faulty sense of security n pampering can do d opp of wht Bhallas want - Page 5

Originally posted by: Mreddy

I don't have an iota of sympathy for Raman and Ishita.They should feel the hurt and pain caused by them to Ruhi. Ishita has illusions of grandeur or mahanta that she expects Ruhi to understand her intentions after brutally abandoning her in the court...and I don't know what to say for Raman...where is his yearning and longing for his daughter..I have seen him pining for Adi but never that much for Ruhi...He cries if Ishita is sad for Ruhi..but he was talking about her jumping on the bed..like some fond memories as if she went to visit some relatives house.

Also when he brought her home, he thought or expected Ruhi to go hug Ishita and evrything is fine etc, both of them did not have a clue about the depth of her pain. Raman expected her to be still the same sensible, loving kid...I think now he got some idea about the damage they caused her and the pain and hurt she is going through.

I am sadistic, but I want Ishita and Raman to feel the more pain of being rejected by the one person who loved them both unconditionally. I would like Ruhi to reject Raman advances etc,,now he is all the more concerned about keeping Ishita happy etc..

Originally posted by: kuls_n

nice post shalz..

i do agree with u.. bcoz even am in teaching feild n have seen many kids.. though am not a parent i couldnt say wat they r doing is exactly right or wrong..

but at present they r trying to give a normal environment to a kid who felt that he should suicide bcoz he is being neglected n he thinks that he is the reason for ruhi seperation from the house..so may be to comfort him they r doing this..

yes ofcourrse am in ruhi's team so mujhe bahuth gussa aaya..

even i liked the yesterday's epispde but couldnt connect with few scenes properly..

exactly the one u said na raman being over excited abt bringing games to adi n playing with him..

mujhe toh bahuth gussa aaya

n the most weirdest relation in yhm is ishra...

one day they show 10 steps forward in der relation n the very next day they show 1000 steps backward..

i mean wat the hell is wrong with the cvs..

we all saw that just the day before yesterday.. ishu was gonna sleep on the couch even with her wound leg.. n yesterday they showed raman changing his dress wen ishu was der.. though i liked the scene...

but the cvs r failing miserably to show the gradual progression in a husband n wife relation

Originally posted by: appuss

Agree with u... tmrw adi would want shagun too or he may feel jealous if ruhi comes back... then what will bhallas do?

They never tried having a normal conversation with him stating the facts.

Last few episodes really took away my intrest from the show.

Reading LUs i could not believe raman was actually enjoying with adi after literally abandoning his daughter.

I am so done with this crap.

Sadly ruhi was and is an unwanted child.

Originally posted by: vidya_prasad

Good post dear...

Its just no logic.Adi should know that Ruhi is suffering.

Why need of covering the matter ?

Seriously Bhalla parivar need a doc...not dentist.

Originally posted by: _DarkLady_

Poignant post Shalz.

Actually, I think they're not trying to tell him he is the only one and his little sister has vanished in thin air, but, they want to tell him he is not the one responsible for Ruhi's tragedy and Ishita's pain. Aadi thinks he is the reason why everyone is suffering and that's why the atitude of suicide, no? I think they are making him comfortable, because the damage is already done in the past years and that is not going to recover in a jiffy... and if the foundations are scarred they can't proceed forward to shape him.😊

Did I make sense, or justified their attitude insanely?😕

Parenting is not the same experience for all, it vary person to person. But, I think parents should be right amount of jolliness and strictness, adequate portions of liberation and captivation. At the end of the day they're whom we can keep ourselves on and cry, and in times shout at them ranting the frustrations. In true sense, they should be the friend, philosopher and guide.

PS : I am not well connected to the show recently. Just caught a glimpse today. So, if my inputs do not match with the reality, please don't mind me and feel free to correct.😆

Originally posted by: anjs

very good post Shalz...

the problems with the Bhalla's is that the cv's tend to go overboard, to show drama...hence the GKC rant, leading to an award winning CEO signing papers without reading...

so its logical of us to not expect any logic from them...right from the beginning, the cv;s have raised important issues only to make a mockery of them...

Raman's insecurity with his wife...Adi's psychological treatment...Romi's playboy ways and now his health problem...all were serious issues, but were dealt with so much casualness...

when they started with this suicide drama, i knew they wud not show a Bhalla;s using a proper medical channel to solve it...

in general, such issues need counselling for the entire family...but the cv's dont have brains to show all that...they just need trp;s and tracks that create drama...

when they made blunder in serious court-related scenes, then its futile to ecen expect on our part, that they wud show something logical...for them its just business...they dont mind whatever message they send across, to the masses

Originally posted by: shalz_123

@bold...that is an interesting POV... u did make some sense...😆 but then again..it has always been this kinda attitude when it comes to Adi... which cant be good in the long run...n i hoping they want a long run/permanent solution, rather than scratching the superficial layer...

thansk for commenting Ms Dark Lady... (why wud be refered as that...if i may ask...?)

Originally posted by: shalz_123

thank u for commenting mreddy... lovey post... in a way...i also want them to be sad n understand what ruhi is going thru...

@bold..bang on...tht is exctly what my thoughts are...

Originally posted by: _DarkLady_

Oh I am relieved that I made sense😆
It's my luck I came across such a wonderful post😊
Please call me Piu... 😃