Nothing made sense today *Collage on pg 20* - Page 9

Originally posted by: stylish_VJ

Next set of questions...How could Raman NOT THINK OF RUHI?...fine he wants whats best for Aditya any parent would...but what about Ruhi?

Remember last year after Holi scene? Rmaan makes Ishita apologize to Adi and Shagun and that act causes for him to fall in Ruhi's eyes. In his heart to heart with his mom he promises that he will never let her down, that he will henceforth become that father her innocent eyes keep searching...he also tells about how Betiyaan bhi jigar ka tukda hai...so where is all that?

How can he let Ruhi suffer at the hands of Shagun? Hasn't he seen what Shagun is capable of when Adi came into the picture and up until a week ago? Why should Ruhi understand and accpet any of this when she knows nothing. When she has no clue about anything...when she has been kept in the dark?

No matter what lets not forget that Ruhi is just 6-7 years old...At such a small age life has taught her many things and she has matured before age but does that mean that it's a criteria which should be taken advantage of? That this quality of Ruhi's should be exploited?

Originally posted by: Veeann

I just deleted today's epi from my ipad.

Now, I am rewatching old epis, and when I get my muse back, I am going to go write my FF. That's much more fun than watching YHM at the moment. Think I'll give next week a miss.

Doc gave me some great songs which I'm going to use in the next few updates, but does anyone have a song that would fit this scenario - a woman going along with an arranged marriage scenario but feeling a hopeless love for someone else??? ( Sorry G, using your thread for other purposes)

Originally posted by: .TIA.

Hellooo guys 😛
I have nothing much to say. Lots is already been said n im bloody hell lost n confused so no point trying to ramble😆 😆
one thing I do want to say. DTs fracture probably saved us today, otherwise I felt cvs had made full plans of ruining RKB 😕 😕 So if tht would have been the case...DT ke fracture ki Jai Ho 🤣 🤣

Originally posted by: sunitas123

You know this scenario was very common in a no of old Hindi movies, esp the hero crying when his herione is getting married elsewhere-

Mere dushman tu meri dosti ko tarse

mujhe gam dene wale tu khushi ko tarse

or

hum tumse juda hoke mar jayenge ro ro ke

or

dost dost na raha, pyaar pyaar na raha

zindagi hume tera aitbaar na raha

or

aashqui imtihaan leti hai, aashikon ki jaan leti hai

Originally posted by: Chessy

One thing beats me... Adi is a teenager who wants to stay with Raman, I am sure his words would be felt strongly by the courts given his age. If these guys can get Ruhi's case opened in 2 days, what is stopping them from talking to Adi, swapping Ruhi and open custody case and get immediate custody stating psychological reason. They have the shrink and her reports to prove their case? Where is the bloody need to sacrifice Ruhi?

Where did everyone leave their brains?

Originally posted by: Veeann

Thank you yaar. I am in the mood to watch an old melodramatic Rajendra Kumar movie now 😆

Originally posted by: shadeslayer

"When a child first catches adults out -- when it first walks into his grave little head that adults do not always have divine intelligence, that their judgments are not always wise, their thinking true, their sentences just -- his world falls into panic desolation. The gods are fallen and all safety gone. And there is one sure thing about the fall of gods: they do not fall a little; they crash and shatter or sink deeply into green muck. It is a tedious job to build them up again; they never quite shine. And the child's world is never quite whole again. It is an aching kind of growing."

John Steinbeck, East of Eden

RES- An entire episode simply made up of justifications of what is to come. Shagun is already obliterated by that slimy green muck- Raman just entered that muck , Ishita will too- soon. Where are the damn feels? I don't feel any today.

Let's look at things from Ruhi' perspective. Ignored for 6 yrs by her father, no clue about her biological mother- loving family- but craves for her parents love. Finds her family through Ishita. Has twice faced the fear of losing her family forever ( Both custody cases). Has a deep-seated insecurity that she will be abandoned again- but is time and again assured by both her parents that they would never do that to her. This assurance makes her confident- In front of Shagun and the world (Lohri incident). Now suddenly- the assurances seem void- She is publically, brutally abandoned by her parents-promises made are broken. She is shattered. How long can her 7 yr old fragile mind hold up against the mental case that her biological mother is? From where she sees it- she was abandoned by the one person she always stood by- for her brother. How will she ever forgive- and if she does forgive, how will she ever forget?

Where is the Raman who guarded something as sensitive, beautiful, essential in a relationship like intimacy? Especially after being betrayed by his ex? How is Ishita going to trust his romantic advances in the future? As per the CV's- through selective amnesia. Well- we viewers do not have that liberty of erasing huge chunks of what is shown to us. How do we see another romantic moment and not remember this one that was tarnished by the intent. The ends DO NOT ALWAYS justify the means.

Where is Ishita whose selfishness made her run away. How did she give up on her miracle? Logically- Shagun can be proved as incompetent- they get both kids- but hell- how would they use children to milk the drama for TRPs then???? Yeah right- so exploit them. Disgusting TRP gimmick. This track could have been executed much much better- but unfortunately - it's not.

The kids are the worst sufferers- The parents- Unable to parent. Then what message are the CV's giving? Just one- There are NO second chances. A second chance is a delusion. Bas. Rant over.