is not disappointed that II is just like any other girl, Sam is shocked she is so different that she didnt expect her to react this way, she was hoping for someone like her, but didnt fully understand "What someone like II would be like"


Swara sometimes discussions take crazy turns sometimes they just float lazily

Arshi: I see you are back to point out "communication". I will go back to telling you, TALKING is over rated,😆 I can have R&B and II talk for 6 chapters straight. a handful might love it, the rest on this topic would definitely hate it. This is more dramatic. I am not giving anyone marriage lessons or relationship advice so I will keep the relationship patchy and crooked.

Even the most "communicative" relationships are flawed. We want to believe its not. I dont want to disappoint you, so I am warning you😆 if you are expecting them NEVER to fight again, and always get along, then that wont happen in this story😉 I write for fun, I am not writing with a motive to provide marital advice or anything, so I promise to maintain the same disharmony until the very end😆 In an ideal world people dont repeat their mistakes, this story is not set in that world so everyone will repeat their mistakes, commit more serious too😆 over and over again

THANK YOU ALL FOR READING

So troubles in MM...

Originally posted by: adlin1784

Hello everyone.

Congratulations Nisha on this new thread !!!!!

🥳👏👏

Originally posted by: janani_divan

Congrates to sweet 16 thread..nisha di.thanks for your sosy..love u.
Is im missed any update?
Hi ashu!:-)

Nisha!!!

Originally posted by: EnVee

Ayyo! That nasty cold is getting shipped across borders and trading noses.

Take care. I ran away early from office to get off the AC.

Originally posted by: TheSunShine

You are right as only you can question and be answerable to questions about self respect ,sense of correctness is also dependent on ones perception. For II sending a new laptop felt the right and correct thing to do. Manny has flamed her belief that she will be looked upon as a gold digger for marrying R&B, its her perception that she is proving herself correct that she is not after money by sending the laptop even if it is crushing her financial state. She is coming from her earlier talk with manny about the flat and her assertion that Iyers will now visit the flat more, that she is into the marriage for money. She has a set principles and she is rigid to follow them however flawed they are

I have to disagree with this. II is completely reckless in sending the laptop to Manny, without talking to Sam . Did she think that Manny will be happy and keep quiet after receiving the laptop. By doing that she appeared to be trying too hard , which can have adverse effect. Inorder to prove her so called self respect she is projecting herself to be desperate and clueless. Sam did not expect this from II. She thought II to be a sensible girl who might help in keeping the bhalla house together and her trust came crashing down with this childish behavior of II. It takes time for that trust to come back.
Agree what Manny implied regarding the flat is degrading. But II can show her self respect by not using the flat. Same way she showed them by buying Appa Hyundai rather than giving a Maruti from Bhalla showroom.
Why is II not worried about the data in the laptop. As a woman who works in software field, she should be more worried about the data.